Hey saviors,
GC has helped me achieve whatever I have until now. It's been a very significant change and I've always wanted to ask, from my humble beginnings in this journey, along which, things changed a lot!
So here goes; How do I stop the girls I meet from falling in "love" with me and just go along with me for a fun ride, ending in intimacy?
This is not a single experience, we're talking 4-5 times in the past two months doing social circle game. (I'm about to graduate from high school, have exams lined up, so have been indoors for almost 3 months straight)
Within hours of beginning chatting, I start getting very "in love" sorta vibes and they also go cold if I fail to reply to these girls, which only leads to me not replying even further because I don't want to back this behavior up, and because it feels like work. All the fun, vanished into thin air.
I do state very well in the beginning of the interaction that I'm not looking for a relationship, because the last one I had really exhausted me, all to no avail! When in person I even escalate quickly, doesn't work!
I think I'm giving off the boyfriend vibe, but no idea where from.
I do want you guys to know that we're basically dealing with girls in the 16-18 age group (I'm turning 18 this yr).
So how do I come of as a guy just looking for something casual? What am I doing wrong?
Thank you.
GC has helped me achieve whatever I have until now. It's been a very significant change and I've always wanted to ask, from my humble beginnings in this journey, along which, things changed a lot!
So here goes; How do I stop the girls I meet from falling in "love" with me and just go along with me for a fun ride, ending in intimacy?
This is not a single experience, we're talking 4-5 times in the past two months doing social circle game. (I'm about to graduate from high school, have exams lined up, so have been indoors for almost 3 months straight)
Within hours of beginning chatting, I start getting very "in love" sorta vibes and they also go cold if I fail to reply to these girls, which only leads to me not replying even further because I don't want to back this behavior up, and because it feels like work. All the fun, vanished into thin air.
I do state very well in the beginning of the interaction that I'm not looking for a relationship, because the last one I had really exhausted me, all to no avail! When in person I even escalate quickly, doesn't work!
I think I'm giving off the boyfriend vibe, but no idea where from.
I do want you guys to know that we're basically dealing with girls in the 16-18 age group (I'm turning 18 this yr).
So how do I come of as a guy just looking for something casual? What am I doing wrong?
Thank you.
