Should I be keeping a girl warm if our date is planned a week away?

[Kaida]

I got this girls number yesterday and seeded the date. She told me she’d be free around the weekend, so I told her we’ll discuss more over text. I sent the icebreaker, but havent sent the asking text.

Even though she already agreed, and she seemed somewhat enthusiastic, I have a feeling with all those days before our date her emotions may change.

I dont want to plan the date now and then wait 5 days just for her to say no (It’s Monday right now).

Possible solutions:

1. Wait later to send the asking text (Wednesday/Thursday)

2. Just send the asking text now and wait till Friday/Saturday (meaning I’m overthinking it)

3. Send the text now and keep her warm throughout.

If the answer is #3, how should I do that??

I appreciate everyones feedback! Anything helps

 

[Rakehell]

Follow skills texting structure and get the hard close. Then throughout the week you can ping her up till the day of the meet.

Even though it was seeded in person you still wanna keep her in/make sure shes in a compliant mood, so instead of jumping straight to the close, loosely follow the structure and then close her.

Once you have that you can ping occasionally throughout the week to keep her warm.

 

[Conquistador]

If this is SC don’t overthink it, I’d lean toward #3, but ask her out casually in the middle of a chat, like you would irl. Assuming this is SC not cold approach if it’s a date plan she likes and she’s interested in you, she’s unlikely to flake.

Also overthinking is inherently bad for your vibe and moves btw. Better a subpar move delivered with confidence and chillness than the theoretically correct one done in a subpar way.

 

[foggy]

when you start forming the hard close, leave sorting out a key detail like time or place till the day of

after the semi-hard close: start a new thread, or ideally callback the thread previous to the closing. text her once or twice, every one or two days. keep the same conversation thread going, DO NOT cut the tension by exchanging goodnight texts with her.

be sure to keep it interesting, and always keep her waiting to hear back from you...

as well its a good time to find out information about her that you can use to form your strategy to game her

light + easy threads to keep things going--

what would you do if you won the lottery
what do you like to do? besides eating and sleeping
if you could go anywhere, where would you go?