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Ok guys a lot of you are having issues with texting, then, it devolves into complete and utterly total mental masturbation posts on "something is wrong with your approach to _____ type of game"...... First i don't care how good you are at whatever, if your texting is shit! it will be hard to see the girl again, keep the interest level high, etc..... Also we all experience post meet even if solid interactions female state changes.... For the life of me, i don't understand since joining the community is why guys put so much emphasis on good game, but they want to minimize the importance of good texting... Thanks god! now some are waking up to this and becoming popular such as the dude from pwf... No matter what, you need to have a solid interaction, but there are many problems in the forum that i see:
1.- is the opening text (most of you are total shit).... "hi are we still on for thursday? haha" or some pathetic stuff like this..
2.- hi! this is pua from the mall, how does your schedule looks like?
3.- too gimmicky
4.- if is from online dating total horrible not structure strategy...
5.- lack of investment from the girl into the interaction which makes you look like chasing and she is in the up position which makes you lose value...
I am not going to write a 50 page book on texting but i will ramble on some things that work for me consistently...
-Best texting there is (you will have to take my word for it), is cocky funny flirty sexual undertones, minimal to no gamey puaish, not calculated without try hard... If you are good you can do some secret society frames, but this is a bit hard to do for most (though lofty is new and he does it ok)...
- if you only depend on 1 lead or number, bad, you need to be working multiple numbers or you get online, text, or cold approach number onitis (and it has the identical effect of normal onitis), i see also the other way coaching saying you should be working 25 numbers (jmlv) that for me is the equivalent of spam approaching, i personally don't recommend that either.
- Continue with whatever conversational thread you were having in the encounter, i will give you some examples of openers continuing with whatever was going on in the encounter:
"hey "hb name", i had a great time, please don't mention your house in "Town name", please don't talk about your phone i already know you work in "work place", you don't need to repeat this to me 50 times....."
now a lot of you know i do dance floor game mainly none verbal so my opening message is created, kind of funny, different, unique, even if is not following a conversational thread:
"hey Susan i had a great time pretending to be dancing with you while grabbing your ass" latin diesel
this is another one:
Someone took a video of me and you dancing and posted it, not nice,
here is how i get numbers since i never carry my cell with me phoenix got a laid from a girl he did this with:
skills: "let me borrow your phone to put my number in"
hb: gives me the phone..
now i put my contact info and text myself: "who is that good looking/sexy guy you are talking to"
now guys this one is one of the easiest shit to do in strong interactions in night game (physicality, make out, but you did not close cause ________ fill in the blank reason):
skills: "do me a favor, text me when you get home to make sure you got home ok" I also used this if the girl come over after the first sexual encounter...
^ prior to this for years i had tons of issues post first time sex you can see it here
I also stole (i think from pwf) the "last night was hot with 3 fires emoji
- also you can cont. conversational thread based on something that happen and create some type of nickname":
"hey pinky swear blah blah blah" on a girl that made me pinky swear i would not fuck her, instead of calling her by her name i gave her that nickname when i refer to her...
NOTE.- have couple of very high value pictures in your phone, to send that are hot and will dhv after interactions if you exchange pictures...
ok guys, for those of your online you lack structure this works the only opener change is that i have been using a lot "I like your style, i am Felipe" opener a lot lately from pwf (but to be honest i don't really care about online) but i recently did online and totally got laid right away doing that approach...
how to be persistent without being needy, you guys may not know this about me but I HATE BEING PERSISTENT, i want girls to be FUCK YES, if not i naturally start losing interest, which is why i love game that actually WORKS, cause i want to minimize mistakes and maximize odds.... So please now that you know this about me let me tell you the best way to be persistent, triple text, quadruple text, quintuple text if that is such a word, coming from a dude that will make BRENT SMITH look like a chaser, ready for it, i learn this from women:
morning with this emoji
or eyes emoji
I will admit i am not good with flakes, unless she is invested and extremely good reason, if not i totally lose interest, but i heard pwf and what he says i can see working though this is kj not field tested by me (but again i can see it working)
"i did not take you for the flakey type"
"what are your scare of" this is to address objections...
DO NOT SHARE SOCIAL MEDIA OR INSTAGRAM
there are many ways to sexualize convos as well (i love to this, the grandmaster style and sexual trolling works well), but that is for guys that have a distinct personality not for everybody, here are some other stuff:
this dude from the community is one of the best with texting he gets it
alright guys as always, adapt to your style, calibrate, understand the principles, field test, use critical thinking, formulate your own conclusions... If you don't fix texting i don't care if you are the super ultra gamer supreme, your results will be shit....
