Hey Guys,
I am an advanced, so this post could be something fun to juggle with for al of you rational thinkers.
I had 3 gf a few months back and in january I decided to ghost my unfaithful long term FWB and to not pass the two year mark with the other gf.
After 2 months of going hard on pickup *- where I have fucked about 10-12 girls- I would like to take some down time from it.
This might be pickout burnout, or the fact that out of these 12 girls I banged none of theme was a lot better than the ones I had before...
Thing is, here I am considering the idea of getting another girl into my rotation.
At the moment I have one gf I see 1-2 a week which provides good sex and good conversation but isn't enough from a connection stand point due to her avoidant attachment style.
The girl I think about getting back in my rotation wasn't the girl of my life or anything, but she provided good sex, good companionship, and she was pretty flexible. Plus she was loyal which is always a plus.
I also enjoyed the fact that she had a few good homes where she would invite me during the summer - I'm no gold digger but everyone likes a nice beach house with a golf club at a 20 minutes distance.
Anyway, at the time I splitted with this girl because instead of progressing the relationship, I was like ' I can have better, no way I'll chase after you.'
So I told her ' look it looks like you have great expectations out of this relationship , I'll set you free.'
After three months of going cold turkey I could try to seduce her back.
My goal is to not give in to requests such as children or something that's too constraining, but I can be fine with me telling her 'look, I'm sorry I was a bit inconsiderate but I did not feel like measleading you back when you asked for more'.
And then attack the root cause which was that at first I saw this girl 5 times a week during lockdown, and when I dialed it back down to 1-2 a week she hated my guts.
Of course, my unbreakable frame of one sided monogamy did not really help ahahah
I know I could look for a new girl but don't really feel like it right now, and can't see why I wouldn't take this one girl back.
I guess my only concern is I might be wasting her time. But am I if she has a great time with me ?
Unless she is 100% sure she is looking for children I could go and try to get this chick back.
What do you think ?
Should I try to do this ? And if so should I tell her I have some girls in my rotation ?
I guess I am looking for some support on the ethics side here.
No Limits
I am an advanced, so this post could be something fun to juggle with for al of you rational thinkers.
I had 3 gf a few months back and in january I decided to ghost my unfaithful long term FWB and to not pass the two year mark with the other gf.
After 2 months of going hard on pickup *- where I have fucked about 10-12 girls- I would like to take some down time from it.
This might be pickout burnout, or the fact that out of these 12 girls I banged none of theme was a lot better than the ones I had before...
Thing is, here I am considering the idea of getting another girl into my rotation.
At the moment I have one gf I see 1-2 a week which provides good sex and good conversation but isn't enough from a connection stand point due to her avoidant attachment style.
The girl I think about getting back in my rotation wasn't the girl of my life or anything, but she provided good sex, good companionship, and she was pretty flexible. Plus she was loyal which is always a plus.
I also enjoyed the fact that she had a few good homes where she would invite me during the summer - I'm no gold digger but everyone likes a nice beach house with a golf club at a 20 minutes distance.
Anyway, at the time I splitted with this girl because instead of progressing the relationship, I was like ' I can have better, no way I'll chase after you.'
So I told her ' look it looks like you have great expectations out of this relationship , I'll set you free.'
After three months of going cold turkey I could try to seduce her back.
My goal is to not give in to requests such as children or something that's too constraining, but I can be fine with me telling her 'look, I'm sorry I was a bit inconsiderate but I did not feel like measleading you back when you asked for more'.
And then attack the root cause which was that at first I saw this girl 5 times a week during lockdown, and when I dialed it back down to 1-2 a week she hated my guts.
Of course, my unbreakable frame of one sided monogamy did not really help ahahah
I know I could look for a new girl but don't really feel like it right now, and can't see why I wouldn't take this one girl back.
I guess my only concern is I might be wasting her time. But am I if she has a great time with me ?
Unless she is 100% sure she is looking for children I could go and try to get this chick back.
What do you think ?
Should I try to do this ? And if so should I tell her I have some girls in my rotation ?
I guess I am looking for some support on the ethics side here.
No Limits
