Social Circle Advice?

[Glitch]

Coming back again after taking time off here. Still good to see that there's more good people joining and that this community is the same old helping hand.

So last year I step up the game quite a bit. Managed to get numbers just shy above 20 (15 last year out of 100???). However I think I over dialed it and got what some of the guys dubbed as Apporach Addiction. I'm starting to get over the anger of the past two years and trying to let it all go.

For me, I'm not sure but I may have developed a slight "persona"; when seducing I was being witty/charming etc. by applying what is taught here but with my own spin. When it came to normal interactions I isolated myself and was pretty blunt. Currently working on this and have slowly learned to just be a bit less serious about everything; I probably came off too intimidating and though polite didn't take much interest in the other party.

So current plans are to be a bit more social and it's been slowly working for this first month of Uni.

Situation - Social Circle:

So the current situation is now there's a girl that I made friends with in the same flat as me. She's started showing signs and doesn't say or do anything with my prolonged touching e.g around hips/ass/pressed up against her back etc.

Currently just on the fence about this, my other buddy seems to like her (also flatmate). Would it be stupid not to pursue? If the dynamic does blow up I'd have to think about the repercussions of us still living together etc.

When it comes to social circles I'm a complete noob as I've only done day game.

Side note:

Is it good practice just to do sexual touching with every girl? Currently I started doing it more often last year and have gotten pretty good results like with a cheeky ass slap. Or will this produce a back fire if done too often?

Is it "fair" to keep "teasing" her like this? Currently still looking out for the expiration date and closing window. Might be soon, sometimes she can act "aloof/quiet" or be smiley and happy around me.

Much appreciated,

Glitch

 

[Whizzy]

If you're going to make a move then I would do it asap before the burning cools and she loses interest. As for your friend/flatmate it would all depend on the type of guy he is and the relationship you two have. It could range from him being happy and a little jealous to vindictive and throwing you under the bus.

 

[Glitch]

Yep. It's these things that get me. With day game it's close straight and commit. With social I'm always on the fence with situations like this. Sure it's a miss with the escalation windows but I can always fall back on day game. My buddy's still like what we were before we took game more seriously.

 

[Howell]

I'd take what Robert Greene said to heart here (paraphrasing): Go all out or don't go at all. Going halfway is the worst thing you can do. To bend this more towards a Wildean attitude: What matters is style, everything else is superficial. And lastly, to encourage you to dive head first into the gambit -- Han Solo: "Never tell me the odds."

 

[Glitch]

Yea the usual rules ain't it. Probably just drop to be honest. Think the potential fallout is not worth it. Back to non social circle and day game, the usual bread and butter.

Make a decision now. Guess it's still fine to tease her a little.

Thanks guys for putting my head on straight again.