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- Jul 15, 2016
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What's up gents
So when I first joines GC I would say I was the nice, shy guy,submissive, basically a pushover. I was far from a dominant man in any stretch of imagination. Then that faithful day came where I stumbled upon hector's "How to be a genuine man" and I'm currently on phase 1 (arrogance.)
I would say I've been doing this since June last year while practicing game since august. Slowly but surely my arrogance has built up and it has helped me alot with girls. However, now I'm noticing the drawbacks.
Its more evident when i chill with girls through social circle. I'm very challenging and tease alot to the point where girls are in auto-reject and I'm not even trying to game them!
A recent example happened this past Saturday .My bestfriend and I attended his friend tamara's birthday party. She paid for a hotel downtown and had some friends over. We all were laying on the couch watchung a movie for a bit b4 I had to move my car to hotel parking. Me, my bro and Tamara went and then came back up to the hotel room. While there I go to pass then walk back to the sofa and boom, she took my seat on the couch. I figured this was a challenge so I prop down right next to her saying she took my seat and we go back and forth for about 10 minutes. Now, when i say back amd forth it wasnt a heated arguement, more playful banter to try and get my seat back. Honestly, I thought this was a test to my frame as she has a very aggressive, strong personality. This continues until it hits a very critical point.She' got annoyed to point that she texted my bro asking him why I wouldn'the move. Eventually, she tells me "it's my birthday, I paid for the hotel so I should sit where I want." I still sit there and eventually she moves to go to sleep In her bedroom.
She really liked my bro and he could've smashed but she like went on some Tyraid about "how her dad would be really upset If she had a guy sleep in the same bed as her" (some Bulls hit excuse for us to leave.) Eventually we left and my bro told me what she and him were texting about. He told me sometimes I should let shit go with her since she has a really aggressive personality. In my perspective tho I thought I would be submitting to her frame so that's the reason why I tried to persist.
Looking back I feel I was inconsiderate too her situation but honestly I feel I'm programed to get my way first no matter how annoying or stubborn I am.
Another situation actually happened last night. I was hanging with my bestfriend again and we went to his girlfriends house. His gf had a few friends over and we're just chilling, hanging out. Now one of her friends I had hung out with before and oftentimes I call her a different name from her real one. However, on this night when I called her this she was getting annoyed. I repeatedly kept doing it to the point where she was in auto-reject even though , again I wasn't trying to seduce her we just associate through social circle.
These are just two situations but It does happen more often now than in the past. People get annoyed if I call them a name, or don't move, etc. However, alot of people don't get annoyed so I figure out the ones who do get annoyed will get over it and accept me.
I need some advice from my fellow seducers; did this happen to you as well and if so how did you deal with it? My bestfriend said I just need to learn my girls, meaning I need to know which girls I can do those things with vs not doing them.
Also, is it because I'm not very socially calibrated (I had ano isolated childhood and tended to be a loner but over the last year or so I've improved my social skills)?
Sidenote: his girlfriend said I should tone down the touching lmao. I read this article online saying when running social circle game you should use more kino to display interest. I think I probably over did it last night. What signs should I look for to know when touching is too little, too much, or just right?
So when I first joines GC I would say I was the nice, shy guy,submissive, basically a pushover. I was far from a dominant man in any stretch of imagination. Then that faithful day came where I stumbled upon hector's "How to be a genuine man" and I'm currently on phase 1 (arrogance.)
I would say I've been doing this since June last year while practicing game since august. Slowly but surely my arrogance has built up and it has helped me alot with girls. However, now I'm noticing the drawbacks.
Its more evident when i chill with girls through social circle. I'm very challenging and tease alot to the point where girls are in auto-reject and I'm not even trying to game them!
A recent example happened this past Saturday .My bestfriend and I attended his friend tamara's birthday party. She paid for a hotel downtown and had some friends over. We all were laying on the couch watchung a movie for a bit b4 I had to move my car to hotel parking. Me, my bro and Tamara went and then came back up to the hotel room. While there I go to pass then walk back to the sofa and boom, she took my seat on the couch. I figured this was a challenge so I prop down right next to her saying she took my seat and we go back and forth for about 10 minutes. Now, when i say back amd forth it wasnt a heated arguement, more playful banter to try and get my seat back. Honestly, I thought this was a test to my frame as she has a very aggressive, strong personality. This continues until it hits a very critical point.She' got annoyed to point that she texted my bro asking him why I wouldn'the move. Eventually, she tells me "it's my birthday, I paid for the hotel so I should sit where I want." I still sit there and eventually she moves to go to sleep In her bedroom.
She really liked my bro and he could've smashed but she like went on some Tyraid about "how her dad would be really upset If she had a guy sleep in the same bed as her" (some Bulls hit excuse for us to leave.) Eventually we left and my bro told me what she and him were texting about. He told me sometimes I should let shit go with her since she has a really aggressive personality. In my perspective tho I thought I would be submitting to her frame so that's the reason why I tried to persist.
Looking back I feel I was inconsiderate too her situation but honestly I feel I'm programed to get my way first no matter how annoying or stubborn I am.
Another situation actually happened last night. I was hanging with my bestfriend again and we went to his girlfriends house. His gf had a few friends over and we're just chilling, hanging out. Now one of her friends I had hung out with before and oftentimes I call her a different name from her real one. However, on this night when I called her this she was getting annoyed. I repeatedly kept doing it to the point where she was in auto-reject even though , again I wasn't trying to seduce her we just associate through social circle.
These are just two situations but It does happen more often now than in the past. People get annoyed if I call them a name, or don't move, etc. However, alot of people don't get annoyed so I figure out the ones who do get annoyed will get over it and accept me.
I need some advice from my fellow seducers; did this happen to you as well and if so how did you deal with it? My bestfriend said I just need to learn my girls, meaning I need to know which girls I can do those things with vs not doing them.
Also, is it because I'm not very socially calibrated (I had ano isolated childhood and tended to be a loner but over the last year or so I've improved my social skills)?
Sidenote: his girlfriend said I should tone down the touching lmao. I read this article online saying when running social circle game you should use more kino to display interest. I think I probably over did it last night. What signs should I look for to know when touching is too little, too much, or just right?
