So I had sex and...

[Xerud]

I had sex twice both of times I didn't get it hard.

I need to stop jerking it I haven't jerked for 2 days from last ""sex"" but I don't feel horny at all. Usually after 2 days of no jerking I was feeling horny as fuck. What's wrong with me?

I didn't realised that porn can have such big impact on that! Even some friends said about that.

Thank you for all your helpful informaitons.

 

[Xerud]

Probably I was scared. We fucked in bushes, maybe because of that. But she was really kind and everything to me tried everything to turn me on, but nothing helped. She said I just want to be with you no matter what.

I'll check it out. It was constantly medium and then just went to soft.

So I think in bed next time will work for sure, but anyway I'll stop watching porn and jerking off.

 

[ocantu1987]

NoFap will definitely help you out man.

 

[Flames]

Kindness is a turn off

 

[Xerud]

It's more than 4 days I haven't jerked off. There were times when I wanted to, but I didn't. I think I feel I have much more energy. I won't jerk it off anymore

 

[HellAtlantic]

Not jerking off a lot has done wonders for my ability to get hard erections without pills. At my height I was jacking it twice a day. Oooof! Now I go like 4-5 days without jacking off. One thing I hated when I was jacking a lot was my cum wasn't very high in volume. Now with a few days build up I'm cumming real impressive loads and when you're with a girl you want to come like an alpha male and not a beta who dribbles his cum like a wimp. It's also more satisfying for me to cum larger loads so it's worth holding off on jacking just for me to get those bigger loads. It's the payoff for being patient and having self control. It feels really good to actually shoot your cum in 3-4 spurts and then dribble the rest out. You can't do that if you're constantly ejaculating. It's also not good for your zinc levels to constantly ejaculate. Depleted zinc means depleted testosterone which results in wimpy erections.

 

[ocantu1987]

Now I go like 4-5 days without jacking off

Yeah, just let me clarify, I was referring more to long term not jacking off in between long period between trying to get laid. Any type of ejaculation every 4-5 days is completely healthy depending on your own personal sex drive.

What I was referring to is going like 2 months or something with no sex or j-ing off.

Personally, if I stop j-ing it and I'm not getting laid, Im super horny after a week, and that builds to an annoying level the second week, and then around the end of the second week I kind of stop caring and my libido actually goes down. Im not sure if anyone else experiences something like that or not. I try to make sure getting off on a pretty regular basis for max horniness. Every 3-5 days is ideal for me as well to rebuild horniness and desire like you say. However, desire also depends on the girl and the situation and my mood and time and whatnot. I certainly go through periods Im ready to fuck someone all the time and am j-ing off a lot and getting laid a lot, and then through periods where I am absorbed in working out or business/work and my focus just isn't on sex enough to be that horny all the time.

Radeng

I see what you mean radeng, Ive been on Nofap for 30 days and I had ups and downs with libido.