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So yeah this girl looked like one of those milf pornstars. In her 40s big tits with no sag, big ass very soft and bouncy, and to top it off she wasn’t overweight despite how big her assets were hahaha lol
So you can imagine my disbelief when I got her number
I’d only expect to get a girl like this when I’m more experienced
Here’s the approach:
walk up to her outside of the apartment complex, maybe am 10 feet away when I open, frontal approach but she is walking perpendicular to me
My voice is loud and clear, I do my opener, direct, we shake hands and exchange names
then the person with autism that I’m watching makes a loud noise, he doesn’t like strangers, I was walking with him back to the apartments
I then introduce my autistic buddy to her. He’s severely autistic so he doesn’t even look at her, but I explain to her that I’m a direct support professional and I support this guy. I can feel her empathy for my friend in her nonverbals, she talks about how her bosses kid is autistic.
I then compare our jobs saying being a paralegal sounds harder, she says my job is harder
I offer grabbing coffee sometime, while pointing at the Starbucks in her hand and saying “something better than Starbucks, I know a lot of good places” (it pays to only go on coffee dates, I know like all the coffee shops in the area lol)
she says yes and I get her number
I felt in control and grounded during this, except when my friend made that sound. Kinda stressed me out I have to make sure his needs are met but he didn’t seem very upset so continued talking to her. That added a little stress to things but I don’t think it showed
okay now for the texting;
just some short small talk and then I go for a hard close.
she takes over 24 hours to respond to the ask out text, I think she’s pretty busy as a paralegal
we were talking about hiking so we decided to hike instead of coffee
last minute she asks if I mind if she can bring the dog she’s dog sitting
I say “I do mind, but I do like dogs. Maybe we can do that next time”
I didn’t want to do a hard no because then I’m the dude who hates dogs, this way I look more reasonable and sure second date having a dog is better then on a first date. 1st impressions are important and a dog in the mix could make things less intimate and personal. Didn’t want another variable.
The date:
I end up going to the coffee shop that is for my date on Tuesday. I get things mixed up because I use this coffee shop as my go to for dates, it’s in a nice neighborhood with two parks near by that are great for making out and stuff, but anyways, She calls me and asks where I am. Im like oh shit it’s supposed be a hike. I tell her I got things mixed up bc I was gonna meet my friend for coffee sometime this week. I offer to drive over to the hiking spot it’s not too far and then we hang up.
I ate dinner at the coffee shop so I wasn’t hungry I was feeling good
we meet up at the trail
she’s wearing the tightest athletic tank top, her tits look so good, impressive for being natural
and she’s wearing tight black Nike yoga pants, I can see everything, I’m so excited
As we walk we get into convo, we connect well fairly quickly, more serious than flirty.
I test the waters with a couple shoulder taps, she reacts neutrally about them
I do arm around the shoulder and she’s a bit colder but not by a lot
and transition into more flirty stuff, it loosens the vibe. We’re still talking about meaningful things I just joke here and there.
we hold hands a little bit, but she does it awkwardly, I ask her about it,
Earlier she mentioned one of her sons is my age. Kinda crazy they must have kids at a younger age in Egypt. I deal with age objection, and we continued talking
but it comes up again when we hold hands, she says she’s awkward bc I’m her sons age.
