Social Burden: When and How to tell

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So, Chase has stated all across his site that women are attracted to men who can keep savvy about the social realm. Something he has mentioned several times, and although it seems simple, it may effect more of us than we suspect.
Being a social burden.
Now, being a social burden is assumed to be where your actions and presence that, instead of brining positive reinforcment and joy/pleasure/conversation to a group, does the direct opposite by being awkward, or just being offbeat.
How can you tell you are walking the fine line between being "Cool" and following the law of least effort, and just being silent or creepy?

 

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Following the Law of Least Effort does not mean following a path of no effort at all. Do not be mistaken.
You can be cool and still contribute to society more than someone else in the group. As long as you are contributing Quality stuff, such as your own experience and knowledge.
People will percieve you as an expert.
As long as you're generally interested in what the group is talking about, and you're "Listening..", then you won't become a social burden.
There is a big difference between being a listener.... and someone who is a Social Burden.
real social burdens contributes negativity into the group, such as always moaning and disagreeing with others.