LR Shut the fuck up

[Swati]

This was back in Feb 2023 not recently** I don't want to woo wooo and shit.... but this was the blonde girl I saw during the time when I was seeing my "gf" The energy the 2nd time around completely shifted with this girl, not being able to tolerate her at all. In the end, I believe, it was somewhat of a bad energy exchange.... since I wanted to kick her out the 1st hour during the 2nd time. I don't consider this to be cheating, but to be fair it wasn't an honest act. lesson to be remembered from this ordeal. The divine intervenes with wrongdoing.

dyed blonde hair, a Latin girl 5'4 around skinny with glitter on her face the first time we met.

During the initial phase of the meeting, we stopped at a coffee shop and got some drinks. She poured the whole bag of sugar and took my bag, since I don't use sugar, poured it into her glass/ cappuccino.

Small details I've noticed over the years is if a girl has dopamine-chasing backgrounds, like vape, nicotine, drinking, and sugar even to some extent coffee, this should be a red flag. nothing wrong with LIGHT wine or one coffee during the day to work. you decide what you wanna do but not worth investing your time in.

When we sat down we briefly chatted about bullshit and went through each other's online profiles. said she was interested in 1-3 things it's mostly about presentations online, she didn't get my Instagram, but in the end, she was a bit more attractive than her profile, and she told me the same. I was able to get light physical touches in with her knee, hand-holding, etc

After we finished our coffee/drinks we proceeded to walk back to my area. I forgot exactly how to seed/ pulled back to my place, but it was along the lines of "Let's go watch a movie or Gran Hermano" or some shit like that. In the process of pulling back to my flat, she managed to dodge my kiss multiple times

once I got back into the flat, knowing that I had a negative compliance I didn't escalate. I did try to get a kiss a few more times, positivity/vibe energy, which is important because if the girl feels like you are butt hurt n shit, it would have a negative impact carrying forward, like negative feedback, negative variable, etc.... at times our interaction did get a bit silent. she had 2 phones and consistently checked them, online apps, messaging, and typical dopamine-chasing behaviors.

it got to a point where she was playing aloof, and insinuated that she wants to see her "friends" I was like

"OK let's go"

at this point I was fed up with her, her general behavior just isn't attractive. we proceeded to leave, I walked her 3 blocks and sent her off, but she stopped and didn't move any longer, ESCALATION WINDOW. I ran Kino harder, had my hand on her waist, and had a back and forward with her about the meeting, her being safe walking back herself, etc... then I went for the kiss, and finally, I got makeout. then pull her back to my back without LMR, really did enjoy fucking her. The next morning she did some facial treatment for me, which was quite refreshing. then took her to lunch to get some food. she wouldn't suck my dick, really I don't care much to be honest.

"it was your voice that made me want to come back"

(as you can see this didn't have much sense) LMR

some players say HOTTIE maybe likewise is a 1 point higher but the shitty attitude drops it by like 5 points

Getting through LMR is satisfying and but getting through the resistance it's always fucking annoying, this LMR was trying to slot me in the friend zone... 1st time:

"I'm just looking for friends ...."

(in my head) "ok whatever bitch"

it came down to ultimately, where she felt disappointed to be leaving and also I cared a bit less than her, it also helped that I was her type, sub-culture, and exotic factor.

the LMR, female manipulation, is a bit wack with this one, cause on the surface she comes across as normal but once you start to go into details as to what she was doing with her actions, it's pretty annoying, to say the least, it's manipulation at it's finest, at quite a high level.

I convinced her to change her ferry schedule and stay with me for 2 days, BIG FUCKING MISTAKE. She was fun and all the first time, but the burden of the bitch just bringing ALL of her shit over, overwhelmed me and I couldn't stand her. subconsciously I heard, "Don't rush the relationship", now looking back. bitch was nesting at my flat LOL. Maybe she wanted to FUCK with me or she's just mentally deranged.

2nd time she came around

telling me how she doesn't like to see me smoke and shit. I light one up anyways.

during sex my dick when inside of her, and she started going off on saying "pleaseeeeee" (fucking mental breakdown here, fucking retard)

her: "say PLEASEEE PLEASSEEEEEE pleaseeeeeee"

I think she forgot to take her pill or something. FYI I saw her medicine, it was like birth control, antidepressants, multi vitamins, some gummy bullshit, and chocolate. looks like the bitch was gonna overdose...

This infuriated me, I kept my temper, but I was PISSED. I was the host who invested in her, I had to keep my temper. I pulled out and just altogether stopped sex. For the rest of the night just ignored her, the morning comes she goes to the market to buy some "Nutella" to TAKE BACK with her..... wtf... after she came back it was finally time for this bitch to go. in the morning she tried to initiate sex by slightly putting her leg near me couple times, and I wanted to push her off my fucking bed. just before i was about to push her away she got up and went to the market, LOL (smart girl)

I've mentioned in the chat the bitch talked about some old-ass Disney channel show, I couldn't give less of a fuck about. This hedonistic girl with no ambition, not even that young.... anyways added up with the LMR AGAIN!!!! I was done with this bitch. the next day she was leaving but I
endured about additional 6 hours of this shit. unbelievable.

