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I have been trying to find time to write this but my weekend was shit packed.
This was a date with a girl I met out last Saturday(Star wars). She is a very smart career girl. Short, blonde wore her glasses making her look hella nerdy
. These are the girls I love the most, especially because I'm a closet nerd.
Used to be ashamed of it in HS and college but no I love pulling that card out beacuse it is unexpected.
We meet at my go to spot 3 blocks from my place GB. It's a craft brewery on the water with tons of bar space and dim lighting. We were to meet a 7 and it was a beautiful spring day. I arrived 10 minutes early and just unfocused my eyes, posted up and just stared off into the harbor letting my mind drift.
She was 10 minutes late but I didn't mind, she was just going to have to work a little harder for my attention.
When she finally walked up she says,
I just naturally react and offer my hand as well, but quickly transitioned that into a hug. We go inside grab two seats at the bar and the same bartender is working and he def recognizes me.
Anyway I mention the place is awesome because they brew the beer in house and point to the vats and ask her what kind of beer she likes. She says lighter wheat beers so I reccomend the Hefe, we both order one.
Conversation picks up relatively slowly, I'm waiting for her to invest more and she still seems pretty nervous ( won't hold any time of eye contact as well).
At one point we are talking about TV shows and she mentions she was an extra in a TV show and got a pretty solid close up in the show. She says she has a picture and goes to pull out her phone
She begins to settle in and I deep dive her about school, work, hobbies, family etc while mixing in some teasing. We have a lot in common and the date is pretty fun.
After 40 minutes she gets up to go to the barthroom and point her to where it is. The bartender comes up to me and says
We stay another 40 minutes finish our drinks. I just pay for hers and we head out.
I'm kind of pissed off at myself about how I proceeded here. As good as it was going she wasn't extremely responsive to my touch and that planted a seed of doubt.
We end up going for a walk towards her sisters house, it's about a 20 minute walk, and go visit her sister's puppy. She told me her sister was at a concert and wouldn't be home until later so I figure it was okay.
I should have said, "I have had fun with you and I want to continue hanging out" and see what her move was and tried to pull her home from there.
On the walk back
That made me want to kick myself.
5-10 minutes later we are talking about the pup and I say,
"Me: Just to warn you, dogs love me, I may steal all the attention.
Her: No way, he love me so much!"
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We get to her sisters house she goes up to get the dog and I go to the bathroom. As I finish pissing I get a fucking random as nosebleed. WTF. Have to run back into the bathroom but luckily she is still upstairs and I get it stopped just in time and flush the blood down the toilet.
The pup is a cockapoo and he is a strait G, and of course the little bugger loves me and can't stop licking my face. After 10-15 minutes we are playing a little fetch with him and as I throw the toy and he runs off. I just grab her leg slide her over to me on the floor(hardwood) and we start making out. She gets into it very fast, but the dam dog comes back and starts licking our face so she gigles and we stop. this happens 3 or 4 more times until she finally decides to put the dog to bed.
We go upstair and put him away. I grab her and push her on the couch and start making out with her. One thing leads to another shit is getting really hot. I am kissing her all over and rubbing her all over outside of her pants...... then LMR hits.
She wont let me get inside or unbotton the her pants. "I don't normally do this on first dates" (Bitch I'm not normal)
Leave it alone for a minute or so, try again. Again she stops me and I say, "but your so hot I want to fuck you so bad."
"me too, but I can't"
3rd time I start with grabbing her ass, and getting my hands in her pants there. It works and I grab her bare ass and try to reach around that way by just grabbing her ass all the way around. She is so turn on and moans everytime i squeeze, but again she won't let me in.
So I stop. "If you don't want to do this, your going to have to stop kissing me. I can't help myself."
We both lay there panting for 30 seconds. No one talking. Just breathing. We are pretty much spooning.
Another minute or so, I kiss her neck from behind and she immediatley shoves her ass so hard into my crouch and starts grinding. Without a second thought I slip my hand all the way down her pants. She starts to react but as soon as my hand touches her pussy she submits completely. From here i get her pants of very easily and go down on her. It's pretty much a sealed deal and I'm going down on her, she is loving it.
Then the door opens down stairs... fucking sister came home. "starwars your sister is home *she doesn't even hear me, she is lost* Hey your sister is home! "
She finally snaps out of it and scrambles to put her pants on. fuck me. Her sister and husband(had no idea she had one) take the dog out. She has me call an uber and sneaks me out before they come in.
She definitly would have fucked me but shit.
I get home I'm glowing in accomplishemnt at knowing what I allmost did. Should of had 2 first date lays in 1 week.
I decide to go out because i have blue bawls like a bitch.
There is just an air about me at this point and i get lots of looks but i'm hanging with my friends and the place is shit packed which is really annoying. The girl positions herself near me and keeps trying to get my attention so I open her with some fierce eye contact.
I literally had to do allmost nothing but lock eyes with her and she tries to chase me for kisses. Eventually I go back to her place and lay her. It was okay but I was horny so oh well.
Action packed night.
I'm pretty happy about how I overcame LMR, but if i was more decisive earlier I should have been able to finish this one off. She has already agreed to another date wednesday.
Because of how things finished.... I'm not so concered about the "failed escalation" , she technically didn't stop me.
