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Hi guys,
For the past 2 years I've been getting consistent results (40%) date to lay ratio by following a BD model of 1-2 hour drinks on first date where I don't escalate at all. Then seeding the 2nd date straight to mine for drinks/film/food or whatever plausible excuse.
I've had 3 dates recently where I've lost the girl after seeding in the 2nd date. I'm wondering if I'm coming across to keen? (I have a very laid back demeanour and barely text them in between to counter this).
So unsure if I should switch to:
A) Aiming for same day lay - don't like this approach as it's harder to pull off & I can spend hours on LMR and it still go no where
B) Seed the next date but follow up via text instead - will come across less keen but can lose the girl due to no clear next step (that's my sales background talking lol)
C) Carry on as is but propose another drink with potentially mine after - this gives girl more plausible deniability, is chill but still shows my intentions clearly. (This is what I'm leaning towards)
D) Don't change anything - it's a numbers game after all
Thoughts?
For the past 2 years I've been getting consistent results (40%) date to lay ratio by following a BD model of 1-2 hour drinks on first date where I don't escalate at all. Then seeding the 2nd date straight to mine for drinks/film/food or whatever plausible excuse.
I've had 3 dates recently where I've lost the girl after seeding in the 2nd date. I'm wondering if I'm coming across to keen? (I have a very laid back demeanour and barely text them in between to counter this).
So unsure if I should switch to:
A) Aiming for same day lay - don't like this approach as it's harder to pull off & I can spend hours on LMR and it still go no where
B) Seed the next date but follow up via text instead - will come across less keen but can lose the girl due to no clear next step (that's my sales background talking lol)
C) Carry on as is but propose another drink with potentially mine after - this gives girl more plausible deniability, is chill but still shows my intentions clearly. (This is what I'm leaning towards)
D) Don't change anything - it's a numbers game after all
Thoughts?