She did have a hot little sister, whatever this one broke the record for being annoying and shit.

Bitch was out here looking to have a full-on debate and talking loudly, yapping her fucking mouth nonstop, don't know when to shut the fuck up! it wasn't disrespectful or anything, just lacked social grace.

during the 1st time meeting I like this girl, but the 2nd time she was unbearable.

"at some point, I wanted to kick this bitch outta my flat and throw all her shit off the balcony"

me: "You should get Uber/Cabify"
her: "No, is more expensive blah blah"
me: "........"

after an hour she sent me a voice memo about

her: "I'm leaving blah blah blah, good vibe, thank you......"
(hearing the ferry sound in the background)

me: (seen)

in my mind, yeah perfect. The ferry sound mixed in with this bitch's voice so I didn't have to hear HER talk again

 

[Chase]

@Swati,

lol... what a read.

Yeah, inviting her over for two days was a slip. Well, lesson learned, right?

The thing I want to highlight is this sequence:

it got to a point where she was playing aloof, and insinuated that she wants to see her "friends" I was like

"OK let's go"

at this point I was fed up with her, her general behavior just isn't attractive. we proceeded to leave, I walked her 3 blocks and sent her off, but she stopped and didn't move any longer, ESCALATION WINDOW. I ran Kino harder, had my hand on her waist, and had a back and forward with her about the meeting, her being safe walking back herself, etc... then I went for the kiss, and finally, I got makeout. then pull her back to my back without LMR, really did enjoy fucking her. The next morning she did some facial treatment for me, which was quite refreshing. then took her to lunch to get some food. she wouldn't suck my dick, really I don't care much to be honest.

"it was your voice that made me want to come back"

(as you can see this didn't have much sense)

Those were great instincts on the escalation window during the 3-block walk AFTER you took her out of your place after all those kiss declines on her part. A lot of guys (including me if we're honest) are probably going to be in a "well, it's done at this point, let's just get her out of here" head space. But you sensed the change in her, capitalized on it, then turned her right around, took her right back to the apartment you'd just left, and closed her.

Thinking back, I have had some of these times where I walked a girl out after failing to close and was a bit put off by it, and the girl started signaling again. Usually at that point you've already mentally checked out ("I'll just go out tomorrow night and pick someone else up").

You've got a great instinct/attitude for it here though -- as soon as you saw the window reopen, just start escalating again... she's receptive... go for the make-out... she complies... well, back to your place again, this time for the close.

Glad you shared this one, man.

This is one of those little gems with a, "Huh, why didn't I think of that?" bits embedded right within it.

Chase

 

[Swati]

@Swati,

lol... what a read.

Yeah, inviting her over for two days was a slip. Well, lesson learned, right?

The thing I want to highlight is this sequence:

Those were great instincts on the escalation window during the 3-block walk AFTER you took her out of your place after all those kiss declines on her part. A lot of guys (including me if we're honest) are probably going to be in a "well, it's done at this point, let's just get her out of here" head space. But you sensed the change in her, capitalized on it, then turned her right around, took her right back to the apartment you'd just left, and closed her.

Thinking back, I have had some of these times where I walked a girl out after failing to close and was a bit put off by it, and the girl started signaling again. Usually at that point you've already mentally checked out ("I'll just go out tomorrow night and pick someone else up").

You've got a great instinct/attitude for it here though -- as soon as you saw the window reopen, just start escalating again... she's receptive... go for the make-out... she complies... well, back to your place again, this time for the close.

Glad you shared this one, man.

This is one of those little gems with a, "Huh, why didn't I think of that?" bits embedded right within it.

Chase

Hey Chase

If I wasn't getting laid back with other girls, I would have gotten more frustrated with this kind of girl, emotions would have gotten the better of me. making me slip on the LMR

Another HIGH-LEVEL PUA had a similar case where a girl was proposing to leave

PUA: "LET'S GO!"

As you can imagine the same thing happened, bought her back and screwed her LOL

Having missed escalation windows I regret with other girls, overtime you look back on how MANY windows you have MISSED out on, where the girl is signaling, physically/verbally you, especially the prettier ones... painful lessons

Is a difficult thing to be grasping because at times there are movements/responses/physical reactions/hesitations that were all windows that we've missed out on. This only can be recognized over time when you've discussed and seen it and failed, I've found. I don't know if you can theorize/project it, but at least I know subconscious behavior tends to be a sign of curiosity. If there's more to dig into regards to this it'll be awesome. More even on the subconscious level of the behavior signals...

"when in doubt try it out"

says a bit cringe but it helps to learn

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