This was a date with a girl I met out last Saturday(Star wars). She is a very smart career girl. Short, blonde wore her glasses making her look hella nerdy
. These are the girls I love the most, especially because I'm a closet nerd. Used to be ashamed of it in HS and college but no I love pulling that card out beacuse it is unexpected.
We meet at my go to spot 3 blocks from my place GB. It's a craft brewery on the water with tons of bar space and dim lighting. We were to meet a 7 and it was a beautiful spring day. I arrived 10 minutes early and just unfocused my eyes, posted up and just stared off into the harbor letting my mind drift.
She was 10 minutes late but I didn't mind, she was just going to have to work a little harder for my attention
. When she finally walked up she says,
I just naturally react and offer my hand as well, but quickly transitioned that into a hug. We go inside grab two seats at the bar and the same bartender is working and he def recognizes me.
Anyway I mention the place is awesome because they brew the beer in house and point to the vats and ask her what kind of beer she likes. She says lighter wheat beers so I reccomend the Hefe, we both order one.
Conversation picks up relatively slowly, I'm waiting for her to invest more and she still seems pretty nervous ( won't hold any time of eye contact as well).
At one point we are talking about TV shows and she mentions she was an extra in a TV show and got a pretty solid close up in the show. She says she has a picture and goes to pull out her phone
Me: Do you always show this picture on first dates?
Her: No haha, sorry. I actually don't go on many dates
*she pulls out the phone and theres a short silence*
Her: Do you go on many dates?
Me: *playfully* Yes, I go on dates all the time and I always come here
She begins to settle in and I deep dive her about school, work, hobbies, family etc while mixing in some teasing. We have a lot in common and the date is pretty fun.
After 40 minutes she gets up to go to the barthroom and point her to where it is. The bartender comes up to me and says
a little ego stroke is always appreciated haha.
We stay another 40 minutes finish our drinks. I just pay for hers and we head out.
I'm kind of pissed off at myself about how I proceeded here. As good as it was going she wasn't extremely responsive to my touch and that planted a seed of doubt.
We end up going for a walk towards her sisters house, it's about a 20 minute walk, and go visit her sister's puppy. She told me her sister was at a concert and wouldn't be home until later so I figure it was okay.
I should have said, "I have had fun with you and I want to continue hanging out" and see what her move was and tried to pull her home from there.
On the walk back
That made me want to kick myself.
5-10 minutes later we are talking about the pup and I say,
"Me: Just to warn you, dogs love me, I may steal all the attention.
Her: No way, he love me so much!"
-----------
We get to her sisters house she goes up to get the dog and I go to the bathroom. As I finish pissing I get a fucking random as nosebleed. WTF. Have to run back into the bathroom but luckily she is still upstairs and I get it stopped just in time and flush the blood down the toilet.
The pup is a cockapoo and he is a strait G, and of course the little bugger loves me and can't stop licking my face. After 10-15 minutes we are playing a little fetch with him and as I throw the toy and he runs off. I just grab her leg slide her over to me on the floor(hardwood) and we start making out. She gets into it very fast, but the dam dog comes back and starts licking our face so she gigles and we stop. this happens 3 or 4 more times until she finally decides to put the dog to bed.
We go upstair and put him away. I grab her and push her on the couch and start making out with her. One thing leads to another shit is getting really hot. I am kissing her all over and rubbing her all over outside of her pants...... then LMR hits.
She wont let me get inside or unbotton the her pants. "I don't normally do this on first dates" (Bitch I'm not normal)
Leave it alone for a minute or so, try again. Again she stops me and I say, "but your so hot I want to fuck you so bad."
"me too, but I can't"
3rd time I start with grabbing her ass, and getting my hands in her pants there. It works and I grab her bare ass and try to reach around that way by just grabbing her ass all the way around. She is so turn on and moans everytime i squeeze, but again she won't let me in.
So I stop. "If you don't want to do this, your going to have to stop kissing me. I can't help myself."
We both lay there panting for 30 seconds. No one talking. Just breathing. We are pretty much spooning.
Another minute or so, I kiss her neck from behind and she immediatley shoves her ass so hard into my crouch and starts grinding. Without a second thought I slip my hand all the way down her pants. She starts to react but as soon as my hand touches her pussy she submits completely. From here i get her pants of very easily and go down on her. It's pretty much a sealed deal and I'm going down on her, she is loving it.
Then the door opens down stairs... fucking sister came home. "starwars your sister is home *she doesn't even hear me, she is lost* Hey your sister is home! "
She finally snaps out of it and scrambles to put her pants on. fuck me. Her sister and husband(had no idea she had one) take the dog out. She has me call an uber and sneaks me out before they come in.
She definitly would have fucked me but shit.
I get home I'm glowing in accomplishemnt at knowing what I allmost did. Should of had 2 first date lays in 1 week.
I decide to go out because i have blue bawls like a bitch.
There is just an air about me at this point and i get lots of looks but i'm hanging with my friends and the place is shit packed which is really annoying. The girl positions herself near me and keeps trying to get my attention so I open her with some fierce eye contact.
I literally had to do allmost nothing but lock eyes with her and she tries to chase me for kisses. Eventually I go back to her place and lay her. It was okay but I was horny so oh well.
Action packed night.
I'm pretty happy about how I overcame LMR, but if i was more decisive earlier I should have been able to finish this one off. She has already agreed to another date wednesday.
Because of how things finished.... I'm not so concered about the "failed escalation" , she technically didn't stop me.
