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Went out to run a little night game last night, ok actually I'd been running game all day, went to 4-5 different spots for day game (community colleges/malls), then went home and took a nap and made sure I had an empty stomach to redose phenibut (1 gram total for the day).
Day game didn't go that great honestly, only got a couple numbers, I wasn't as confident as I needed to be, but I didn't chew myself out just made sure to take a quickie nap and get my mindstate back where it needed to be!
Night game start: Easily pulled three numbers at the first bar we went too (got a couple other brokers that come out with me that are heavily into RSD stuff, they're still beginners on the approach too though (more into reading theory than working on outer game like me) so we go out together to train and hone our skills). First time I've ever pulled a girls number that was with her mom, super hot half Arab/half white, legit told her mum I'm taking her daughter to coffee (confidence is def getting higher, plus it was easier because they were in a bar vs. at a mall or something where I'd be worried about being called a pedo). My kino wasn't as great to start off with but it slowly built through the night as I got more confident! Next bar we went too my kino was stronger, I managed to stop a girl that was clearly walking away and I literally SAW her interest level rise as I didn't look needy or chase her at all. She turned out to be 27-28ish, been having some issues with girls that are a few years older than me that feel like they're cradle robbing because I'm only 22. Anyway she seemed a bit put off by the age factor but I put my arm around her and slowly started moving my hand up and down her back, response? "I love when you caress my body like that
", I went for the kiss (but half heartedly and she stopped me, I could have pushed it because it was honestly a clear escalation window, but it's ok I'm just glad I'm finally seeing those escalation windows I was missing before). She told me I had the confidence of a 30 year old but she needed to go find her friends, number closed and moved on.
I've ended up getting 11 numbers with strong kino contact plus solid verbals, actually talked to two girls that worked together that said they want to do a threesome (90% sure they're fucking with me but hey, ya never know). I'm still having trouble with moving interactions all the way to the close/leading but everytime I do this it gets a little better.
Didn't end up getting any responses to my texts, but again I guess that's a numbers game plus it's night game and women give their numbers to like 99999999 guys, so despite following Chase's model and asking for the date in person confidently without pushing these interactions to close or at least getting to a hook point I'm not really getting anywhere (except for EXP points, I swear everytime I do this I push things a little farther, I feel like a moron because I'm still missing windows but I think about how much better I've gotten in the last 2 months alone and it's incredible!)
Also my spezznatura is getting better, I didn't find myself anxious or panicking when I saw a few girls hadn't texted me back about prospective dates we were supposed to set up (plus the zero responses), if they text me great, we'll set something up; if not I'll go get some more numbers and push things farther! Maybe even setup an instant date via daygame .
Things I've improved on: Pushing interactions farther and not ejecting quickly (what I call premature ejaculation lol), tone of voice and sexy walk/physical fitness (I'm getting more "hots" and "sexys" vs. "cutes" or "not my type" when talking to women or having women talk about me), confidence while solo approaching groups, text game and only using the phone for logistics and quick rapport building, not being as needy (double texting and getting emotional), closing really obvious escalation windows that I would have been clueless about before.
Things to focus on for the next couple months: Leading and moving women (probably the most important thing), getting to a hook point (probably second most important thing), getting abs and more muscle to take shirtless tinder pics (getting closer everyday), keeping an abundance mentality, closing smaller escalation windows and moving faster and farther on approaches and pickups (being more ballsy and not worrying about if people think I'm a douchebag or whatever).
Things to remember when I think this is way too hard and I can't go on anymore: I"ve improved tenfold since I started actively fighting to gain more skill with women, last weekend I made out with and felt up a hot blonde MILF at the bar (that actually lived with her BF and had a son that was my age LMAO, she was bangin tho, didn't look a day over 34, plus all my mates saw me so that was dope), I managed to pickup a hot professor at my college, I hooked up with a hot blonde and almost had sex with her at party (which I never would have had the balls to do before and I thought she was out of my league) and many more! Just gotta stay positive, honestly this is some of the most emotionally draining shit in my life haha, but I've never felt better. At least I'm actively TRYING to make stuff happen rather than sitting around whining about how girls don't like me. Also I don't think about my ex anymore, whereas I used to think she was the best I could get (extremely attractive physically and great sex but honestly a fucking moron).
