I'm not saying that there isn't much to learn.... "He who thinks he knows how to do something before attempting it will never learn."
That being said, I honestly do think I am a natural and would love some feedback from the veterans here on GC....
I had tons of insecurities for 18 years of my life... after moving away from home to a very rural area with some family members, I've had a lot of time to myself... Tons of introspection, meditation, etc. I've had people tell me that I'm a lion, a social beast, a doer, a leader, that they 'wouldn't be surprised if I was running the resort I was working out in a few years"... and because of insecurities, I doubted them. BUT, after hearing it more and more, my insecurities are going away immensely... Especially because every day, and every new experience where I'm an effortless powerful 19 year old man is reassuring and the confidence feels so good.
Things that I've realized/noticed for any guys out there struggling...
Social Value.... Compliment people without expecting anything in return... The powerful man gives compliments because he wants to i.e. a powerful man does what he wants... People will be a little tripped out by your authenticity, but then they will come around and support you on your journey.
Chase wrote it in a post... I think it was the Vampire one... Guys, there ARE Vampires out there. They will hate you, be jealous of your success, talk shit about you, suck your energy to the core, etc. But the more powerful you become, the more non reactive, the more alpha (which is doable) you become the less they will be able to manipulate the powerful people around you because the powerful people around you will know who you are... An equal and an ally.
Drop the jealousy.... Focus on your passions and goals. Don't be vindictive... please... It's a waste of energy. Got haters? Good. If you're not pissing people off, you're not doing something right... Remember, just like anger is fleeting and you should be non-reactive in social situations, people who are jealous are CHOOSING to react that way. Don't worry about them. Learn to trump male competition and be an 'unshakeable force' (another thing told to me)
With all that being said... The last validation I get, happily from GC.. I would like you to read a FB message I received earlier today from a really sexy girl I knew back in middle school. What do you see in the interaction?
I've been on a mountain... 40 minutes from people for 10 months and have made it a goal to internalize every mindset, read and reread posts until I understand them before I head out to the real world.... That doesn't mean it's gonna be easy, but the mindsets are, I want to say 70%... A lot of the messaging is Chase's style... I find that we are pretty similar in the way we speak. I said 'way cool', 'dabble', 'oh god' etc.. After seeing him use it I was like O: boom... we're on the same wavelength. Any input on that convo? It's only a convo... you can say whatever you want over text, there's no nerves, etc. Either way, FB is all I've got until I move out in 2-3 months.
Thanks again. You really are a great group of guys!
Wanted to give you guys a really great tool that will make you 'working smart' much 'smarter'
http://vark-learn.com/the-vark-questionnaire/
That being said, I honestly do think I am a natural and would love some feedback from the veterans here on GC....
I had tons of insecurities for 18 years of my life... after moving away from home to a very rural area with some family members, I've had a lot of time to myself... Tons of introspection, meditation, etc. I've had people tell me that I'm a lion, a social beast, a doer, a leader, that they 'wouldn't be surprised if I was running the resort I was working out in a few years"... and because of insecurities, I doubted them. BUT, after hearing it more and more, my insecurities are going away immensely... Especially because every day, and every new experience where I'm an effortless powerful 19 year old man is reassuring and the confidence feels so good.
Things that I've realized/noticed for any guys out there struggling...
Social Value.... Compliment people without expecting anything in return... The powerful man gives compliments because he wants to i.e. a powerful man does what he wants... People will be a little tripped out by your authenticity, but then they will come around and support you on your journey.
Chase wrote it in a post... I think it was the Vampire one... Guys, there ARE Vampires out there. They will hate you, be jealous of your success, talk shit about you, suck your energy to the core, etc. But the more powerful you become, the more non reactive, the more alpha (which is doable) you become the less they will be able to manipulate the powerful people around you because the powerful people around you will know who you are... An equal and an ally.
Drop the jealousy.... Focus on your passions and goals. Don't be vindictive... please... It's a waste of energy. Got haters? Good. If you're not pissing people off, you're not doing something right... Remember, just like anger is fleeting and you should be non-reactive in social situations, people who are jealous are CHOOSING to react that way. Don't worry about them. Learn to trump male competition and be an 'unshakeable force' (another thing told to me)
With all that being said... The last validation I get, happily from GC.. I would like you to read a FB message I received earlier today from a really sexy girl I knew back in middle school. What do you see in the interaction?
I've been on a mountain... 40 minutes from people for 10 months and have made it a goal to internalize every mindset, read and reread posts until I understand them before I head out to the real world.... That doesn't mean it's gonna be easy, but the mindsets are, I want to say 70%... A lot of the messaging is Chase's style... I find that we are pretty similar in the way we speak. I said 'way cool', 'dabble', 'oh god' etc.. After seeing him use it I was like O: boom... we're on the same wavelength. Any input on that convo? It's only a convo... you can say whatever you want over text, there's no nerves, etc. Either way, FB is all I've got until I move out in 2-3 months.
Thanks again. You really are a great group of guys!
Wanted to give you guys a really great tool that will make you 'working smart' much 'smarter'
http://vark-learn.com/the-vark-questionnaire/
