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Dudes! I hit up a club for Halloween, the club was super busy, fortunately I know the manager and bouncers and could jump the queue saving me an hour and getting in before the club was rammed. The main section of the club is a big dance floor with loud music and flashing lights and the second section is a quite lounge where theres no disco lights, and quieter music so you can talk.
Pre approach
I started in the lounge with my friend so we could talk while the club filled up, I was dressed as Captain Jack Sparrow again and a group of 3 girls sat at the table next to where we were standing near the bar and I made eye contact with a girl dressed as Daphne Blake from Scooby Doo, I give her a warm smile and she smiled back. There was instant tension between us, I caught her looking over a few times, we kept making eye contact, we'd smile at each other and she'd look away. I noticed her talking to her friends and her friends were looking over and it seemed a positive response.
Approach
She got up to go to the bar, she stood a few people over from me next to my female friend talking to the other friend, pointed at her and recognised her costume. My friend didn't hear the comment and continued on her conversation, I saved the moment:
Flux: Daphne Blake (pointing at her – she done this to my female friend that went unnoticed)
Girl: Yes (Smiles while looking over at me)
Flux: (I move round the corner of the bar next to her, putting my hand on the small of her back) are you solving any mysteries tonight?
Girl: Yes I'm solving mysteries
Flux: Have you got any clues?
Girl: All of them, I've got all the clues
Flux: You've got all the clues? (inquisitive tone - pointing to her friend that didn't fit the scooby doo theme) is that who you've just unmasked? (playful smirk)
Girl: Yes, umm yes (she seems nervous and not as confident as she did when smiling over)
Flux: Where have you parked the mystery machine tonight?
Girl: At home
Flux: At home? (inquisitive tone)
Girl: Yeah
Flux: So where's the rest of the gang?
Girl: They're at home because they're boring
Flux: So you're the fun and adventurous ones? (playful tone)
Girl: Yeah (she seems very nervous but still very interested, this girl was 18 and had very little experience)
Flux: Who are you out with tonight?
Girl: (points to her friends at the table) my friends
A little bit more small talk about her friends and their costumes before excusing myself to go back to my friends. She seemed very nervous and wasn't investing in the conversation, I could have kept in set longer but took a chance I had time.
Investment and teasing
I went back to my friends and she kept looking over and smiling how we were during the pre-approach, she seemed more comfortable with this than being in conversation. I was mid conversation with my friend and she walked over with her drink and gave me it, she said that none of them liked it and I could have it. I teased her for giving me something that she just said she didn't like, I took it and sipped it and she sipped some of it while I kept talking to her with more teasing. I said thanks and she went back to her friends. One of my friends asked where I got the drink, I told him Daphne gave me it and pointed out, she beamed with a smile.
Dynamics
More of her friends joined her and her attention dropped of a bit and she stopped looking over, I kept talking with my friends and having a good time, her group more than doubled in size and her attention would be diverted to her friends. I had a moment of doubt thinking maybe I should have approached her group when it was smaller, though considering how nervous she seemed one on one I didn't want to put more pressure on the set.
Number close
Her group were getting set to leave the lounge, I seen her look over one last time with a big smile and a bit of expectation in her eyes. I smiled back as she got out of her seat, still looking at me, I did a "come hither" with my hand when she got up and she came skipping over to me.
Flux: Hey I think you seem cool, we should grab a drink when you're not solving mysteries
Girl: Yes!
Flux: When are you free?
Girl: Whenever!
Flux: Cool, I'll get your number
Girl: Okay!
While she's typing her details into my phone her friends shout her from the other side of the lounge, she signals she'll be two minutes.
Flux: I think your friends really want to solve more mysteries
Girl: I think so, that’s my number
Flux: Enjoy your night
Girl: Thank you, you too! (walking of to join her friends)
(I text her a standard ice breaker cool meeting you message within 10 minutes – she responds enthusiastically within 30 minutes – texts can be typed up if anyone wants them)
Pre-selection / Second meet / Compliance
We remain in the lounge a bit longer before going to the dancefloor. We're dancing and I get a lot of people commenting on my costume telling me how awesome it looks and getting photos. At one point two hot girls are getting their photo with me and I see Daphne on the dancefloor looking over, my friend said that she didn't look impressed, I told him she was just jealous.
I catch her looking over again, she smiles and I do the "come hither" motion again, she comes closer and I extend my hand out for her to take. I pull her in and take her by her waist. We dance to the music being played having fun and integrate our groups together. I take the hand of Velma Dinkley and dance with both Daphne and Velma having them twirl at the same time and make a point to include their friend dressed as a devil, I've almost came unstuck before with a trio, I don't have another arm to keep them all involved :')
Isolation / Extraction
I capitalise on the song change which allows me to just dance with Daphne and slowly move her away from our combined group putting my body in between while still dancing. This helped create a bubble around us, the sexual tension built up more within this bubble, I kissed her which felt like it cemented her in this "us" bubble, she was fixated on my touch and in our own little world.
Flux: Did you say you parked the mystery machine at home?
Girl: I did (giggles)
Flux: Where's home?
Girl: Home? I live PLACE NAME where do you live?
Flux: PLACE NAME
Girl: Is that close?
Flux: About 10 minutes in my ship
Girl: Your ship?