Thoughts, comments and advice are always appreciated!
Day game didn't go that great honestly, only got a couple numbers, I wasn't as confident as I needed to be, but I didn't chew myself out just made sure to take a quickie nap and get my mindstate back where it needed to be!
Night game start: Easily pulled three numbers at the first bar we went too (got a couple other brokers that come out with me that are heavily into RSD stuff, they're still beginners on the approach too though (more into reading theory than working on outer game like me) so we go out together to train and hone our skills). First time I've ever pulled a girls number that was with her mom, super hot half Arab/half white, legit told her mum I'm taking her daughter to coffee (confidence is def getting higher, plus it was easier because they were in a bar vs. at a mall or something where I'd be worried about being called a pedo). My kino wasn't as great to start off with but it slowly built through the night as I got more confident! Next bar we went too my kino was stronger, I managed to stop a girl that was clearly walking away and I literally SAW her interest level rise as I didn't look needy or chase her at all. She turned out to be 27-28ish, been having some issues with girls that are a few years older than me that feel like they're cradle robbing because I'm only 22. Anyway she seemed a bit put off by the age factor but I put my arm around her and slowly started moving my hand up and down her back, response? "I love when you caress my body like that
", I went for the kiss (but half heartedly and she stopped me, I could have pushed it because it was honestly a clear escalation window, but it's ok I'm just glad I'm finally seeing those escalation windows I was missing before). She told me I had the confidence of a 30 year old but she needed to go find her friends, number closed and moved on.I've ended up getting 11 numbers with strong kino contact plus solid verbals, actually talked to two girls that worked together that said they want to do a threesome (90% sure they're fucking with me but hey, ya never know). I'm still having trouble with moving interactions all the way to the close/leading but everytime I do this it gets a little better
. Didn't end up getting any responses to my texts, but again I guess that's a numbers game plus it's night game and women give their numbers to like 99999999 guys, so despite following Chase's model and asking for the date in person confidently without pushing these interactions to close or at least getting to a hook point I'm not really getting anywhere (except for EXP points, I swear everytime I do this I push things a little farther, I feel like a moron because I'm still missing windows but I think about how much better I've gotten in the last 2 months alone and it's incredible!)
Also my spezznatura is getting better
, I didn't find myself anxious or panicking when I saw a few girls hadn't texted me back about prospective dates we were supposed to set up (plus the zero responses), if they text me great, we'll set something up; if not I'll go get some more numbers and push things farther! Maybe even setup an instant date via daygame .Things I've improved on: Pushing interactions farther and not ejecting quickly (what I call premature ejaculation lol), tone of voice and sexy walk/physical fitness (I'm getting more "hots" and "sexys" vs. "cutes" or "not my type" when talking to women or having women talk about me), confidence while solo approaching groups, text game and only using the phone for logistics and quick rapport building, not being as needy (double texting and getting emotional), closing really obvious escalation windows that I would have been clueless about before.
Things to focus on for the next couple months: Leading and moving women (probably the most important thing), getting to a hook point (probably second most important thing), getting abs and more muscle to take shirtless tinder pics (getting closer everyday), keeping an abundance mentality, closing smaller escalation windows and moving faster and farther on approaches and pickups (being more ballsy and not worrying about if people think I'm a douchebag or whatever).
Things to remember when I think this is way too hard and I can't go on anymore: I"ve improved tenfold since I started actively fighting to gain more skill with women, last weekend I made out with and felt up a hot blonde MILF at the bar (that actually lived with her BF and had a son that was my age LMAO, she was bangin tho, didn't look a day over 34, plus all my mates saw me so that was dope), I managed to pickup a hot professor at my college, I hooked up with a hot blonde and almost had sex with her at party (which I never would have had the balls to do before and I thought she was out of my league) and many more! Just gotta stay positive, honestly this is some of the most emotionally draining shit in my life haha, but I've never felt better. At least I'm actively TRYING to make stuff happen rather than sitting around whining about how girls don't like me. Also I don't think about my ex anymore, whereas I used to think she was the best I could get (extremely attractive physically and great sex but honestly a fucking moron).
Thoughts, comments and advice are always appreciated!
