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So I went back up to the college I just graduated from to celebrate new years with my friends (still looking for a social circle where I currently live).
We went to a party where I met a girl who was pretty in to me, but she says she's "seeing someone". I don't really like dealing with girls like those, cause even if she will sleep with me, there have been quite a few times in the past where there was quite a bit of guilt on the girl's end. So I moved on from her.
We went to a different party. As soon as we got there, I met my girl for the night. She was sitting next to the fireplace. Didn't look to engaged. So I just sat down and started chatting with her. It started out with me, her and her friend. But her friend was sitting on the opposite side of her. So we were all sitting in a line and my girl was in the middle of us. So as soon as I started talking to her, her friend kind of felt blocked out. So there was a lot of social pressure for her to just leave lol. So after about 2 minutes of conversation, that's exactly what happened. Leaving me & my girl alone.
As for the conversation itself, the whole thing was only like, 10 minutes and there wasn't much substance to it. Most of it was just me being slightly patronizing & sarcastic towards her. But in a humorous way. So it made her laugh and it wasn't so bad that she would go into auto-reject. I found out she goes to school in Portland (which means she doesn't have a place I can pull her to. And I'm staying @ my friend's place. This makes logistics rather difficult). I forgot her name.
On one particular high point, I grabbed her hand and put it in mine. She started massaging my palm with her fingers. As soon as I felt that, I knew it was game time. I could have just pulled her then and there. but I decided to wait a little while longer to ramp up the tension. So maybe 30-60 seconds later, I made out with her. When I broke the kiss, I took her by the hand and told her we're going somewhere more private.
Luckily, I had been to this house before. So I knew where the bathroom was. And there weren't' that many people there that night. So we just went there. I escalated to sex no problem. Two other interesting points of note:
1. I was having a hard time keeping my dick hard (I would guess whisky dick. Cause this usually isn't a problem for me anymore). When I asked her to blow me to get me hard, she was hesitant at first. She later revealed that she had "never done that before". At the time, my drunk ass didn't register the implications of that. I just said "that's fine". Then she said "ok" and went down on me. Now that I think about it...that's really sketchy. So she's never given a dude a blowjob. But I would assume she's had sex with a guy before right?? Otherwise she would have mentioned that she's never done that too.
2. People kept trying to get into the bathroom. I guess we created a line lol. Every time someone would knock, she stayed silent, and I said that I'm in here and I'll be a while. ...But I don't think they got the message. They kept coming back once every like, 30 seconds. Cause drunk people lol.
This made sex pretty uncomfortable. I felt kinda rushed and like I was under pressure. I think she felt the same way. So I can't say the quality of the experience was too high.
Anyways, after we were finished, we walked out. No one was waiting anymore. We went downstairs, but as soon as we got to the room where her friends are, she immediately stopped talking to me and split off to join them. I stayed there for a second to gain a better understanding of what's happening:
Them: Where have you been?!
Her: Oh you know...around.
That's all I needed to hear. She didn't want to talk to me anymore because she doesn't want her friends to find out what just happened. Also, maybe it wasn't too great an experience for her because of the drunk guys banging on the bathroom. So I just left the room and we kinda pretended not to know each other for the rest of the party lol
Overall, this seems to have some FRA potential. Cause I feel like it wasn't too great an experience for her. But she really wasn't too drunk when it happened. She was clearly cogent and knew what was going on. So I doubt it will be a problem. I'm always just paranoid about this type of thing on college campuses
We went to a party where I met a girl who was pretty in to me, but she says she's "seeing someone". I don't really like dealing with girls like those, cause even if she will sleep with me, there have been quite a few times in the past where there was quite a bit of guilt on the girl's end. So I moved on from her.
We went to a different party. As soon as we got there, I met my girl for the night. She was sitting next to the fireplace. Didn't look to engaged. So I just sat down and started chatting with her. It started out with me, her and her friend. But her friend was sitting on the opposite side of her. So we were all sitting in a line and my girl was in the middle of us. So as soon as I started talking to her, her friend kind of felt blocked out. So there was a lot of social pressure for her to just leave lol. So after about 2 minutes of conversation, that's exactly what happened. Leaving me & my girl alone.
As for the conversation itself, the whole thing was only like, 10 minutes and there wasn't much substance to it. Most of it was just me being slightly patronizing & sarcastic towards her. But in a humorous way. So it made her laugh and it wasn't so bad that she would go into auto-reject. I found out she goes to school in Portland (which means she doesn't have a place I can pull her to. And I'm staying @ my friend's place. This makes logistics rather difficult). I forgot her name.
On one particular high point, I grabbed her hand and put it in mine. She started massaging my palm with her fingers. As soon as I felt that, I knew it was game time. I could have just pulled her then and there. but I decided to wait a little while longer to ramp up the tension. So maybe 30-60 seconds later, I made out with her. When I broke the kiss, I took her by the hand and told her we're going somewhere more private.
Luckily, I had been to this house before. So I knew where the bathroom was. And there weren't' that many people there that night. So we just went there. I escalated to sex no problem. Two other interesting points of note:
1. I was having a hard time keeping my dick hard (I would guess whisky dick. Cause this usually isn't a problem for me anymore). When I asked her to blow me to get me hard, she was hesitant at first. She later revealed that she had "never done that before". At the time, my drunk ass didn't register the implications of that. I just said "that's fine". Then she said "ok" and went down on me. Now that I think about it...that's really sketchy. So she's never given a dude a blowjob. But I would assume she's had sex with a guy before right?? Otherwise she would have mentioned that she's never done that too.
2. People kept trying to get into the bathroom. I guess we created a line lol. Every time someone would knock, she stayed silent, and I said that I'm in here and I'll be a while. ...But I don't think they got the message. They kept coming back once every like, 30 seconds. Cause drunk people lol.
This made sex pretty uncomfortable. I felt kinda rushed and like I was under pressure. I think she felt the same way. So I can't say the quality of the experience was too high.
Anyways, after we were finished, we walked out. No one was waiting anymore. We went downstairs, but as soon as we got to the room where her friends are, she immediately stopped talking to me and split off to join them. I stayed there for a second to gain a better understanding of what's happening:
Them: Where have you been?!
Her: Oh you know...around.
That's all I needed to hear. She didn't want to talk to me anymore because she doesn't want her friends to find out what just happened. Also, maybe it wasn't too great an experience for her because of the drunk guys banging on the bathroom. So I just left the room and we kinda pretended not to know each other for the rest of the party lol
Overall, this seems to have some FRA potential. Cause I feel like it wasn't too great an experience for her. But she really wasn't too drunk when it happened. She was clearly cogent and knew what was going on. So I doubt it will be a problem. I'm always just paranoid about this type of thing on college campuses
