@Alpha13SC This was good but a little too advanced for me right now
stopped having vaginal and only has clitoral orgasms?
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I tried a few of these things, all good fun.
I've since made her cum vaginally a bit more regular, like once a week at this point so the obsession is gone lol now that i've done it. Ironically now that i'm less obsessed, its happening more frequently.
Sex god, I feel like i've got D,E, and V down in DEVI. My immersion sucks sometimes- I'm bad at keeping immersion for both her and i but something I'm definitely trying to get better at
I'm 5'9.5", shes 5'6.5" so a 3 inch height difference.
I think its more about the shape of your dick, mines straight so i find shallow and deep thrusts (alternating at first and then switching only to deep as I see her getting more turned on) at an angle with pillows under her ass works best for me.
Giving another update here!
So I've given her about 6 vaginal orgasms in May (don't remember the exact number). It's happening at least once a week at this point. However, they're still not to the intensity they were when she was 15-17. I have her rate the intensity later on every time she has a vaginal orgasm. It's gone from 50% to 60% to now sitting at 70%.
Takeaway:
Vaginal orgasms come from either stimulating her mind, a trance, or a mix of both ideally. Some examples:
a) I made her cum vaginally in literally under a minute the other day. How? After maybe about 5-10 minutes of foreplay, I started tying her up. Had her legs tied up in the air (using some bed straps I love using) and then tied her wrists to her ankles. Then blindfolded her. Started fucking her and she told me to choke her. I must have fucked her like this for not even a minute and out of no where she had an orgasm. No trance involved, just pure stimulation of the mind.
b) This one was with my fingers but we went to the beach with another couple about a week and a half ago. Pretty much were teasing each other all day, getting hornier throughout the course of the day. At one point I took her to my car and she blew me and I fingered her. Still no release. Finally got home at the end of the day, straight into the bedroom. Fingered her and licked her clit for like 5 minutes and she then proceeded to have the "longest" orgasm of her life. It was a blended clitoral and vaginal orgasm. Described it like she was at the peak but not going right over for a solid 3 minutes and then finally released.
Going to be putting focus back on the whole experience rather than just vaginal orgasms. Putting focus solely on vaginal orgasms has been ironically taking away from her having vaginal orgasms.
So I've given her about 6 vaginal orgasms in May (don't remember the exact number). It's happening at least once a week at this point. However, they're still not to the intensity they were when she was 15-17. I have her rate the intensity later on every time she has a vaginal orgasm. It's gone from 50% to 60% to now sitting at 70%.
Takeaway:
Vaginal orgasms come from either stimulating her mind, a trance, or a mix of both ideally. Some examples:
a) I made her cum vaginally in literally under a minute the other day. How? After maybe about 5-10 minutes of foreplay, I started tying her up. Had her legs tied up in the air (using some bed straps I love using) and then tied her wrists to her ankles. Then blindfolded her. Started fucking her and she told me to choke her. I must have fucked her like this for not even a minute and out of no where she had an orgasm. No trance involved, just pure stimulation of the mind.
b) This one was with my fingers but we went to the beach with another couple about a week and a half ago. Pretty much were teasing each other all day, getting hornier throughout the course of the day. At one point I took her to my car and she blew me and I fingered her. Still no release. Finally got home at the end of the day, straight into the bedroom. Fingered her and licked her clit for like 5 minutes and she then proceeded to have the "longest" orgasm of her life. It was a blended clitoral and vaginal orgasm. Described it like she was at the peak but not going right over for a solid 3 minutes and then finally released.
Going to be putting focus back on the whole experience rather than just vaginal orgasms. Putting focus solely on vaginal orgasms has been ironically taking away from her having vaginal orgasms.
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You guys know of any "method" to finding out what types of kinks turn a girl on? Should I just research different ones and start slowly trying them out with her? (on a LTR, I mean, over a long period of time, though I imagine you can do this on a much smaller scale with a random girl on a single session, and maybe it would be a cool skill to have)
^ this should be automatic if you have done things right, the girl should know you are not judgmental secret society sexual dude, and she is free to open up sexually... Once this happens you start asking her, have you been with 2 guys, have you been with a girl etc... no one after another but when she answers your body language and micro expressions should be exitment of whatever she tells you and curiosity, as she answers you reward with excitement.... If she is holding info. you will tell by her micro expressions, encourage her to not hold back and open up...
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Ooh nice stuff, sometimes I get a bit too excited about the sex itself and leave this "allowing the girl to feel free sexually" on the background, I think I need to focus on this more to have better sex, specially with my girl
when you get a chance read this heskillsmethod.com/simple-ways-to-get-a-threesome/ so you can get a sense of how i do stuff like what you are asking for, it can be applied to any kink...