Hey folks.
After talking to around 250 + girls from cold approach (mostly daygame), I am finally starting to get some success. I've already had sex with two girls from daygame and my interactions from my approach are fun (thanks to my deep diving abilities)
However, I am also having a major sticking point; I have trouble converting the girls enthusiasm into dates. Before I ask you guys for advice, let me tell you the process I usually go through:
1. I am almost always direct in my approach. I give the girl a genuine compliment. Usually this get good reactions from the get-go around 30 % of the time.
2. I deep dive fast. Asking them questions about their life and career. I sometimes look in their eyes and flirt with them with non-verbals (like voice tone, pregnant pauses, thinking about sex with them when we are talking).
3. I tell them as little as possible about myself and always put the conversation back to them. If possible I also try to make shure to move them or get a compliance - like asking them to show me whatever jewelry they are using or moving them to another seat if I am at a coffee house.
4. I always make shure to ask them out on a high note (I never ask though, I just say "we should meet sometime" in the middle of the conversation).
5. After this I talk for a couple of minutes about something else, excuse myself and tell them that I will text them.
And then I text them. Usually a couple of hours after our first meet. The first text are to the point and trying to figure out logistics. This is where I use to fuck up. Half of the time girls respond, but my date-ratio is much lower than that. Im I to fast with the trigger or should I wait a little more before asking them out? I've been using chases method https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-text-girl, but the success hasn't been all that. Could I make my text game even more effective?
Another thing I also not tend to do is chase framing. But I mean, how important is it really? I never use it because It feels awkward saying sexual things in the middle of a conversation. I mean, I am clear about my intentions and I am flirty with my non-verbals. But could my lack of verbal chase-frame be the thing that is stopping from having even more success or do I need to become better at text game?
What do you think guys? Why are girls flirting with me, saying yes to meet me and then... go cold? I know that their state has something to say, but come on! After getting 10 numbers and good interactions I should at least get a couple of dates. Can it be fixed or am I asking for too much? If so, how?
After talking to around 250 + girls from cold approach (mostly daygame), I am finally starting to get some success. I've already had sex with two girls from daygame and my interactions from my approach are fun (thanks to my deep diving abilities)
However, I am also having a major sticking point; I have trouble converting the girls enthusiasm into dates. Before I ask you guys for advice, let me tell you the process I usually go through:
1. I am almost always direct in my approach. I give the girl a genuine compliment. Usually this get good reactions from the get-go around 30 % of the time.
2. I deep dive fast. Asking them questions about their life and career. I sometimes look in their eyes and flirt with them with non-verbals (like voice tone, pregnant pauses, thinking about sex with them when we are talking).
3. I tell them as little as possible about myself and always put the conversation back to them. If possible I also try to make shure to move them or get a compliance - like asking them to show me whatever jewelry they are using or moving them to another seat if I am at a coffee house.
4. I always make shure to ask them out on a high note (I never ask though, I just say "we should meet sometime" in the middle of the conversation).
5. After this I talk for a couple of minutes about something else, excuse myself and tell them that I will text them.
And then I text them. Usually a couple of hours after our first meet. The first text are to the point and trying to figure out logistics. This is where I use to fuck up. Half of the time girls respond, but my date-ratio is much lower than that. Im I to fast with the trigger or should I wait a little more before asking them out? I've been using chases method https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-text-girl, but the success hasn't been all that. Could I make my text game even more effective?
Another thing I also not tend to do is chase framing. But I mean, how important is it really? I never use it because It feels awkward saying sexual things in the middle of a conversation. I mean, I am clear about my intentions and I am flirty with my non-verbals. But could my lack of verbal chase-frame be the thing that is stopping from having even more success or do I need to become better at text game?
What do you think guys? Why are girls flirting with me, saying yes to meet me and then... go cold? I know that their state has something to say, but come on! After getting 10 numbers and good interactions I should at least get a couple of dates. Can it be fixed or am I asking for too much? If so, how?