I counter objection again, saying it’s no big deal, our age difference actually has some benefits we can learn from our different perspectives
she agrees again
when we’re 60 percent of the way into the hike, I’m able to hold her hand and put my arm around her waist for long periods of time, I just alternate between the two
then I stop her, lean in, she smiled a little and moved her head, I say I’m just going for the cheek. I kiss her cheek. I ask her why she was uncomfortable, she mentions the son thing again
I say the awkwardness will go away with time, she nods
I kiss her cheek a couple mor times throughout the hike. Also hugs, one time I hugged her from behind and her ass pressed up against my dick, damn it was so soft and felt so good lol
She brings up the age one last time, and this time because the hike is ending soon, I decide to crush the objection
I used the sales trick, ask her what her specific objection is and she tells me because of the age difference we are too different
then I use all of what she’s told me during the hike to my advantage
I say we’re both hard workers who like to achieve and she says but we like different things for fun, so I explain how she likes to relax and hang out with her friends for fun and I talk about how I just watch movies with my friends and go for leisurely hikes. After countering the objection I ask her one final time, do you still have a problem with the age and she says no
we walk back to her car, we hug goodbye (twice) man, her big tits feel good against my chest. I say “so I’ll see you again sometime” not really as a question I didn’t have that kind of inflection, was more of a statement. She says “sure, (with a smile) text me”
And that’s that
I would like to go over some things I missed:
some of the topics we covered:
(In order)
1. Her sons, school, the school I go to
2. How Egypt is different than America
3. How both of our mothers have Alzheimer’s
4. Her biggest accomplishments compared my upbringing and how it brought me success
So yeah some deep diving in there
Compliance wise she had to wait for me to arrive, she was following my lead on the trail the whole time, letting me touch her sexually etc.
With arousal, I was aware of how receptive she was and adjusted accordingly while still being persistent. I’ve noticed as long as she feels nuetral about you touching her, if you touch her enough and fractionate properly, you’ll be able to escalate at a steady pace
This girl was similar to the last FR in that she had reservations on touch, just for different reasons
I had to go slow, ideally a smoother sexier me would have been able to get the lay, but for now making it to a second date is a success. Her objection was pretty understandable so it was good I was still able to escalate
after the date later that night I text her;
“I enjoyed spending time with you today”
her: “me too
“
during the date she mentioned how she liked frank sinatra when we were talking about music, so I decided to comment on it during text as a convo starter
“this is my favorite frank Sinatra song, have you heard of it?”
(sends through Spotify)
i wasn’t sure if she had a Spotify subscription so I just texted the name too
“fly me to the moon”
so yeah that’s it, comments welcome, let me know if my last text was okay or not. I’m concerned about the length of the text and the fact that I used a question instead of simply stating. But that may just be my ocd obsessing over texting fundamentals lol
Vert fun date, that also has meaning to me.
In my last LR, the girl was not fun to be around, not very meaningful, I just wanted to ram her through
nice change of scenery
So you can imagine my disbelief when I got her number
I’d only expect to get a girl like this when I’m more experienced
Here’s the approach:
walk up to her outside of the apartment complex, maybe am 10 feet away when I open, frontal approach but she is walking perpendicular to me
My voice is loud and clear, I do my opener, direct, we shake hands and exchange names
then the person with autism that I’m watching makes a loud noise, he doesn’t like strangers, I was walking with him back to the apartments
I then introduce my autistic buddy to her. He’s severely autistic so he doesn’t even look at her, but I explain to her that I’m a direct support professional and I support this guy. I can feel her empathy for my friend in her nonverbals, she talks about how her bosses kid is autistic.
I then compare our jobs saying being a paralegal sounds harder, she says my job is harder
I offer grabbing coffee sometime, while pointing at the Starbucks in her hand and saying “something better than Starbucks, I know a lot of good places” (it pays to only go on coffee dates, I know like all the coffee shops in the area lol)
she says yes and I get her number
I felt in control and grounded during this, except when my friend made that sound. Kinda stressed me out I have to make sure his needs are met but he didn’t seem very upset so continued talking to her. That added a little stress to things but I don’t think it showed
okay now for the texting;
just some short small talk and then I go for a hard close.
she takes over 24 hours to respond to the ask out text, I think she’s pretty busy as a paralegal
we were talking about hiking so we decided to hike instead of coffee
last minute she asks if I mind if she can bring the dog she’s dog sitting
I say “I do mind, but I do like dogs. Maybe we can do that next time”
I didn’t want to do a hard no because then I’m the dude who hates dogs, this way I look more reasonable and sure second date having a dog is better then on a first date. 1st impressions are important and a dog in the mix could make things less intimate and personal. Didn’t want another variable.
