Startled or scared look

[Lawliet]

Hey seducer bros,

When you startle women, what do you do?
I approached during the day, and would be startled as I say Hey! and they didn't notice me. I apologize "Whoops, sorry" before jumping into my opener.
What do you bros think?

Incidentally,
I remembered approaching a girl, and getting a scared look from her?
Her body language, completely closed, and having a frightened / sad look in her face.

Yours,
Lawliet

 

[Troy]

Lawliet,

Don't ever apologize for approaching ANYONE. You want something and she gets frightened, when you apologize you communicate " hey I don't want to bother you. You are so high status and I'm not used to getting girls like you ".

I used to and still sometimes frighten upon approaching. I still have stuff to learn about approaching. However I've learnt to NOT approach from behind and talk but let them look at me first.

I have been reading your posts and it seems anxiety is your main problem. I can relate to you when I was new. I wanted to know EVERYTHING before I did one approach. What I did to get past that initial anxiety is find a different environment to approach. If you can't approach on the streets why not talk to girls at the library where it's easier. Find your niche. Pick 3 things and just go talk to girls

No more questions

Troy

 

[Lawliet]

Thanks troy for the push.
You're right, numbers game at days end.
I will definitely keep approaching regardless. Day game is my niche, anywhere hot girls are at .

But this reaction I got from this girl after approaching her stands out, her frightened look when I was just small talking.
I really don't want to hurt women. Just made me curious why she reacted that way.
She gave me her number pretty quick, but turned 360 the next day...

Lawliet