1.- is the opening text (most of you are total shit).... "hi are we still on for thursday? haha" or some pathetic stuff like this..
2.- hi! this is pua from the mall, how does your schedule looks like?
3.- too gimmicky
4.- if is from online dating total horrible not structure strategy...
5.- lack of investment from the girl into the interaction which makes you look like chasing and she is in the up position which makes you lose value...
I am not going to write a 50 page book on texting but i will ramble on some things that work for me consistently...
-Best texting there is (you will have to take my word for it), is cocky funny flirty sexual undertones, minimal to no gamey puaish, not calculated without try hard... If you are good you can do some secret society frames, but this is a bit hard to do for most (though lofty is new and he does it ok)...
- if you only depend on 1 lead or number, bad, you need to be working multiple numbers or you get online, text, or cold approach number onitis (and it has the identical effect of normal onitis), i see also the other way coaching saying you should be working 25 numbers (jmlv) that for me is the equivalent of spam approaching, i personally don't recommend that either.
- Continue with whatever conversational thread you were having in the encounter, i will give you some examples of openers continuing with whatever was going on in the encounter:
"hey "hb name", i had a great time, please don't mention your house in "Town name", please don't talk about your phone i already know you work in "work place", you don't need to repeat this to me 50 times....."
now a lot of you know i do dance floor game mainly none verbal so my opening message is created, kind of funny, different, unique, even if is not following a conversational thread:
"hey Susan i had a great time pretending to be dancing with you while grabbing your ass" latin diesel
this is another one:
Someone took a video of me and you dancing and posted it, not nice,
here is how i get numbers since i never carry my cell with me phoenix got a laid from a girl he did this with:
skills: "let me borrow your phone to put my number in"
hb: gives me the phone..
now i put my contact info and text myself: "who is that good looking/sexy guy you are talking to"
now guys this one is one of the easiest shit to do in strong interactions in night game (physicality, make out, but you did not close cause ________ fill in the blank reason):
skills: "do me a favor, text me when you get home to make sure you got home ok" I also used this if the girl come over after the first sexual encounter...
^ prior to this for years i had tons of issues post first time sex you can see it here
I also stole (i think from pwf) the "last night was hot with 3 fires emoji
- also you can cont. conversational thread based on something that happen and create some type of nickname":
"hey pinky swear blah blah blah" on a girl that made me pinky swear i would not fuck her, instead of calling her by her name i gave her that nickname when i refer to her...
NOTE.- have couple of very high value pictures in your phone, to send that are hot and will dhv after interactions if you exchange pictures...
ok guys, for those of your online you lack structure this works the only opener change is that i have been using a lot "I like your style, i am Felipe" opener a lot lately from pwf (but to be honest i don't really care about online) but i recently did online and totally got laid right away doing that approach...
how to be persistent without being needy, you guys may not know this about me but I HATE BEING PERSISTENT, i want girls to be FUCK YES, if not i naturally start losing interest, which is why i love game that actually WORKS, cause i want to minimize mistakes and maximize odds.... So please now that you know this about me let me tell you the best way to be persistent, triple text, quadruple text, quintuple text if that is such a word, coming from a dude that will make BRENT SMITH look like a chaser, ready for it, i learn this from women:
morning with this emoji
or eyes emoji
I will admit i am not good with flakes, unless she is invested and extremely good reason, if not i totally lose interest, but i heard pwf and what he says i can see working though this is kj not field tested by me (but again i can see it working)
"i did not take you for the flakey type"
"what are your scare of" this is to address objections...
DO NOT SHARE SOCIAL MEDIA OR INSTAGRAM
there are many ways to sexualize convos as well (i love to this, the grandmaster style and sexual trolling works well), but that is for guys that have a distinct personality not for everybody, here are some other stuff:
Simple/basic texting guide
There are 2 types of texting most guys use: 1.- long texting setting sexual frames.- This is hard to do, but is possible to do with experience. I had to rely in this style for 2 reasons: a.-) I relied a lot on physical game, no talking dance floor game and i had a heavy latin accent. b.-) By...
www.skilledseducer.com
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www.theskillsmethod.com
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www.theskillsmethod.com
this dude from the community is one of the best with texting he gets it
alright guys as always, adapt to your style, calibrate, understand the principles, field test, use critical thinking, formulate your own conclusions... If you don't fix texting i don't care if you are the super ultra gamer supreme, your results will be shit....
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