Socializing Social Circle Building Tips?

[Regal Tiger]

Been a bit of a lone wolf more or less my entire life

Now that it's getting cold there aren't as many women to approach while out and about. Went to the big shopping area on Saturday to try some new stuff out but saw only 2 women to approach. And both were too far away to actually get to

I'm not a big fan of night game, but going to a lounge or even happy hour event doesn't seem totally awful

Aside from meetup and just looking up hobbies and making friends that way, what kinds of social circle ideas have you guys come up with?

There aren't many people in coffee shops where I'm at, which may change now that it's getting colder

But yeah, not just for meeting women (although definitely a plus). Pretty new at going out to meet friends lol


There was an awesome idea on this thread about starting parties and going that route. Unless I find someone with a spot that idea is out for various reasons. But once I'm out of this country I may try to do something like that

 

[Regal Tiger]

Once I get my job rolling one of my plans was to join an upscale gym and socialize with everyone there

Another was chamber of commerce meetings and other business networking events (especially since it would also help my business)

The final idea, other than looking up hobby related stuff, was to do a toast masters or speaking gig related thing. Becoming a paid public speaker is on my bucket list

 

[Glow]

social circle building should not neccesarily focus on communities and networks

In relation to girls and interesting SCs you could focus on individuals as access points to SCs

thats how i do it

each of these indivuals belong to groups and circles. Or as braddock from lovesystem calls them - social trees referring to them as hierachies .

point being

one individual of the type a social connector can be an access points to multiple SCs, events and girls

you can chose them tactically or the ones you like with interesting personas and lifeworlds

think in terms of interesting people you like or who have interesting worlds you wanna build up your social ecosystem around.

thing is you can do this with anyone you meet or when youre out seducing. just pick a few everytime and go social instead. numberc lose them and followup. i wrote one tactic in the tactics section thats field proven an super easy to build circles from.

or do it w anyone you meet.

This provides for a more alive Social ecosystem imo and one thats easier to manage. Fine to combine w eg one or two specific networks. But the good SCs transcend those networks.

Also learn social circle game to become socially savy. this is a more neutral - friendly approah than PU. Theres a shift to be made.

good examples ive focussed on
- rich or hot girls with international friends circle and lots of internationally visiting friends
- girls that are in certain businesses eg beauty
- Girls i meet out in town when seducing that seem fun and have many hot and fun friends

befriend those and its FAR more efficient to get to SC lays by gaining direct access to better clusters of cute girls looking for fun.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Aside from meetup and just looking up hobbies and making friends that way, what kinds of social circle ideas have you guys come up with?

I love to chip in but the problem isn't the venue.

The problem isn't even the strategies.

It's just that we are living in a very different world. It's a very disingenuous world. It's not that people are terribly fucked up. It's just that the way the environment is, it influences people to be adversarial.

It's driving me crazy on how to put things together.

And this is amplified when you on night game.

z@c+

 

[Regal Tiger]

social circle building should not neccesarily focus on communities and networks

In relation to girls and interesting SCs you could focus on individuals as access points to SCs

thats how i do it

each of these indivuals belong to groups and circles. Or as braddock from lovesystem calls them - social trees referring to them as hierachies .

point being

one individual of the type a social connector can be an access points to multiple SCs, events and girls

you can chose them tactically or the ones you like with interesting personas and lifeworlds

think in terms of interesting people you like or who have interesting worlds you wanna build up your social ecosystem around.

thing is you can do this with anyone you meet or when youre out seducing. just pick a few everytime and go social instead. numberc lose them and followup. i wrote one tactic in the tactics section thats field proven an super easy to build circles from.

or do it w anyone you meet.

This provides for a more alive Social ecosystem imo and one thats easier to manage. Fine to combine w eg one or two specific networks. But the good SCs transcend those networks.

Also learn social circle game to become socially savy. this is a more neutral - friendly approah than PU. Theres a shift to be made.

good examples ive focussed on
- rich or hot girls with international friends circle and lots of internationally visiting friends
- girls that are in certain businesses eg beauty
- Girls i meet out in town when seducing that seem fun and have many hot and fun friends

befriend those and its FAR more efficient to get to SC lays by gaining direct access to better clusters of cute girls looking for fun.

Thanks for the reply, and that makes sense! I'll have to give a think about what types to befriend in general (I'll also look for your post you mentioned)