Social circle: what to do after a failed escalation?

[TrailBlazer]

I know I should ignore the girl for a while and talk to others, but I’m running out of girls!

Basically I see a huge IOI, so I try to make something happen. It goes well at first but then I inevitably fail, so I’m forced to ignore the girl. But right now I have to ignore almost all the girls (like 7) in my social circle while they are happily talking to other guys.

After a few weeks we tend to start talking again, I miss the escalation windows again, and back to ignoring them..

I don’t know what to do! I’m approaching a lot of girls to learn, but the girls in my circle are ready and so of course I take my chances. I can’t wait a year to get good first.

 

[Kaida]

Bump!

 

[Chase]

@TrailBlazer,

Prevention rather than cure:

You need to start compliance escalating better, man.

"Here, do this" "Come here" "Help me out with that" "Scoot over" etc. etc.

Get these girls doing things for you, complying with you, be touching them constantly, then when it comes time to make a move you will be much less shy because it is much less of a leap.

Chase