The date:
I end up going to the coffee shop that is for my date on Tuesday. I get things mixed up because I use this coffee shop as my go to for dates, it’s in a nice neighborhood with two parks near by that are great for making out and stuff, but anyways, She calls me and asks where I am. Im like oh shit it’s supposed be a hike. I tell her I got things mixed up bc I was gonna meet my friend for coffee sometime this week. I offer to drive over to the hiking spot it’s not too far and then we hang up.
I ate dinner at the coffee shop so I wasn’t hungry I was feeling good
we meet up at the trail
she’s wearing the tightest athletic tank top, her tits look so good, impressive for being natural
and she’s wearing tight black Nike yoga pants, I can see everything, I’m so excited
As we walk we get into convo, we connect well fairly quickly, more serious than flirty.
I test the waters with a couple shoulder taps, she reacts neutrally about them
I do arm around the shoulder and she’s a bit colder but not by a lot
and transition into more flirty stuff, it loosens the vibe. We’re still talking about meaningful things I just joke here and there.
we hold hands a little bit, but she does it awkwardly, I ask her about it,
Earlier she mentioned one of her sons is my age. Kinda crazy they must have kids at a younger age in Egypt. I deal with age objection, and we continued talking
but it comes up again when we hold hands, she says she’s awkward bc I’m her sons age.
I counter objection again, saying it’s no big deal, our age difference actually has some benefits we can learn from our different perspectives
she agrees again
when we’re 60 percent of the way into the hike, I’m able to hold her hand and put my arm around her waist for long periods of time, I just alternate between the two
then I stop her, lean in, she smiled a little and moved her head, I say I’m just going for the cheek. I kiss her cheek. I ask her why she was uncomfortable, she mentions the son thing again
I say the awkwardness will go away with time, she nods
I kiss her cheek a couple mor times throughout the hike. Also hugs, one time I hugged her from behind and her ass pressed up against my dick, damn it was so soft and felt so good lol
She brings up the age one last time, and this time because the hike is ending soon, I decide to crush the objection
I used the sales trick, ask her what her specific objection is and she tells me because of the age difference we are too different
then I use all of what she’s told me during the hike to my advantage
I say we’re both hard workers who like to achieve and she says but we like different things for fun, so I explain how she likes to relax and hang out with her friends for fun and I talk about how I just watch movies with my friends and go for leisurely hikes. After countering the objection I ask her one final time, do you still have a problem with the age and she says no
we walk back to her car, we hug goodbye (twice) man, her big tits feel good against my chest. I say “so I’ll see you again sometime” not really as a question I didn’t have that kind of inflection, was more of a statement. She says “sure, (with a smile) text me”
And that’s that
I would like to go over some things I missed:
some of the topics we covered:
(In order)
1. Her sons, school, the school I go to
2. How Egypt is different than America
3. How both of our mothers have Alzheimer’s
4. Her biggest accomplishments compared my upbringing and how it brought me success
So yeah some deep diving in there
Compliance wise she had to wait for me to arrive, she was following my lead on the trail the whole time, letting me touch her sexually etc.
With arousal, I was aware of how receptive she was and adjusted accordingly while still being persistent. I’ve noticed as long as she feels nuetral about you touching her, if you touch her enough and fractionate properly, you’ll be able to escalate at a steady pace
This girl was similar to the last FR in that she had reservations on touch, just for different reasons
I had to go slow, ideally a smoother sexier me would have been able to get the lay, but for now making it to a second date is a success. Her objection was pretty understandable so it was good I was still able to escalate
after the date later that night I text her;
“I enjoyed spending time with you today”
her: “me too
“during the date she mentioned how she liked frank sinatra when we were talking about music, so I decided to comment on it during text as a convo starter
“this is my favorite frank Sinatra song, have you heard of it?”
(sends through Spotify)
i wasn’t sure if she had a Spotify subscription so I just texted the name too
“fly me to the moon”
so yeah that’s it, comments welcome, let me know if my last text was okay or not. I’m concerned about the length of the text and the fact that I used a question instead of simply stating. But that may just be my ocd obsessing over texting fundamentals lol
Vert fun date, that also has meaning to me.
In my last LR, the girl was not fun to be around, not very meaningful, I just wanted to ram her through
nice change of scenery