Flux: The black pearl, it's docked in the harbour outside
Girl: The harbour? (Curious tone)
Flux: Want to check it out? (Playful tone with a smirk)
Girl: Where is the harbour?? (puzzled look)
Flux: I'll show you, savvy
I take her by the hand and walk towards the exit, she stopped outside and asked where we were going. I said we're going to go and check out my ship. This was token resistance, we got to my ship and planned our voyage back to my place where it was plain sailing. This is the night she will always remember as the night she was seduced by Captain Jack Sparrow
Pre approach
I started in the lounge with my friend so we could talk while the club filled up, I was dressed as Captain Jack Sparrow again and a group of 3 girls sat at the table next to where we were standing near the bar and I made eye contact with a girl dressed as Daphne Blake from Scooby Doo, I give her a warm smile and she smiled back. There was instant tension between us, I caught her looking over a few times, we kept making eye contact, we'd smile at each other and she'd look away. I noticed her talking to her friends and her friends were looking over and it seemed a positive response.
Approach
She got up to go to the bar, she stood a few people over from me next to my female friend talking to the other friend, pointed at her and recognised her costume. My friend didn't hear the comment and continued on her conversation, I saved the moment:
Flux: Daphne Blake (pointing at her – she done this to my female friend that went unnoticed)
Girl: Yes (Smiles while looking over at me)
Flux: (I move round the corner of the bar next to her, putting my hand on the small of her back) are you solving any mysteries tonight?
Girl: Yes I'm solving mysteries
Flux: Have you got any clues?
Girl: All of them, I've got all the clues
Flux: You've got all the clues? (inquisitive tone - pointing to her friend that didn't fit the scooby doo theme) is that who you've just unmasked? (playful smirk)
Girl: Yes, umm yes (she seems nervous and not as confident as she did when smiling over)
Flux: Where have you parked the mystery machine tonight?
Girl: At home
Flux: At home? (inquisitive tone)
Girl: Yeah
Flux: So where's the rest of the gang?
Girl: They're at home because they're boring
Flux: So you're the fun and adventurous ones? (playful tone)
Girl: Yeah (she seems very nervous but still very interested, this girl was 18 and had very little experience)
Flux: Who are you out with tonight?
Girl: (points to her friends at the table) my friends
A little bit more small talk about her friends and their costumes before excusing myself to go back to my friends. She seemed very nervous and wasn't investing in the conversation, I could have kept in set longer but took a chance I had time.
Investment and teasing
I went back to my friends and she kept looking over and smiling how we were during the pre-approach, she seemed more comfortable with this than being in conversation. I was mid conversation with my friend and she walked over with her drink and gave me it, she said that none of them liked it and I could have it. I teased her for giving me something that she just said she didn't like, I took it and sipped it and she sipped some of it while I kept talking to her with more teasing. I said thanks and she went back to her friends. One of my friends asked where I got the drink, I told him Daphne gave me it and pointed out, she beamed with a smile.
Dynamics
More of her friends joined her and her attention dropped of a bit and she stopped looking over, I kept talking with my friends and having a good time, her group more than doubled in size and her attention would be diverted to her friends. I had a moment of doubt thinking maybe I should have approached her group when it was smaller, though considering how nervous she seemed one on one I didn't want to put more pressure on the set.
Number close
Her group were getting set to leave the lounge, I seen her look over one last time with a big smile and a bit of expectation in her eyes. I smiled back as she got out of her seat, still looking at me, I did a "come hither" with my hand when she got up and she came skipping over to me.
Flux: Hey I think you seem cool, we should grab a drink when you're not solving mysteries
Girl: Yes!
Flux: When are you free?
Girl: Whenever!
Flux: Cool, I'll get your number
Girl: Okay!
While she's typing her details into my phone her friends shout her from the other side of the lounge, she signals she'll be two minutes.
Flux: I think your friends really want to solve more mysteries
Girl: I think so, that’s my number
Flux: Enjoy your night
Girl: Thank you, you too! (walking of to join her friends)
(I text her a standard ice breaker cool meeting you message within 10 minutes – she responds enthusiastically within 30 minutes – texts can be typed up if anyone wants them)
Pre-selection / Second meet / Compliance
We remain in the lounge a bit longer before going to the dancefloor. We're dancing and I get a lot of people commenting on my costume telling me how awesome it looks and getting photos. At one point two hot girls are getting their photo with me and I see Daphne on the dancefloor looking over, my friend said that she didn't look impressed, I told him she was just jealous.
I catch her looking over again, she smiles and I do the "come hither" motion again, she comes closer and I extend my hand out for her to take. I pull her in and take her by her waist. We dance to the music being played having fun and integrate our groups together. I take the hand of Velma Dinkley and dance with both Daphne and Velma having them twirl at the same time and make a point to include their friend dressed as a devil, I've almost came unstuck before with a trio, I don't have another arm to keep them all involved :')
Isolation / Extraction
I capitalise on the song change which allows me to just dance with Daphne and slowly move her away from our combined group putting my body in between while still dancing. This helped create a bubble around us, the sexual tension built up more within this bubble, I kissed her which felt like it cemented her in this "us" bubble, she was fixated on my touch and in our own little world.
Flux: Did you say you parked the mystery machine at home?
Girl: I did (giggles)
Flux: Where's home?
Girl: Home? I live PLACE NAME where do you live?
Flux: PLACE NAME
Girl: Is that close?
Flux: About 10 minutes in my ship
Girl: Your ship?
Flux: The black pearl, it's docked in the harbour outside
Girl: The harbour? (Curious tone)
Flux: Want to check it out? (Playful tone with a smirk)
Girl: Where is the harbour?? (puzzled look)
Flux: I'll show you, savvy
I take her by the hand and walk towards the exit, she stopped outside and asked where we were going. I said we're going to go and check out my ship. This was token resistance, we got to my ship and planned our voyage back to my place where it was plain sailing. This is the night she will always remember as the night she was seduced by Captain Jack Sparrow
