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Met a chick at a live music event really quickly and got her number.
Texted her, asked her to meet me in my hood. She said no, I should meet her in her hood. I persisted playfully for a while and she resists also playfully. Finally I gave up, telling her I have low back pain and don't want to leave my hood, but that we'd make something happen another time (I didn't believe this but was just being nice). Suddenly she folds and says she's down to come meet me.
Sweet!
We meet up and have a really nice middle of the day date with excellent deep diving and connection. She's rather pretty as well. At the end of the date I tell her to send me some songs from the music she told me she likes. An hour laterr she sends me a long list of her favorite songs hand typed.
Me: Oh sweet I'll have a jam session and report back. I already listened to X song--it's beautiful thanks for reminding me of it!
24 hours later (I knew something was up with this delay) Her: Yea lmk your thoughts! Can't go wrong w any of his songs. Btw I forgot to ask, but how old are you?
2 hours later (responded too quickly after her full day of radio silence?) Me: *comments positively on her music, which songs I like etc* My age? Guess...curious what you think.
Literally 7 minutes less than 24 hrs later, her: *music blah blah* I'm guessing +30?
The 24 hour gaps are honestly pissing me off but I don't want to act out of emotion. I feel like either deleting and moving on or calling her out. What's a good strategy for dealing with this?
Clearly I made a good impression on the approach because she drove across the city to meet me after resisting for a while. The date honestly seemed great, one of the best flowing conversations I can remember. Then she follows up with a hand picked list of songs, and then boom she's taking forever to respond and screening me on my age.
The fuck?
Texted her, asked her to meet me in my hood. She said no, I should meet her in her hood. I persisted playfully for a while and she resists also playfully. Finally I gave up, telling her I have low back pain and don't want to leave my hood, but that we'd make something happen another time (I didn't believe this but was just being nice). Suddenly she folds and says she's down to come meet me.
Sweet!
We meet up and have a really nice middle of the day date with excellent deep diving and connection. She's rather pretty as well. At the end of the date I tell her to send me some songs from the music she told me she likes. An hour laterr she sends me a long list of her favorite songs hand typed.
Me: Oh sweet I'll have a jam session and report back. I already listened to X song--it's beautiful thanks for reminding me of it!
24 hours later (I knew something was up with this delay) Her: Yea lmk your thoughts! Can't go wrong w any of his songs. Btw I forgot to ask, but how old are you?
2 hours later (responded too quickly after her full day of radio silence?) Me: *comments positively on her music, which songs I like etc* My age? Guess...curious what you think.
Literally 7 minutes less than 24 hrs later, her: *music blah blah* I'm guessing +30?
The 24 hour gaps are honestly pissing me off but I don't want to act out of emotion. I feel like either deleting and moving on or calling her out. What's a good strategy for dealing with this?
Clearly I made a good impression on the approach because she drove across the city to meet me after resisting for a while. The date honestly seemed great, one of the best flowing conversations I can remember. Then she follows up with a hand picked list of songs, and then boom she's taking forever to respond and screening me on my age.
The fuck?