Shit tests - are you man enough?

[Aramis]

Hi all, hope you are well.

I was recently chatting to a girl and she mentioned I seemed quite young at heart. Then when we moved on to discussing her salsa dancing she cross referenced this to the previous comment and said "when you grow up you might get to experience it". Felt like a shit test implying I'm not man enough. What is the best response to this, as clearly agreeing and amplifying would not be correct in this instance?

As it happens I just laughed and said "Ok". Perhaps saying something like "I've already danced with better than you" with a wink?

Thanks very much

 

[Eternity]

"And if you're bad enough I'll show you some of my moves tonight"

With a sly smirk on your face, looking away into the distance...

 

[Smith]

If you don't know what to say, just ignore her frame. Or alternately reframe it with something like "haha na I like to be young at heart. Most people lost that when they get old. That's no fun" Say it with confidence.
It's like dealing with children.
The mindset you want is "haha it's cute that she's trying to one up me"
The moment you get logical with her, you lose.

 

[PrettyDecent]

That's just some flirting/teasing.

"Oh, I'm sure an older, more experienced woman like yourself could tell me ALL about it" and nudge her playfully. Then take the lead and change subject.

~Nick