Something I noticed in a Hot Seat

[NiceGuy110]

See the title for the youtube video below. So the first time I watched this video, with everything I was taking in, this thing slipped my attention. At 25:15 he says he has to go to keep another girl warm. Where did he actually go though? He explains the point very well... of how when the girl likes you, then you can leave her to make her miss you. If he actually went up to some other random girl then it could go peared shaped.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZzmD8mZZKfc&t=1s

Also, at 27:15, I don't think anyone would be willing to make that much of a fool of them themselves. I have my suspicions. But who knows!

 

[Marty]

Very interesting video. Thanks for sharing.

 

[razir110]

Niceguy110

I watched the first half hour and I don't like this guy for some reason... He doesn't seem the alpha type that actually gets women, he seems to be a great entertainer that gets reactions instead of results. I am the only one to notice that? I like his arrogant I-don't-give-a-fuck style, but he just doesn't seem to be the real deal.

Plus, obviously no disrespect for homosexuals, but he gives off a gay vibe (half of comments on the video say the same) I mean if he is gay then nothing wrong with a gay dude showing on how to hit on women, but straight guys will have a different vibe.

Bah, dunno, he just doesn't convince me!

 

[Space]

Niceguy110

I watched the first half hour and I don't like this guy for some reason... He doesn't seem the alpha type that actually gets women, he seems to be a great entertainer that gets reactions instead of results. I am the only one to notice that? I like his arrogant I-don't-give-a-fuck style, but he just doesn't seem to be the real deal.

He is Tyler, founder of RSD, probably the biggest company in pick-up, a billion dollar business. Ginger man with big balls. Chase talks about RSD.

I've watched this one of his video presentations. It's the video you are recommended if you sign up for their newsletters.

I like how he talks about how once he was a hard case newbie (it's a definition he came up with), having to work on himself for years not to piss himself when talking to people, and his healthy self-criticism. ~ I'm ginger, balding, I have a high pitch voice, and still score girls better than guys with much more going for them in terms of physical gifts.

At least, he gives you a motivation.

I've addressed here before how I think it's probably easier to learn from a guy who had to figure this shit out the hard way than it is from a gifted natural for whom it was all easy from the start. Think Chase!

My main pet peeve with the video I linked to is when he discusses day game vs. night game, quote ~ Your main concern, guys is, that all the girls who go out at night are little whores while the girls you meet during the day are librarians. If you ask pretty girls, they all go out at night because that's where they get attention.

Which I did, and found factually not to be true. Speaking of Europe. Unrelated to pick-up, I enjoyed his 30-minute video recorded at an Eckhart Tolle retreat.

 

[NiceGuy110]

Niceguy110

I watched the first half hour and I don't like this guy for some reason... He doesn't seem the alpha type that actually gets women, he seems to be a great entertainer that gets reactions instead of results. I am the only one to notice that? I like his arrogant I-don't-give-a-fuck style, but he just doesn't seem to be the real deal.

Plus, obviously no disrespect for homosexuals, but he gives off a gay vibe (half of comments on the video say the same) I mean if he is gay then nothing wrong with a gay dude showing on how to hit on women, but straight guys will have a different vibe.

Bah, dunno, he just doesn't convince me!

Being the entertainer is a good place to start. Rather than standing around like a snow man, all the while thinking that you're like Don Draper. And you are! It's just there's no script writers to have a woman walk up to you so that you can blow smoke in her face while you ignore her questions.

Whether this guy (Owen) comes across as gay or not is up for debate. Whether he's actually gay is an entirely different question. I don't think a gay guy could find the motivation to give their life to chasing women and manage to remain in the closet the whole time.

 

[Marty]

What I find so inspirational about this guy is that he is so obviously plain-looking and YET gets results. Love it when he jokes he is "perfection" in the video and criticizes an actually near-perfect woman for being "too thin, too stuck-up".

I would find it hard to imitate his manner as it is so contrary to my natural personality, but you have to admit that it works. It shows that well-directed efforts actually pay off.