So I Stole This Chicks Hat..

[Jacob2795]

This is kind of trivial but whatever maybe I'll learn something from it.

Yesterday I went out to a bar with some friends of mine from school, 5 girls, one of whom I plan on making my next conquest. To my surprise I actually played things really well with this girl. I had my non-verbals down exceptionally well if I do say so myself, I was deep diving and moving her well, and as the night went on I kept getting more IOI's from her. She was qualifying to my tests (not sure if I worded that correctly, but you know what I mean), mirroring my movements, and doing all that good stuff girls do when they like you. Overall a successful night. While we were all walking to the tram stop I skillfully snagged her hat away from her and convinced her to let me borrow it for the day, as we are meeting up again tomorrow to go to that same bar.

I thought it would be a good idea because it would have her thinking more about me and looking forward to seeing me more because I have something that she wants. I read on here that even thinking about someone else is a form of investment, and who cant appreciate a little more investment?

I have a good idea that this next meeting will determine weather or not I'll be scoring with this chick so I want to cover all my bases. Anyway down to the question: Do I give the hat back right away or not?

If I give the hat back it'd be good because i'm fulfilling a promise, and i'm always down for being honest, but I could see how that might be a form of investment, and I would loose a potential window for an excellent opportunity.

I could "forget" the hat, giving her an excuse to come stop by to my place either that night or at least give her one more reason to set up another meeting later on in the week. Or that might just piss her off.

That about wraps it up. Am I over analyzing here or is this worth mulling over a bit? Let me know and what yall think, any ideas at all help.

 

[Garrett]

Jacob,

Interesting what you did there man!

I think you may be over thinking this a bit and perhaps that is down to your lack of options, but only you know if this is true, so I'll leave you with that. I will, however, say this - If you don't have a lot of girls around, start meeting more so you don't feel as much pressure and begin to think too much about this girl .

With that being said, I think you should leave the hat at your place. Go meet her for a drink, talk for an hour or 2, then pull her back to your place, so you have a logical excuse to go back there. Keep the hat in your room or wherever you're escalating. Talk to her for a couple minutes to get her comfortable back at your place, then have sex with her in your 'seduction location' for lack of better words. If you give the hat back to her, it makes it a bit harder to pull, because you'll have to make up a reason to get her back and it's slightly more work. What you've done actually works in your favour, so if I were you, I'd build up the sexual tension/chasing on the date and let her play along with your little game until you reach the bedroom .

Cheers,
Garrett

 

[TheWrangler]

Don't give her the hat back, sell it on Ebay, and never text her again.

Depending on how you play it, you can either give it back to her (but like the Garrett said, you'll need another reason to get her back to your place, making it a harder pull) or leave it at your place, and tell her you forgot it. The only problem that I can see arising, is if she gets into her head that she's "only going to your place to pick up her hat." If you build the sexual tension she probably won't be thinking that anyway, but you can also take that excuse away by teasing "we're only going back to my place to get your hat"