Yo,
So I recently watched a good video on how powerful Social Proof is to girls and how it can turn a girl who isn't very interested into a girl who is...
I want to use Social Proof to re-attract a girl who auto rejected me using another girl who really thinks I'm cool as hell...
We'll call the auto-rejected girl - Tricky Trumpet Player
And the other girl - Sexy Saxophonist
I'm trying to figure out how to effectively motivate the Sexy Saxophonist to make the Tricky Trumpet Player jealous and re-interested.
Let me explain the scenario:
I actually met the Sexy Saxophonist day gaming and brought up the Tricky Trumpet Player who plays in a Swing Band and is a Professional Swing Dancer. As a value thing I shared with Sexy Saxophonist my promotional graphics & photography work - like I did with the Tricky Trumpet Player and the Sexy Saxophonist really dug it...
I felt the Sexy Saxophonist was not what I wanted as a Lover, but could be a cool friend, and definitely would be very cool for my promotional graphics & photography work. Turns out she has and lives with a BF anyway so it works out.
The Sexy Saxophonist and I are currently working out a cool shoot and promotion hopefully at a VIP part my buddy's Jazz and Rock nightclub venue. I'm winning several ways here connecting him with a cool talent like the Sexy Saxophonist, she gets solid promotional work, and then both she and my Buddy can promote my work - which leads us to Social Proof and the Tricky Trumpet Player.
Since I already mentioned Her to the Saxophonist and said something like, you two should connect.
Once the promotional work is done and delivered - how would I motivate the Saxophonist to connect to the Trumpet Player via instagram?
How would I propose it to the Saxophonist?
How would I know that the Saxophonist actually connects with her?
Here's a fun twist!
Tricky Trumpet Player's day job is being a stripper!
So she has 3 instagrams, I believe. One for her stripping. One for her music, and a personal one.
I really don't know cuz I don't do instagram, and feel weird looking her up - so how would I tell the Saxophonist which one to reach her at.
Or should I just come clean and say - she's got three connect via the personal or trumpet one...
Lastly, and I'm not sure this would happen with the Saxophonist.
But, a long while back I tried connecting as similar auto rejected girl who was an artist to a sculptor guy thinking it would be good for the both of them. And the sculptor guy got back tome with - "What the fuck is up with your artist friend. She bitched me out and told me about how weird you are and how this could be a #meetoo thing..."
It kinda burnt my bridge with the sculptor guy which wasn't that much of a loss for me.
In actuality - it was a great loss for the Artist Chick because this dude is kinda famous and coulda connected her real well.
But that's an auto rejection chick kinda thing I guess.
I'm nervous this might happen with the Sexy Saxophonist...
SO!
How would use Social Proof to re-attract a girl who auto rejected me using another girl who really thinks I'm cool as hell?
So I recently watched a good video on how powerful Social Proof is to girls and how it can turn a girl who isn't very interested into a girl who is...
I want to use Social Proof to re-attract a girl who auto rejected me using another girl who really thinks I'm cool as hell...
We'll call the auto-rejected girl - Tricky Trumpet Player
And the other girl - Sexy Saxophonist
I'm trying to figure out how to effectively motivate the Sexy Saxophonist to make the Tricky Trumpet Player jealous and re-interested.
Let me explain the scenario:
I actually met the Sexy Saxophonist day gaming and brought up the Tricky Trumpet Player who plays in a Swing Band and is a Professional Swing Dancer. As a value thing I shared with Sexy Saxophonist my promotional graphics & photography work - like I did with the Tricky Trumpet Player and the Sexy Saxophonist really dug it...
I felt the Sexy Saxophonist was not what I wanted as a Lover, but could be a cool friend, and definitely would be very cool for my promotional graphics & photography work. Turns out she has and lives with a BF anyway so it works out.
The Sexy Saxophonist and I are currently working out a cool shoot and promotion hopefully at a VIP part my buddy's Jazz and Rock nightclub venue. I'm winning several ways here connecting him with a cool talent like the Sexy Saxophonist, she gets solid promotional work, and then both she and my Buddy can promote my work - which leads us to Social Proof and the Tricky Trumpet Player.
Since I already mentioned Her to the Saxophonist and said something like, you two should connect.
Once the promotional work is done and delivered - how would I motivate the Saxophonist to connect to the Trumpet Player via instagram?
How would I propose it to the Saxophonist?
How would I know that the Saxophonist actually connects with her?
Here's a fun twist!
Tricky Trumpet Player's day job is being a stripper!
So she has 3 instagrams, I believe. One for her stripping. One for her music, and a personal one.
I really don't know cuz I don't do instagram, and feel weird looking her up - so how would I tell the Saxophonist which one to reach her at.
Or should I just come clean and say - she's got three connect via the personal or trumpet one...
Lastly, and I'm not sure this would happen with the Saxophonist.
But, a long while back I tried connecting as similar auto rejected girl who was an artist to a sculptor guy thinking it would be good for the both of them. And the sculptor guy got back tome with - "What the fuck is up with your artist friend. She bitched me out and told me about how weird you are and how this could be a #meetoo thing..."
It kinda burnt my bridge with the sculptor guy which wasn't that much of a loss for me.
In actuality - it was a great loss for the Artist Chick because this dude is kinda famous and coulda connected her real well.
But that's an auto rejection chick kinda thing I guess.
I'm nervous this might happen with the Sexy Saxophonist...
SO!
How would use Social Proof to re-attract a girl who auto rejected me using another girl who really thinks I'm cool as hell?
