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Sub-Zero

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I tend to over think everything and make it a lot more daunting than it is. It's pretty much everything in life. It could be me driving somewhere, and ill go "its too far, ill have such a long drive" then ill be less likely to do it. With dates, i think of every single thing, the whole process goes through my head of trying to get her out, to what we'll do, the date, then trying to get her home, then sleeping with her.

I then get overwhelmed and really don't even want to do it.

Any tips to stop this guys?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Richard

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0 second rule. Do not spend any extra time doing something that you feel inclined to do.

If a girl walks past you, you think she's cute and you know you want to approach - spend absolutely no time thinking about what to say, what angle to play, or any other bullshit. Immediately make the snap decision and you'll literally rewire the neurons in your brain.

The other thing is to keep in mind that your emotions are designed to protect your current identity, and they will fuck you over because you're probably not happy with your current identity. This means that changing is actually seen as an unnatural thing for your brain to go through but you are the master of your life so take control by consciously saying "fuck you" to every thought and belief that holds you back.
 

Sub-Zero

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Richard said:
0 second rule. Do not spend any extra time doing something that you feel inclined to do.

If a girl walks past you, you think she's cute and you know you want to approach - spend absolutely no time thinking about what to say, what angle to play, or any other bullshit. Immediately make the snap decision and you'll literally rewire the neurons in your brain.

The other thing is to keep in mind that your emotions are designed to protect your current identity, and they will fuck you over because you're probably not happy with your current identity. This means that changing is actually seen as an unnatural thing for your brain to go through but you are the master of your life so take control by consciously saying "fuck you" to every thought and belief that holds you back.

Thanks Richard, good advice.
Correct me if im wrong, but you're 20 right and started pick up at like 18, and i heard you had like 200 lays. That's a lot in two years, could you tell me what you did exactly? Like where you went and your most success?how many times you went out in a week? and your easiest method for you to rack up lays?

Thanks
 

Richard

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Started when I was 18, had intense motivation to learn due to a break up, and 2 years later I've got 30 lays under my belt.

What did I do? I went out and approached. I read the GC articles and adopted their core points into my beliefs so I could approach a girl with the confidence to be speak sexually. Although, I'm naturally very socially intuitive so I pick up on alot of signals and body language that isn't so obvious.

Where I went? Where are my stalking grounds? I'm really big on direct day game for more reasons than I have the time to write down right now. But because I preferred direct day game I was mostly on busy streets, local stores, malls. I hate clubs and night game.

How many times I went out? Pretty regularly. More often than not I was out running errands for my family and would purposefully take the routes I knew other people did. So if I needed to go buy milk I wasn't running to the local Mom and Pop shop, I was running towards the grocery store by the mall. Also, what time you go out matters; I stayed away from these places right around 3-4 because that's when high school girls head out. I'm not trying to get charged because a 16 year old looks like a 21 year old.

Easiest method for sex? Ask for it, someone's bound to say yes. Don't literally ask for it but make sure your intentions are clear within the first 5 minutes of approaching her. This is why I'm a fan of the direct approach as well: High risk, high reward but it pays off because you don't waste time with girls who aren't into you, and you know that whatever girls stick around to talk are more than likely down to fuck. Be comfortable talking about your intentions as well because being vague causes girls to auto reject as well because they don't know what you want: a relationship, some pussy, to be friends, etc?

Hope this helped you ;)
 

Sub-Zero

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Richard said:
Started when I was 18, had intense motivation to learn due to a break up, and 2 years later I've got 30 lays under my belt.

What did I do? I went out and approached. I read the GC articles and adopted their core points into my beliefs so I could approach a girl with the confidence to be speak sexually. Although, I'm naturally very socially intuitive so I pick up on alot of signals and body language that isn't so obvious.

Where I went? Where are my stalking grounds? I'm really big on direct day game for more reasons than I have the time to write down right now. But because I preferred direct day game I was mostly on busy streets, local stores, malls. I hate clubs and night game.

How many times I went out? Pretty regularly. More often than not I was out running errands for my family and would purposefully take the routes I knew other people did. So if I needed to go buy milk I wasn't running to the local Mom and Pop shop, I was running towards the grocery store by the mall. Also, what time you go out matters; I stayed away from these places right around 3-4 because that's when high school girls head out. I'm not trying to get charged because a 16 year old looks like a 21 year old.

Easiest method for sex? Ask for it, someone's bound to say yes. Don't literally ask for it but make sure your intentions are clear within the first 5 minutes of approaching her. This is why I'm a fan of the direct approach as well: High risk, high reward but it pays off because you don't waste time with girls who aren't into you, and you know that whatever girls stick around to talk are more than likely down to fuck. Be comfortable talking about your intentions as well because being vague causes girls to auto reject as well because they don't know what you want: a relationship, some pussy, to be friends, etc?

Hope this helped you ;)

Gotcha man, This day game shit is killin me haha. Idk why, but this shit is hard as hell for me. Imma just start saying hi for a while. I really want to get good with this shit. Not good,.... Great, Excellent!
 
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