LR Slow to Start and then...

[thedude]

Well this past Friday night was fun.

Things continue to heat up in my dating life and it feeeels good!

Lets get started-

On Friday night my Fraternity was having a mixer with this brand new sorority on campus. Since the sorority was still under their nationals supervision we were forced to have the mixer at a bar in order to prevent underage drinking(lol)

Beginning

This was a hard night for me at the sushi Bar we held the mixer at. Downstairs where the mixer was held was loud as fuck. One thing that was in my favor was that I was in a sling from dislocating my shoulder the night before during a boxing haha.

So there was a sympathy value I could use plus it was a fun conversation starter.

However it was still a slog at the beginning. I tried talking to multiple different girls but the combination of us not being able to hear one another literally killed the interaction.

One interaction that had promise was with this one girl. I was standing at the bar and I saw her look at me. When she glanced at my again I held eye contact with her and then broke it off. I engaged her soon after with this.

Me: Hey can you kiss my shoulder, I think it would make it feel better (Had to say this three times because of how loud it is….)

Her: haha ok(she kissed my shoulder)

The rest of our conversation was us trying to hear one another and me trying to move her to a quieter place but failing because she got turned off haha

The entire night was filled with a couple of episodes like this, I did not feel good about how I was acting and it was a slog for most of the night.

Afterwards

Everyone begins to leave and everyone in the fraternity is informed that as part of our package we get free drinks and free entry at a bar called The Rat. So a group of us who want to go home head to the Rat just to check it out.

We enter and the place is not as packed or as loud as it usually is(yay). I take a lay of the land and there are some cute girls. My friend comes up to me and tells me to talk to girls and tell them this story he came up with. Basically its about how some asshole calls my friend a slut and I kick his ass but dislocate my shoulder in the process haha.

Then another friend comes up to me and says, “dude, let me introduce you to one of these girls – how I met your mother style”.

So he goes…. “Haaaavvveee you met my friend Collegejunior? “
It actually works like a charm and she asks me about my arm…

Her: What happened to your arm?
Me; Well….. (tell friend’s BS story)
Her: Did that actually happen
Me: Ya of course! (lol)

We chat some more, I joke around about how disgusting the Rat is and I actually go in for a kiss that she rejects. I remain unfazed and as we continue talking we get closer and closer. Eventually we make out for a bit before I pull away and invite her home shortly after to smoke/watch a tv show or whatever.

The walk to my house is a long one which I take the opportunity to deep dive her about her passions/hobbies and we bond about subjects like art and how we appreciate it yet do not have the time to learn the complex intricacies of it. She also asks me if the story is really true and I tell her how it really happens and she does not care that I lied earlier haha.

We get back, talk for a couple of minutes, make move, sex.

This girl was ok, bangable as I would say. Very inexperienced and he also could not have sex for a very long period of time. I make the decision not to hit her up again.

Well there you have it. It is funny how these things work. I still need to improve my bar game but next time I think I will chill out instead of stressing about the little things.

My real focus these days are these two dates I have approaching on Saturday and Tuesday. Plus I am seeing this super hot girl who is a virgin again on Thursday. All of these girls are attractive and I hope to have casual relationships with them and see them constantly until the semester ends.

Also any tips for deflowering a girl?

P.S- two days later screwed some chubby chick off of Tinder…. meh. (she sucked dick real good though)- Will not contact her again either however.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

This girl was ok, bangable as I would say. Very inexperienced and he also could not have sex for a very long period of time. I make the decision not to hit her up again.

So cajual. Hit that shit a few more times and teach her how to suck dick.

P.S- two days later screwed some chubby chick off of Tinder…. meh. (she sucked dick real good though)- Will not contact her again either however.

 

[thedude]

This girl was ok, bangable as I would say. Very inexperienced and he also could not have sex for a very long period of time. I make the decision not to hit her up again.

So cajual. Hit that shit a few more times and teach her how to suck dick.

P.S- two days later screwed some chubby chick off of Tinder…. meh. (she sucked dick real good though)- Will not contact her again either however.

I would but she is also kind of annoying. She just says sorry constantly haha. Plus I have this sexy latina who I am working on. She's a virgin but it is looooking promising. Furthermore with some dates on Saturday and Tuesday which look good I am chillin.

