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Social Circle Status. Can you change it by bringing another girl?

Lamboyant

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Hola Amigos,

This is my first post for asking some questions. I'm currently in college and going to class. My main priority was to have my grades up and that was it. I'm fairly an attractive guy outside of class, but I currently found myself sucked into a social circle that I never wanted.

When we began class, the hottest girl from class came to me and started talking to me. However, I was focused on doing my work, not trying to get girls in class. Because of this I think she got mad at me thinking she rejected me. And now she has her own circle of "popular kids".

Throughout semester, I was associating with another girl, who isn't very attractive, but very smart. She aligned with my goal of getting good grades. But now I see a problem because of this choice.

Now the cliques have formed. To others observing me sees that I'm associated with the "smart kids" hence now treats me as such. And the hot girl who came to me before is now doing her own thing with her crew, while I'm stuck with some of the "lower" members of the social circles if you will.

Now outside of class, I attract fairly hotter women. That is to say, I go for women hotter than the girl I saw. But in this class, I noticed I'm being treated as a lower status individual that what I'm used to.

Our class is having an event towards the end of the month, and I'm thinking of bringing a girl that's pretty hot to this event. I think this will be a good experience in the future as I'm sure I will be involved in another social circle. And if my status is of a "lower guy", is there a way to change your status within the group? For example by bringing another hot girl into the group?

Thank you!
 

Hue

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jayshek09,

Great idea. She'll see you with good preselection and have to reevaluate your skills with women / why you might be attractive to women. If you end up talking with some of the "upper group" with a hot girl around your arm, it might make them second guess some things.

But I wouldn't bring the girl just for this purpose. Bring a pretty girl that you're compatible with, then you two can have a good time during the event, while getting secondary effects of preselection and social proof.

If things do play out like this you might want to think about attainability with the popular girl. This could be a possibility where she goes back to thinking you didn't show her any interest because she didn't have X, whereas this girl you're with does. She might give you a second chance so to speak in which case you'd want to be sure to qualify her / show more interest than those first few days of class.


And if my status is of a "lower guy", is there a way to change your status within the group? For example by bringing another hot girl into the group?

Yes, if you consistently act differently people eventually take notice. Your actions may be incongruent at first, but after time things start to fit into place. People (especially girls) change their minds on things/other people all the time.


Best of luck with how things play out man!
 
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