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Background
Yesterday I attented a booooring workshop for everybody who works at the same company as myself throughout the nation. After the workshops the hosts served tasteful dinner with a favorite comedian of mine performing. There was also a concert afterwards (it sucked). After the concert we had two hours to party (10 pm-12 am) with free drinks before buses would drive us back home. I attented this event with 4 coworkers: a guy and three girls.
Throughout the workshops, dinner and concert, I would stick to my coworkers, but during the party I would occassionally separate myself from them or being left. But that doesn't really matter. I had come to this event with no expectations for anything, and this would turn out to be key in how the whole night went.
The party
My male coworker got dizzy in the afternoon and rested for a few hours, so we picked him up and went to the party around 10.20 when he felt better. We all got a drink, and I took one of the girls by the hand and led her to the dancefloor with one of the girls (let's just call her girl 1 as she played a major role tonight). We danced for a minute or two until the other girls joined us and took part in our dancing. The guy didn't join (he thinks he dances awkwardly) even though we tried, so we left it at that. A bad song came up on the speakers eventually, and I had finished my drink. Left the dancefloor, got a new drink and went to other peoples' tables to share a toast with them. I took some of the cute girls by their hand after the toast and said confindently "come dance with me". I spinned one of them around on the spot and tried to lead her afterwards, but she let go of my hands and left. I was rejected by all, but whatever. I wasn't too focused on any particular girls, but I was in a good mood. I went outside to get some fresh air.
Girl 1 and male coworker found me outside, and we talked for 5 minutes. Eventually I could hear they were playing a song I love and told them let's go back inside. So we went back to the dancefloor with our drinks done. I danced with girl 1 for 30 seconds when some random blond girl (RBG) bumped into me. I kept dancing with girl 1, but RBG wanted to dance with us. I thought "heck, why not" and began dancing with RBG. I shared a nod with girl 1, and she understood I was going for it. She stayed around and would not interrupt, no problem. She saw I had my sunglasses in the chest pocket of my shirt and asked me to wear them. I teased her that she couldn't handle it, and she shouted "oooooooooh!" (did a rapper just throw a punch line, or was she intrigued by my push?). But I did put them on and took them of a minute later. This is where a random dude eventually showed up and tried to separate me and RBG from each other. And after a short time she actually went over to him herself. Oh, okay. Nevermind.
Girl 1 was still around, and I went over to her. She asked me who the guy was and I had no clue. She looked at me with a confused look on her face. This messed with her head, so what did she do? She went over to RBG WHILE she was "dancing" (yes, "dancing") with the random dude, trying to convince her to dance with me. I saw RBG thinking about things for a second and went in to drag her away from the guy. We continued our dancing from where we left. At one point we danced back to back with my hands on her hips, and I turned my head right to ask her who the guy was that kept annoying her. He was a coworker, but he was 19 which she thought was too young for her taste. I didn't even ask about her age haha! But we kept dancing and I moved her to another part of the dancefloor to get away from her coworker.
Even though I had a great time dancing with her, it was horrible to dance with her for one reason: she led herself haha! Like, she would just raise my hand to spin herself around lol! And I thought no way. So I took charge physically and made her follow my lead. Eventually she asked me if I danced salsa because of the way I made her spin around and whatnot. The truth is I do take salsa classes, but our dancing was not even close to salsa. This is where she went up to the DJ and asked him to put on some salsa song, and he did. So we danced to this song, and I tried to make her perform a simple salsa move.... and accidentally hit her on her forehead with both my AND her arm hahaha! I had actually thought of going for a make out during the song, but she was so upset about my "miserable fail" that she left the dancefloor. At first I ran after her, poked her arm and told her "come back, we're not done yet". But she continued her own way saying nothing. Oh well, shit happens =) And she was probably looking for a way to get away from her young coworker ha!
I found all my coworkers at a table close to the dancefloor around 11. They asked me how it'd go with RBG, and I said "well, shit happens" with a smile but didn't go into the detail about the accident. They thought that was sad lol. And girl 1 told me what she'd say to RBG. Apparantly she told her that between the two choices she had, she should go for the hotter one and not the uglier. Why, thank you, sweety!
I got a new drink, looked for new people to toast with, but find none new. I returned to my group, drank up and got the girls out on the dancefloor once more. While dancing I noticed a few girls from different tables watching us and thought I might have preselection from dancing with my coworkers. One girl from a table filled with only girls came closer to my group. I poked her, met her eyes with a smile and said hi. She left in a "girly" (shy) way. Silly girl, she probably got nervous =) I danced with my coworkers again and saw another girl that she was standing at a table by herself. She seemed receptive, but I didn't approach her. Silly me.
The party was slowly dying, and thus, it ended.
Thougths
1. A sticking point of mine is to be too much in my head. But as I had told myself to not having any expectations for this event, I just went with the flow and followed my intuition. This event proved that I can do a lot more when I don't limit myself because of thoughts and emotions. I need to test this out daygame as well.
2. I've never asked girl 1 to be any sort of wingman to me ever, but she did help me with RBG. I probably wouldn't have reenganged RBG if girl 1 didn't talk to her. On our way home with the bus she also asked me what I thought about our new female coworker - a long time friend of hers who couldn't attend this event. Does she genuniely want me to success with girls? And for what reasons could it be? This whole female wingman is new territory to me, let's see what happens. If any seducers here have experience with female wingmen, please enlighten me!
