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Should I meet her and her sister?

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I texted the girl who I insta-dated and she seemed excited to have met me. A little too excited maybe?......

The insta-date ended with me letting her take home the rest of the food (I just did that because it would have spoilt if I kept it. She didn't know that of course) so she could give it to her sister, who we spoke about for a while. Now she says that her sister wants to meet me. I told her that we should wait until after exams to plan it. And then I went offline coz I was getting sleepy.

I don't want anything serious and this family meeting is weirding me out....Any advice?
 

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I'd never meet a girl's friends much less relatives (especially close relatives) until I had sex with her. Even then, I wouldn't do it unless she was my girlfriend and we were already dating over 6 months. It puts you deep in the boyfriend zone.

The only exception I might think of is you get the vibe you can fuck her and her sister at the same time and wanna see if you can pull it off. A friend of mine did it and now it's on my bucket list haha

In your situation I'd go with somethig cheeky like "Should I bring a ring as well? :p Most girls wait till 3 months before they want me to get the family's blessing haha"

If she persist just calmly tell her you want to get to know her better on one on one and can meet up with her sister afterwards.

Good luck!
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Update: when I got back online a little while ago, I got a message that was sent after I went offline on friday. Its from a new number. And the person asked how my date was. I feigned confusion and the person gave me the date of the date. And said my name!

It was kinda obvious that this was the girls sister texting me but still kinda creepy.

So anyway, what should I do?

The polite method: To keep talking to the sisters, but like I said, I don't want anything like a relationship. And I feel like this will justify their thoughts of that.

The method I think I'll take: to not talk to the sister, tell the insta-date girl that things are moving a bit too husband-y for my liking and to accept the following consequences.

Thoughts?
 
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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Ash said:
It was kinda obvious that this was the girls sister texting me but still kinda creepy.

Updated update: False alarm. Lol

Turns out the strange number was a girl that saw me with the girl during the date. She got a new number

So I guess I'm gonna tell insta-girl real fast that I aint a family guy thanks to this fright. And who knows....maybe I can get an LR from the girl who gave me the fright as well.
 
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