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Wilx

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Hello guys! I have a few questions to you.

1) Tell me something. I hear this phrase all the time when I sit with a girl on a date. I guess it’s an indicator that girl got bored with me, right? What should I answer in this situation? Should I immediately start to tell her some stories that I know? But in this case won’t it look like I’m some kind of clown that entertains her on her first demand? For some reason it sounds to me as a shit test too, not only as an indicator of boringness.

2) Do you often meet people like that? What do I tell her if she asks do I often approach women on the street, malls or public transportation? Is it a shit test?

3) Where are we going? (on the first date) Should I answer directly: “to the coffee shop” or should I go with intrigue?

4) We don’t know each other that well (when you try to kiss her, touch her or invite her to your place after the club) Maybe there is some kind of routine or metaphor for this one? Some story that I could tell that will make her feel or at least think that it’s not necessary to know someone for ages, that you can get all the important information about the other person in few minutes of meeting. I need this, especially for the clubs. SOS!
 

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Wilx said:
Hello guys! I have a few questions to you.

1) Tell me something. I hear this phrase all the time when I sit with a girl on a date. I guess it’s an indicator that girl got bored with me, right? What should I answer in this situation? Should I immediately start to tell her some stories that I know? But in this case won’t it look like I’m some kind of clown that entertains her on her first demand? For some reason it sounds to me as a shit test too, not only as an indicator of boringness.

2) Do you often meet people like that? What do I tell her if she asks do I often approach women on the street, malls or public transportation? Is it a shit test?

3) Where are we going? (on the first date) Should I answer directly: “to the coffee shop” or should I go with intrigue?

4) We don’t know each other that well (when you try to kiss her, touch her or invite her to your place after the club) Maybe there is some kind of routine or metaphor for this one? Some story that I could tell that will make her feel or at least think that it’s not necessary to know someone for ages, that you can get all the important information about the other person in few minutes of meeting. I need this, especially for the clubs. SOS!



Tell me something. I hear this phrase all the time when I sit with a girl on a date.

This is probably coming because you let the conversation die in between and it gets awkward. Learn how to keep conversations going. Pauses are fine, as long as they are filled with sexual tension.

Read these on getting better at conversation:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/tact ... ions-women
https://www.girlschase.com/content/buil ... nal-pauses
https://www.girlschase.com/content/conv ... -seduction
https://www.girlschase.com/content/conversationalist
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secr ... nversation
https://www.girlschase.com/content/20-w ... it-amazing
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secr ... -deep-dive
https://www.girlschase.com/content/spel ... nversation
https://www.girlschase.com/content/cold ... versations


Do you often meet people like that?

Probably a shit test. You either amplify or do not react at all and keep your composure. Say, "If I find someone attractive, yes." with the same body language and expressions you were using before that. DO NOT GET DEFENSIVE. Say it without any emotion and immediately start talking about what you two were talking about before. Or, RSD Julien usually goes the amplifying route. He will probably make it fun and say something like "Yes, every pretty girl in this city knows my name!" with a cocky grin or something like that. As long as you don't become weak and get nervous, it's fine. Also, I don't know where I heard it, but the guy said, "Anytime the girl says or does something that makes you feel weak, it is a shit test."

Useful posts:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/tact ... mens-tests
https://www.girlschase.com/content/when-women-test-men
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tact ... nd-pickups
https://www.girlschase.com/content/chad-test


Where are we going?

This is due to not being able to transition smoothly. Now, I haven't done this myself, so I'll just give you links:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/maki ... ransitions
https://www.girlschase.com/content/invite-her-home
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how- ... your-place
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how- ... s-home-you
https://www.girlschase.com/content/5-th ... -his-place
https://www.girlschase.com/content/pull ... t-pick-ups


We don’t know each other that well

This is again due to lack of comfort. Also, when you try for big touches directly, that may not work. Usually, you keep touching from the beginning of your interaction. If you go for the kiss directly, unless you really know what you're doing, you'll fail. Also, Chase and others recommend that you DO NOT KISS if you try to pull her home.

Articles on touching:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/touc ... munication
https://www.girlschase.com/content/7-wa ... -touch-you
https://www.girlschase.com/content/book ... hing-women
https://www.girlschase.com/content/tact ... ntific-way
https://www.girlschase.com/content/cali ... girl-youre

I know it's a lot of links, just keep going at your own pace. :D
 

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Wilx said:
Hello guys! I have a few questions to you.

1) "Tell me something" I hear this phrase all the time when I sit with a girl on a date.

What I find works a lot of the time, is to undermine the question. Not so much in a condescending way, but in a joking way. That way you're entertaining her, without looking like a clown. Think back to that time, and think of what was going on in your surroundings immediately before her question, and tell me there isn't a host of things you could said. Then once she's laughed and once you two have talked a bit about whatever it is you brought up, and once you might feel there's nothing else to say, you could then say "alright your turn, u tell me something!"
 
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Virgin101,

I wasn't. I don't get a percentage of the sales. Wish I did ;)

Now coming to bombarding. Do you think a guy who isn't committed enough to read 25 relevant articles that CAN and WILL solve his issues go too far in the seduction game? If he is serious about improving he WILL read. In the 20 minutes I spent on this post I could have been sleeping or watching Vampire Diaries. I didn't cause I want him to improve. If he gets that, he will read. Or, if he isn't serious and committed enough, I won't be surprised if he leaves this forum forever and start looking for products that guarantee results in 30 days or 7 days lol.

Plus, I won't be responding to any new posts from you in this thread anymore.
 
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