Smooth responses when she says "I'm boring" (referring to herself)

[Beam]

I've gotten this quite a few times from girls in both real life and online - I'll try to dig deep into what they enjoy doing and a lot of the time they'll say "I don't know, I'm boring haha". If they say this I'll usually playfully tell them "ah ok, see you later" and walk off before coming back with a smile and challenge - "there must be something you enjoy doing" or something similar. I feel this comes across as too serious though. If she says something like "I don't know, I watch Netflix, I'm boring" or similar, I might ask what she's watching but I don't know, going along this route also makes me come across as not much of a challenge. Curious to know if anyone has any good cocky funny responses to this that maintain your value in her eyes (not rewarding her for saying she is boring but at the same time not taking it too seriously and having some fun with it)

 

[Will_V]

I usually ask her if she's creative at all, and whatever she says imply that that means she's not actually boring. To me though it's a bit annoying because either a) she couldn't be bothered to qualify herself or b) I'm being boring and asking her questions she doesn't feel like answering.

I prefer to be suggestive rather than questioning, starting off with things like "You know when .." "Have you ever noticed that .." "Do you ever .." "Don't you love it when .." to create a conversational thread, and then subtly associating things about her with it to give her the urge to qualify herself.

 

[dark hawk]

I've gotten this quite a few times from girls in both real life and online - I'll try to dig deep into what they enjoy doing and a lot of the time they'll say "I don't know, I'm boring haha". If they say this I'll usually playfully tell them "ah ok, see you later" and walk off before coming back with a smile and challenge - "there must be something you enjoy doing" or something similar. I feel this comes across as too serious though. If she says something like "I don't know, I watch Netflix, I'm boring" or similar, I might ask what she's watching but I don't know, going along this route also makes me come across as not much of a challenge. Curious to know if anyone has any good cocky funny responses to this that maintain your value in her eyes (not rewarding her for saying she is boring but at the same time not taking it too seriously and having some fun with it)

Depends on what kind a of a girl she is, if she is not sensitive, I would actually agree with her saying she is boring and amplify it by saying..... Seems to me like you're practicing to be a monk and lead a spartan life, this creates a powerful pattern interrupt and she might challenge you back asking "what you do" and then you can answer in plenty of ways. The key here is to say playful and avoid being logical and rational.

If she's is sensitive you do the same thing, in a more gentler way, or you could reframe her attempt to brand what she considers as boring to be exciting, or actually accept that she is boring and maybe lead her to a more exciting experience, women did that.

 

[dingdong]

How to jive with a girl who doesn't give you much to work with/dive into?

Often when i approach a girl and asks her what she studies and she says "economics" or some other dry thing and i ask what she likes to do for fun and she says "I don't know, i like to hang out with friends and watch netflix", how do you deep dive a girl with boring hobbies and a boring field of...

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I have the same issue as you. Some girls are just very boring you'll ask them what they like to do for fun and they will say "Idk, hang out with friends". Here you can grill her for being a gossip girl blah blah but that's only a superficial fix in that instance. So i do very well when women have an interesting personality or something to talk about i.e. they are passionate about something, but the boring ones without any passions going for them other than an office job, listening to mainstream music, mainstream, mainstream, mainstream and scrolling on instagram i just can't really get a vibe going with.

So here's the bigger fix that i have yet to implement fully into my game yet.
Stop being a boring ass dude who ask her if she likes to paint or whatever. She's just a young girl who likes to party and you asking her all these deep questions is gonna turn her off. Instead she just wants a fun cool dude who can give her a good fuck, so be that guy instead.

What i do if i'm in the right mood and that type of behaviour doesn't bore me to tears within 5 seconds and i eject, i will just carry the conversation. Get some teasing and stories going. Cold read her and stuff. Just carry the conversation.

 

[Zoro]

So here's the bigger fix that i have yet to implement fully into my game yet.
Stop being a boring ass dude who ask her if she likes to paint or whatever. She's just a young girl who likes to party and you asking her all these deep questions is gonna turn her off. Instead she just wants a fun cool dude who can give her a good fuck, so be that guy instead.

I like what you say here Phoenix, doesn't matter if her life is boring. Bring the adventure to her world.

But yeah if she really is straight up boring, better probably to bounce and not drive yourself crazy.

 

[Kvothe]

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Phrase your question like the revamped golden question and watch those comments about being boring disappear