What's your opinions on dating girls from different social economic backgrounds? I'm from a very normal family, but I have seen a girl for some time who's used to the fancy life. Parents in top 1% and she have always lived a very expensive lifestyle. I earn quite a lot at moment and right now I could probably live her lifestyle as well - but not sure if I would be able to keep my income at the place where it's right now for the rest of my life. Do you guys generally see any issues when there's a difference in social economic background in LTRs?
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@DML dude! There was a huge flame war debate over this recently which got very ugly but mostly over a misunderstanding. Poor guys can seduce and there's been subsequently posts how income has affected game, how to game when you're broke and a few other things scattered about.
There can be issues with different economic classes for an LTR but there's a lot of variables. If it's not a huge difference between your classes so that you're socially acceptable then there isn't an issue. If your world's apart there's issues on an LTR because of her social image, her social standing, the views of society, pressures from her friends but seduction as a whole is unaffected but you're usually an exclusive lover, fb, fwb, mLTR is the usual territory for this dynamic.
That said, if you're not a million miles away (classwise), you have good boyfriend potential, you're socially acceptable then if you're a leader, can manage relationships it's relationship maintenance 101 an LTR is viable.
If she cares a lot about social standing, keeping up with the Jones's, social ladder climbing then there's problems on the horizon. You'll have to reframe everything and have a few issues if you can't meet her expectations. If you can currently hang in her world and she's looking for someone to do the same if you can't keep up she'll move on. This is something you'll have to screen for and see what she's like.
If she commits to you, submits to you, you provide good dick, the more invested she is in you when you're not making the same money the more likely she'll keep around. Even if she wants to keep up with the Jones's then she'll look at your potential and the investment she's already made to you and be more loyal and accepting. How accepting depends on the girl, how much less class we're talking, societal pressures and how committed she is.
If you're convinced she's LTR material, you're happy with the screening you've made then it can be viable dude.
There can be issues with different economic classes for an LTR but there's a lot of variables. If it's not a huge difference between your classes so that you're socially acceptable then there isn't an issue. If your world's apart there's issues on an LTR because of her social image, her social standing, the views of society, pressures from her friends but seduction as a whole is unaffected but you're usually an exclusive lover, fb, fwb, mLTR is the usual territory for this dynamic.
That said, if you're not a million miles away (classwise), you have good boyfriend potential, you're socially acceptable then if you're a leader, can manage relationships it's relationship maintenance 101 an LTR is viable.
If she cares a lot about social standing, keeping up with the Jones's, social ladder climbing then there's problems on the horizon. You'll have to reframe everything and have a few issues if you can't meet her expectations. If you can currently hang in her world and she's looking for someone to do the same if you can't keep up she'll move on. This is something you'll have to screen for and see what she's like.
If she commits to you, submits to you, you provide good dick, the more invested she is in you when you're not making the same money the more likely she'll keep around. Even if she wants to keep up with the Jones's then she'll look at your potential and the investment she's already made to you and be more loyal and accepting. How accepting depends on the girl, how much less class we're talking, societal pressures and how committed she is.
If you're convinced she's LTR material, you're happy with the screening you've made then it can be viable dude.
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This is quite a common occurrence where it is an unspoken truth among first world girls. They won't say it, nor it is conscious on their minds. They will feel that "it is not right".
They will tend to usually go for guys who can "treat them better". They also hang out around "rich areas"
You will see this pattern with influencers, girls who have decent number of instagram followers.
Their photos is usually their lifestyle. Example: Photos, Clothes, Travelling, Stylish cafes, etc. Now, there is an important thing to note that whether the guy is 'given' sex, is another matter altogether. I don't have that answer.
Sidenote: 'Shades of Grey' and it's elements, is phenomenon in the 21th century
I don't recommend men to compete with girls in terms of economics, especially when she's age between 14 - 35. It's like fighting a 'Walking Infinite Cashflow'.
She's either lean more towards CNN
Mainstream left. California mindset per se, and she is completely unconscious about it. It's her reality.That's number one
or she completely doesn't care and find annoyance about it.
Your insecurities is usually the first problem to popup.
I would say that all men insecurities do popup. Especially when she's gorgeous and pretty pleasant. Most of the issues comes later on, like her social circle, her family.Given my limited experience, it's either 2 experiences.
1)there's a lot of examining your frame, see who cracks first and ball busting.
2)Do not pay too much attention to you
The second one is way way harder. Because her family is generally positive people, based on what i observe. Earning your way 'quietly', versus Earning your way with 'verbals'
I've never dated a very rich girl. But I've dated a poor girl. The poor girl will expect you to pay for everything, and often won't show any kind of appreciation for it in an entitled way. The non-poor girl will offer to pick up the tab once in a while, won't try to scam you.
The hot poor girls are the worst. They basically think that because of their looks, they can get anything they want without having to do any work. They will try to make it look like they have a luxurious lifestyle, when in fact they can't even make rent.
The hot poor girls are the worst. They basically think that because of their looks, they can get anything they want without having to do any work. They will try to make it look like they have a luxurious lifestyle, when in fact they can't even make rent.