Any feedback welcome. Otherwise, hope you enjoyed reading =)
Yesterday I attented a booooring workshop for everybody who works at the same company as myself throughout the nation. After the workshops the hosts served tasteful dinner with a favorite comedian of mine performing. There was also a concert afterwards (it sucked). After the concert we had two hours to party (10 pm-12 am) with free drinks before buses would drive us back home. I attented this event with 4 coworkers: a guy and three girls.
Throughout the workshops, dinner and concert, I would stick to my coworkers, but during the party I would occassionally separate myself from them or being left. But that doesn't really matter. I had come to this event with no expectations for anything, and this would turn out to be key in how the whole night went.
The party
My male coworker got dizzy in the afternoon and rested for a few hours, so we picked him up and went to the party around 10.20 when he felt better. We all got a drink, and I took one of the girls by the hand and led her to the dancefloor with one of the girls (let's just call her girl 1 as she played a major role tonight). We danced for a minute or two until the other girls joined us and took part in our dancing. The guy didn't join (he thinks he dances awkwardly) even though we tried, so we left it at that. A bad song came up on the speakers eventually, and I had finished my drink. Left the dancefloor, got a new drink and went to other peoples' tables to share a toast with them. I took some of the cute girls by their hand after the toast and said confindently "come dance with me". I spinned one of them around on the spot and tried to lead her afterwards, but she let go of my hands and left. I was rejected by all, but whatever. I wasn't too focused on any particular girls, but I was in a good mood. I went outside to get some fresh air.
Girl 1 and male coworker found me outside, and we talked for 5 minutes. Eventually I could hear they were playing a song I love and told them let's go back inside. So we went back to the dancefloor with our drinks done. I danced with girl 1 for 30 seconds when some random blond girl (RBG) bumped into me. I kept dancing with girl 1, but RBG wanted to dance with us. I thought "heck, why not" and began dancing with RBG. I shared a nod with girl 1, and she understood I was going for it. She stayed around and would not interrupt, no problem. She saw I had my sunglasses in the chest pocket of my shirt and asked me to wear them. I teased her that she couldn't handle it, and she shouted "oooooooooh!" (did a rapper just throw a punch line, or was she intrigued by my push?). But I did put them on and took them of a minute later. This is where a random dude eventually showed up and tried to separate me and RBG from each other. And after a short time she actually went over to him herself. Oh, okay. Nevermind.
Girl 1 was still around, and I went over to her. She asked me who the guy was and I had no clue. She looked at me with a confused look on her face. This messed with her head, so what did she do? She went over to RBG WHILE she was "dancing" (yes, "dancing") with the random dude, trying to convince her to dance with me. I saw RBG thinking about things for a second and went in to drag her away from the guy. We continued our dancing from where we left. At one point we danced back to back with my hands on her hips, and I turned my head right to ask her who the guy was that kept annoying her. He was a coworker, but he was 19 which she thought was too young for her taste. I didn't even ask about her age haha! But we kept dancing and I moved her to another part of the dancefloor to get away from her coworker.
Even though I had a great time dancing with her, it was horrible to dance with her for one reason: she led herself haha! Like, she would just raise my hand to spin herself around lol! And I thought no way. So I took charge physically and made her follow my lead. Eventually she asked me if I danced salsa because of the way I made her spin around and whatnot. The truth is I do take salsa classes, but our dancing was not even close to salsa. This is where she went up to the DJ and asked him to put on some salsa song, and he did. So we danced to this song, and I tried to make her perform a simple salsa move.... and accidentally hit her on her forehead with both my AND her arm hahaha! I had actually thought of going for a make out during the song, but she was so upset about my "miserable fail" that she left the dancefloor. At first I ran after her, poked her arm and told her "come back, we're not done yet". But she continued her own way saying nothing. Oh well, shit happens =) And she was probably looking for a way to get away from her young coworker ha!
I found all my coworkers at a table close to the dancefloor around 11. They asked me how it'd go with RBG, and I said "well, shit happens" with a smile but didn't go into the detail about the accident. They thought that was sad lol. And girl 1 told me what she'd say to RBG. Apparantly she told her that between the two choices she had, she should go for the hotter one and not the uglier. Why, thank you, sweety!
I got a new drink, looked for new people to toast with, but find none new. I returned to my group, drank up and got the girls out on the dancefloor once more. While dancing I noticed a few girls from different tables watching us and thought I might have preselection from dancing with my coworkers. One girl from a table filled with only girls came closer to my group. I poked her, met her eyes with a smile and said hi. She left in a "girly" (shy) way. Silly girl, she probably got nervous =) I danced with my coworkers again and saw another girl that she was standing at a table by herself. She seemed receptive, but I didn't approach her. Silly me.The party was slowly dying, and thus, it ended.
Thougths
1. A sticking point of mine is to be too much in my head. But as I had told myself to not having any expectations for this event, I just went with the flow and followed my intuition. This event proved that I can do a lot more when I don't limit myself because of thoughts and emotions. I need to test this out daygame as well.
2. I've never asked girl 1 to be any sort of wingman to me ever, but she did help me with RBG. I probably wouldn't have reenganged RBG if girl 1 didn't talk to her. On our way home with the bus she also asked me what I thought about our new female coworker - a long time friend of hers who couldn't attend this event. Does she genuniely want me to success with girls? And for what reasons could it be? This whole female wingman is new territory to me, let's see what happens. If any seducers here have experience with female wingmen, please enlighten me!
Any feedback welcome. Otherwise, hope you enjoyed reading =)
