Still seem to lose all of my confidence and game around blondes.

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I can't seem to put my finger on why this is the case with me but I have always felt this way. Even after months of managing to get laid with different kinds of girls (except for blondes), I still keep having this issue. Like I cannot talk to and interact with a blonde that looks good the same way I would with a brunette or a girl that happens to be from a minority group.

Like I can be really confident around a girl that isn't white, brunette, or a redhead but the second I get a chance with a decent looking blonde, it is like my entire attitude and behavior changes. I tried to look into why this is and I came up with some reasons:

1. I didn't interact with many of them growing up.

2. Have had bad experiences with most of them throughout my life.

3. Have limiting beliefs about them due to what I have heard such as how they hate brown guys for example. Doesn't help that seeing a brown (south asian) guy with a beautiful blonde is practically unheard of in the USA.

How can I best correct this problem? I know I have these women on a pedestal and it is hurting my game with them but I cannot seem to correct this problem.

 

[daviddreamer]

Well like with anything else you need to spend your focus on interacting with blondes and keep exposing yourself to the situation...so my advice is to just do open approaches or what have you with just blonde women.

And you will soon find that a blonde woman is not of a different race or species....just a hair color.