Sticking Point: "Bold" Moves

[Zoro]

I've come a long way thanks to GC.

Signs of interest from girls are becoming more common and stronger (becoming more aware of their subtly as well).
But I still have much to experience and more to grow. My weakest area at the moment can be summed up as "bold" moves.

That is, direct openers, most cold approach situations, asking out on a date, going for the kiss or an intimate move.

I'm a big pussy. I want my balls back.

In fact, it's kind of amazing that I've got laid at all sucking at such vital aspects of "gettin' some."

What I know already:

Go out more and expose myself to more opportunities to meet women.
Men who get laid a lot have an intimate relationship with rejection.
Improvement comes from challenges and experience.

What am I not getting? Why when it's time to step up, I check out?

I have my own ideas about this and I'm confident I can overcome it, but I've been struggling with it for too long.
I want to hear your thoughts on it.

-JW

 

[ray_zorse]

Why don't u try setting yourself micro goals such as... "the first 5 women I approach I will say something boldly sexual in the first minute"... or "tonight during nightgame I will physically pick up a girl at least once". This is a good way to deal with sticking points.
Ray

 

[Zoro]

I like that idea. It also reminded me that I have forgotten to have a focused process for improving.

Thanks Ray.

-J

P.S.

My other post is not getting too much attention in the depths of the online dating forum. Looking for some advice on "pipelining"

Check it out if you think you can help out.

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=25&t=10197

 

[Zoro]

Becoming like the "latin lover" archetype is appealing to me. Bold moves is their thing, and they do it if it's the most natural and normal thing. Like "of course a man and a woman will get together and make love."

I've heard stories of these men flirting and seducing women from under another mans arm literally.

Looking for some role models to help get into this mindset.

 

[Zoro]

Note to self - It seems that gaining social momentum is vital for this. Not only social momentum the day of, but stacked on habitually being social over weeks/months/years.