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Cro-Magnon Man
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Uncomfortably standing around at the bar where I hit on the waitress the week before. Dunno what to talk. Strange.

See one of the hottest girls passing by. Open. Ask me my age twice. Seems she has a boyfriend. Get the number anyway.

At the festival I see one of the artists I know, open her and realize she has a sexy model. Another girl from years ago enters and talks to me. While we talk, the model still seems interested. When the other girls leaves I talk to her a little more and get the number. They leave.

Talk to another girl who seems interested. One of my best friends enters, so I have her wait. Am I being rude? When I finish talking to him, she has her stuff packed. I want to get her number. She says she has a boyfriend ... and if I couldn't get her name right, I wouldn't get the number anyway. Later I would find out that I mixed up her name with her friend's.

I remember to follow up as quick as possible. So I text both girls that it was nice meeting them. Stupid, because later I would realize the mistakes I am putting in the messages. Too drunk.

We end up at the lake with the rest of the crew. There's one cute girl who seems interested. At some point she says she has a boyfriend. I try to advance anyway, but on each try she states that that "is not cool" - in a kind manner, but still ...

I hear girls nearby. Our group has already became very small, I head over to check them out. One guy, two girls. One of the girls is quite my type. As we leave, I realize my people are gone, so I join them for a part of the way. I somehow even manage to get the number of that girl.

Getting off the taxi, I open to girls. One's hot. They tell me they are already with a guy. When he shows up, it seems he has chosen the other one already. Cool. I try to advance with the one I like, but they don't really pay any attention.

I see the girl one of my best friends digged for quite some time. I get her number, then I invite her to leave. She resists and I push: "Let's go, so we can get out of this muggy ambient and get some fresh air instead." She talks to another girl and we leave. As we walk, I take her hand. As we arrive at the park, I kiss her. She suddenly walks off. I can see she's turning around and hesitating. Chasing never worked for me. To at least try something, I call her. She says she's already back at the bar.

A little later I text her "You + me @ bar X, 10 mins". 20 mins later: "No". "True. You'll no longer find me there. Guess again."

Now at the bar where the night initially started. I try to ignore the fact that I like the waitress and instead meet a group of girls from where I was born.

They're cool. I hit on the cute one. She's interested, but although one of the girls apparently really seems to be on my side and tries to convince her to choose me, she resists my advances. Things get cold at a certain stage. Attainability issues? :/

While I talk to the bouncer, the girl who left me in the park enters. I decide not to make any advances. Chasing would just kill my chances anyway, I suppose.

So many hot girls ... the very first being a stunner ... a personal 10 ... but even with the last one I fail to hit it off. Lacking faith, but still trying to ignore my negativity and see if I can follow up with any of them ...
 
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Railer

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Quick follow up:

Calling the very first girl, I end up in her voice box directly. Maybe it's fake. Liked her most, interaction was actually positive with strong EC. She and her friend even discussed if they'd spontaneously join me and my friends to a party. My friend was arriving to pick me up that's where the interaction ended.

The number that girl gave me at the lake is confirmed to be fake. Can't blame her - I can hardly remember our interaction. [1]

Won't continue with the girl who's relative I know. Don't feel comfortable about it. My friends girl didn't pick up the phone yet. Want to communicate that everything's cool between us.

The girl, which got cold during interaction returned my call yesterday, but she wasn't aware whom she's calling. [2] I cut her off. Later, feeling sorry, I excused myself for it via text. Today she wrote back.

Met the two girls who have boyfriends yesterday. Said "Hi", but left it at that due to a lack of energy and ... not really knowing how to handle the situation.

The model just returned my call. She won yesterday's competition. Asked if I would come today as well, but I can't. Invited me to visit her some day at the shop she works at.

LESSONS LEARNT

[1] Stay within reasonable limits of alcohol.

[2] Will avoid this by making sure the girl stores my number.
 
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