Stop being a lover of Women.

[Cacc]

why is it tough for women to lock down a high quality dude even if they do fuck? since majority of women end up married by the end of their 20's or early 30's at least?

They settle for less. They lock down the man that is willing to be monogamous and provide, which most of the time, will be lower value relative to her. High quality men don't need to be monogamous because they know they can get women just like her or better.

We get to make what we want out of life, if that was truly the case, then rejection would not exist, if we truly had the power and control, we would be the ones to decide every step of the way under our own terms.

We get to decide our end goal. Which... is the most important thing isn't it? Only those who can endure the pain of constant failures and keep going will ever succeed. We do have power and control... over ourselves. We may not have the skill to fuck 5 women in a week now, but how about 1 year from now? We may not be able to get that perfect girl and get rejected by her, but 2 years from now you meet a girl better and make her your girlfriend. But none of this will happen without blood and sweat.

Rejection means nothing... Hector has probably been rejected thousands of times. Look where he is now.


"The difference between the novice and the master is that the master has failed more times than the novice has tried."

 

[Michal]

RM,

ya, probably because women just have to go out and show up, that's it.

Here's the kicker. Because women only show up and wait to get approached, they rarely get the men they truly want. They dont care about the low value guys that hit on them. Sure, its validation but what she truly wants is to get dicked up by a quality dude. Even worse, it's very tough for her to lock down a quality dude even if they do fuck.

That's their struggle. They are the receptive sex so they can only take what life hands them... Which sucks.

As for men. We penetrate the world around us. We go for what we want with unending resolve. We do not sit around for life to hand us a woman, or to magically receive a million bucks in the mail.

The beauty of being a man is that you get to make what you want out of life.

Including women.

why is it tough for women to lock down a high quality dude even if they do fuck? since majority of women end up married by the end of their 20's or early 30's at least? We get to make what we want out of life, if that was truly the case, then rejection would not exist, if we truly had the power and control, we would be the ones to decide every step of the way under our own terms.

If you ever had that feeling that "a super attractice, sexy girl with cool, down to earth personality can have any guy she wants, why would she be with you", then it is not that hard to understand. She sees a guy, really cool guy and goes like "oh he is cool, I think he likes me, but does he find me attractive? Look how charming he is, that girl is totally flirting with him, am I prettier than her? I think so, I was told I was prettty and sexy but only Mark was cool enough, rest of the guy telling me were.. well, some were ok. Would I get him if I slept with him? But what if he just uses me for sex?! I dont want that! I want him! Not just for sex! I like flowers, would he buy those for me? I guess he can buy flowers to any girl". Girls cannot have every guy. They know that thwir body and looks are their biggest weapon, thtas why they want you to chase so that you would be more invested and stick around. That is what they are told about how to get a guy. But the top quality guy know how to bypass all these rules and get her to bed fast so for a girl to lock down a quality guy is not as easy as it might seem.

 

[ResentMasculinity]

why is it tough for women to lock down a high quality dude even if they do fuck? since majority of women end up married by the end of their 20's or early 30's at least?

They settle for less. They lock down the man that is willing to be monogamous and provide, which most of the time, will be lower value relative to her. High quality men don't need to be monogamous because they know they can get women just like her or better.

We get to make what we want out of life, if that was truly the case, then rejection would not exist, if we truly had the power and control, we would be the ones to decide every step of the way under our own terms.

We get to decide our end goal. Which... is the most important thing isn't it? Only those who can endure the pain of constant failures and keep going will ever succeed. We do have power and control... over ourselves. We may not have the skill to fuck 5 women in a week now, but how about 1 year from now? We may not be able to get that perfect girl and get rejected by her, but 2 years from now you meet a girl better and make her your girlfriend. But none of this will happen without blood and sweat.

Rejection means nothing... Hector has probably been rejected thousands of times. Look where he is now.


"The difference between the novice and the master is that the master has failed more times than the novice has tried."

"Also girls have it easier when learning to interact with the opposite sex because guys approach girls. It's the masculine role to initiate. So girls learn fairly young the basics even if they do nothing."

I mainly agree with the last part of the quote, and I didn't create that quote itself, it was from a video review about The Alabaster Girl.

 

[Cacc]

Nothing to do with what I just said...

 

[trashKENNUT]

RM,

what you mean not that level?

They not taking action, and "that level" means so many things can go wrong leading her to complete seduction.

Zac

 

[ResentMasculinity]

Nothing to do with what I just said...

Ya, apparently it seems women were just meant to exist in life, when you say: "The beauty of being a man is that you get to make what you want out of life."

this was something I heard from somewhere, it did kinda tick me off because it goes to show as always, guys have to be the cause for everything, even someone else felt like I did in thread about sex, it is: "It is masculine to do, act, build, create.

It is unmasculine to sit back, procrastinate, be lazy, let life happen to you."

So that's another reason why it seems women were just meant to exist in life.

I follow this blog on masculinity, and it was said: "Women just sort of exist. Men accomplish. It's hard to put into words. I guess women will never feel what a man does when he makes it. If that makes sense."

I feel that was so true

 

[ResentMasculinity]

ya for men it happens with blood and sweat, for women, it just happens out of thin air for them, they learn by doing nothing. When you say: "As for men. We penetrate the world around us. We go for what we want with unending resolve. We do not sit around for life to hand us a woman, or to magically receive a million bucks in the mail.

The beauty of being a man is that you get to make what you want out of life."

Ya I never embraced it and probably never will, always saw it as a burden, but of course I know I have to live with it, its apparently as natural as an Earthquake, Hurricane, Tornado, Rain, Flood, etc. There have been times my resentment towards it is so strong, it makes me think dark thoughts at times.

 

[ResentMasculinity]

ya, I love to follow Charles Sledge's blog, he brings up great points, I love how he says "women just have to not be a fat cunt" and they will be fine in the dating/mating game.