Slut Shaming

[pks391]

Hey guys I recently encountered some of my friends who were slut shaming women. Now I do not agree with their views but it got me thinking. Is slut shaming correct? Where does it come from? Does having multiple sexual partners really indicate the strength of a woman's fidelity after marriage? And will having multiple sexual partners really affect society and social bonds between men and women who wish to marry each other as a whole?

I am eager to know your insights

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hello

Slut shaming is important. And if you notice this in reality, high level guys won't slut shame but they won't deny what people do. I have the same conclusion. I believe Chase will have the same thoughts.

It's not that we advocate or agree that slut shaming is good but you eventually learn that women just can't go out there do what they want and then bullshit society.

and that is also the crux of today's problems. You can say it also makes the gridlock in dating. I been the high value guy and the low value guy. You just don't understand until you actually see it FULL VIEW, see it, experience it, hear it.

That can fuck your brains up if you see it, experience it and hear it. That's why bullshit like religion and education is important. to keep society SANE.

Zac

 

[pks391]

Hello

Slut shaming is important. And if you notice this in reality, high level guys won't slut shame but they won't deny what people do. I have the same conclusion. I believe Chase will have the same thoughts.

It's not that we advocate or agree that slut shaming is good but you eventually learn that women just can't go out there do what they want and then bullshit society.

and that is also the crux of today's problems. You can say it also makes the gridlock in dating. I been the high value guy and the low value guy. You just don't understand until you actually see it FULL VIEW, see it, experience it, hear it.

That can fuck your brains up if you see it, experience it and hear it. That's why bullshit like religion and education is important. to keep society SANE.

Zac

Hey Zac, nice to hear from you again.....

But what would you say about the emotional/commitment stability of women who have multiple partners?

 

[RAFox]

Pks,

As a rule of thumb, the more partners a girl has had, the less she thinks of sex as a big deal.

So the likelihood of her cheating increases with the number of guys she's been together with.

This is among the reasons you would want to get a relatively inexperienced girl if you want to set yourself up for a more serious, long-lasting relationship.

 

[pks391]

Pks,

As a rule of thumb, the more partners a girl has had, the less she thinks of sex as a big deal.

So the likelihood of her cheating increases with the number of guys she's been together with.

This is among the reasons you would want to get a relatively inexperienced girl if you want to set yourself up for a more serious, long-lasting relationship.

Hey RAFox, long time no see...

Yeah, I guess that is the sad truth.....

I guess girls like those don't really change after all....

 

[Richard]

Slut-shaming usually stems from a place of jealousy or personal insecurity in one way or another;

Girl hooks up with guy, another girl wanted that guy so the first girl is a slut.
Girl hooks up with guy, another guy wanted that girl, so the girl is a slut.
Girl shows that she's cool about sex, another girl is upset she isn't so cool so the first girl is a slut.

Anyway, it's not that you can't get a girl who's had multiple partners to commit, you absolutely can, you just need to be a pretty high quality guy. Most girls have wild flings and sexual peaks in college and as they get into their late 20s and early 30s they mellow out a bit and focus on finding a high quality guy to be stable with - if you're a high quality guy then you have a great chance at keeping her loyal.

So, don't discredit how age plays a role here, either. If she's 21 and has had multiple partners then I think there's way too much involved to keep a girl like that monogamous to you, etc.

-Richard

 

[trashKENNUT]

pks391,

But what would you say about the emotional/commitment stability of women who have multiple partners?

Equivalent to a "spoilt brat" living in a rich home/first world women/"spoilt" child/etc



But if she is experienced, you wouldn't know. Let me just share a story. A girl friend pays a visit at an event that i participated many years back. I didn't know she was there but i was "cool" now, and her attraction spike, and i found out her boyfriend was travelling for 3 months.

And she was hinting heavily, even messing up conversation between a friend and myself creating awkwardness that i have to dismiss her.

And this is a girl, whom is so nice, so bubbly, and kind of girl you would want to bring home to your parents.

So yea.... p.s: I try to avoid telling people this story because it change my life. It alters my paradigm 360. Everything previously didn't matter.



Zac

 

[pks391]

pks391,

But what would you say about the emotional/commitment stability of women who have multiple partners?

Equivalent to a "spoilt brat" living in a rich home/first world women/"spoilt" child/etc



But if she is experienced, you wouldn't know. Let me just share a story. A girl friend pays a visit at an event that i participated many years back. I didn't know she was there but i was "cool" now, and her attraction spike, and i found out her boyfriend was travelling for 3 months.

And she was hinting heavily, even messing up conversation between a friend and myself creating awkwardness that i have to dismiss her.

And this is a girl, whom is so nice, so bubbly, and kind of girl you would want to bring home to your parents.

So yea.... p.s: I try to avoid telling people this story because it change my life. It alters my paradigm 360. Everything previously didn't matter.



Zac

No Problem, thanks so much for sharing....much appreciated