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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy

Hope this article helps. Either you're being too serious when you state your sexual intent or you're incongruent in person and in text or your fundamentals and vibe is wrong, i.e. you want to get together with the girl without giving good emotions back to her. In other words, you're taking value rather than giving.

If anyone could help me troubleshoot this problem I would appreciate it because I bet a lot of people I interact with make this judgment about me and I've had enough of it. I think the persistence problem is because I'm operating in scarcity. My mindset is basically that I can take a girl who doesn't seem interested and turn it around.

Forget about persistence for now. Work on building an abundance mentality through cold approaching. It's not worth the effort to take a girl who doesn't seem interested and turn it around. Much easier to find girls who are into you.
Improve your fundamentals and become a good conversationalist. While you're working on these, yes, sometimes you'll still come across as creepy, but that's normal, as long as you don't give up, you can become charming and sexy.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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