Singing for seduction

[diegoC]

I love to sing and I do it pretty well (I just recently overcome the fear of singing to people, it cost me a lot) . So, I got my guitar near the sofa in my living to encourage girls bring the topic themselves.

I'm wondering:

• What do you think about singing for seduction? (when you actually sing good, of course!).

• What kind of songs should I pick? I mean, for example, girls might love Bruno Mars'

Just the way you are

song. No problem, I can sing it, but, this kind of song is completely against the image I give to a girl (during the whole interaction): It's a guy that loves a woman like crazy, that is head over hills about her. Maybe the song won't matter at all.

Cheers!

PS: I guess singing is good but would love to hear your opinions.

 

[Tyme2k]

Sing what YOU like, not what you think she will like. This will make her more attracted to you, I would even go as far to say, "I like this song, I've been practicing want you to hear. If you don't like it, I don't care, because I do."

 

[diegoC]

Yep Tyme!

 

[diegoC]

I think I could use this one to bring home girls. Not explicitly saying to come home so I sing something to them. Although I could if she really get excited about me when she know I love to do it.

But I think I should just avoid telling them that I love to sing. Then, during the interaction I would ask them "Do you like desserts?" "Ice creams?"... later, when I want to pull her I would tell her something like "Let's go grab a dessert (ice cream) while we hear someone play guitar and sing"

I'll try it.

 

[Good Vibes]

• What do you think about singing for seduction? (when you actually sing good, of course!).

Singing romantic songs is good and make them personal to her by changing the words slightly including her name too.

• It's a guy that loves a woman like crazy, that is head over hills about her. Maybe the song won't matter at all.

When you perform a song like that to a girl it's not you killing the mystery about yourself with all that love stuff, it's her wondering if the words you say are meant to be for her. This type of seduction works well and it's very romantic which chicks hearts melt over. You don't have to be a great singer/musican.

Also if you're alone with her, you shouldn't entertain her for too long. One or two songs is enough and then if you like ask her if she can play herself. Get her to sit next to you as you show her a chord or two then start your escalation with a kiss.

I would even go as far to say, "I like this song, I've been practicing want you to hear. If you don't like it, I don't care, because I do."

Personally, I wouldn't say that to a girl there's no need.

 

[Just_Dave]

Dude Give me your guitar!

It was my freshmen year in college so actually back in 2011 to be precise, I was back in town and me and my band mate were outside shooting the breeze when I saw this sexy, girl in a black jackets with red lipstick come out this coffee house next to our gig.

Scene: The seduction of the bold
Me: Dude! Give me your guitar
Bandmate: Uh alright
Me: *Dave walking and jumping on some random dudes car* Hey miss, let me play this guitar for you.
Girl: Haha alright
Me: *Plays killer latin chord progression* I love that red lipstick shining in the night
Girl: Eyes lighting up
Girl's friend: He's surprisingly good
Me: *Singing lyrics I can't remember cause I made them up, work with me people lol*
Girl: What's your name stranger
Me: Dave, Just Dave, and you?
Girl: Emily, that was really awesome of you
Bandmate: Dave we gotta get going
Me: Maybe I'll see you around

Next part I kid you not before I get to the door, the girl whipped around in her car and started yelling out her cellphone number to me.
Emily: "That's my number do what you want with it."

It's that simple, random street pick up, no rehearsed songs, all about wowing the girl. Keep in mind my fundamentals and all that were on top of my game and she luckily didn't have a boyfriend. Also, you don't want to be a creepy guitar guy either, so your approach is everything.