One thing though, are some of the masters of game jack of all trades? Said differently, can really experienced people pick up in all sorts of environments like Bars/clubs/daygame etc? Frat Party/night game in general is really sticking it to me. My last report was the first time I ever picked from a bar.

 

[Grand Pooba]

CJ,

Seeing some solid progress from you this semester - it sounds like you're really going out there and pushing the envelope. And perhaps part of this is also that you're becoming far more comfortable in your own skin! Good stuff.

Me: Hey can you kiss my shoulder, I think it would make it feel better (Had to say this three times because of how loud it is….)

Her: haha ok(she kissed my shoulder)

This is hilarious - I see you're playing the sympathy card.

We chat some more, I joke around about how disgusting the Rat is and I actually go in for a kiss that she rejects. I remain unfazed and as we continue talking we get closer and closer. Eventually we make out for a bit before I pull away and invite her home shortly after to smoke/watch a tv show or whatever.

I'd like to hear more details about this, since this is the real meat about what happened and where your progress is. However, well done sir! It's awesome that you continued to pursue even after she rejected you, and then later on you tried again and it worked. Never give up. Also good job on using the escalation window to pull her out promptly.

This girl was ok, bangable as I would say.

What does this mean?

Also any tips for deflowering a girl?

Get her primed up well with oral first so that she's super wet. Make sure you lay down a towel, and also when you go in do it very slowly and steady. Hard thrusting might not be ideal for the first time or you may have to do it slowly for 5-10min, but you really just have to see how she feels. Good luck!

 

[thedude]

@Grand Pooba '

By bangable I mean she is not so revolting to the senses that it would be inconceivable to have sex with her.

Also I laid the virgin last night. My god she is a latina and she is god damn sexy.... However I made the error of having the bright idea to split a hash brownie(shes never done any drugs) that was waaaaayyy to fucking strong. We were both laughing like stoned fools until it went south and she thought she was going to die.... oops!

So I'll have to mend that now but I think the future looks bright despite me being a dumbass haha

@Anatman

I'll certainly do that with the next one.

 

[ray_zorse]

Tips for deflowering a girl... yes I have some solid tips, I put them into practice recently and they went great, although it turned out she was not a virgin, just shy.

I suggest you read this book: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memoirs_of_a_Geisha, which is what gave me these ideas. Well I will give a brief summar
A geisha is not exactly a prostitute, more like a hostess. She entertains by singing, playing shamisen, putting on pantomimes with the other geishas in the house, and she also flirts with and deep dives Japanese businessmen. She aims to get into an extramarital relationship with one of these businessmen who will essentially buy her from the house, then set her up in an apartment and she will see him exclusively, as long as he supports her in fine style.

A "maiko" is a geisha who is still a virgin. She is in training, the full training takes years. She wears a different kimono. And, when it is judged the right time (she has a number of adoring businessmen fans who would like to get into a relationship with her), her virginity will be auctioned off to the highest bidder. Yep, that's right. Now there was a particular businessman in the story who specialized in this so-called "mizuage" and bought a lot of girls' virginity.

The successful bidder gets to take her somewhere, like an onsen resort, for a week. I have been taken to an onsen resort by my ex-gf for my birthday and let me tell you it's a fantastic experience, you have a personal staff wearing kimono who turn down your futon for you every night, and set things up just so, and personally serve you an exquisite feast each day for breakfast and dinner, you also spend your time in private bathing in the nude with your gf. But I digress...

Anyway so this dude's process was basically he builds comfort with her by taking her out and getting to know her etc, and then when he gets her in private (she's extremely nervous) he gets out some massage oil and has her rub it in around his private parts etc, and he does the same thing to her. He repeats this every night for the week (in the meantime they're having fun together during the days and he's getting to know her more and more), by which time she's so comfortable with the process that she's not really expecting it when he just slips it in Note she'd be kind of tight, so the massage oil would also have a secondary function.

My gf really liked it and the first night, when I walked her down to the station, I roguishly pulled out the small bottle of massage oil and slipped it into her hand and told her to put some on every night (I had previously explained to her how to masturbate), I thought this would be a good way to generate extra investment in me.

Ray