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Story Time: This is happening in Central London UK
My first aid qualification expired and my new employer requires every employee to be certified so they booked me for training. We're a class of 10 people and a girl(24 years old) comes in 2min late. She's hands down the most physically attractive girl I've seen in person. Mind you she wasn't dressed up as it's a first-aid-at-work course so she was wearing a baseball hat, jeans and blouse and converse shoes. I don't imagine how she looks when she's wearing fancy clothes, shoes and makeup.
However, I'm not interested as I'm focused on getting my training done. All the other guys are gawking, trying to chat her up and state how impressive they are. I, on the other hand, I'm paying attention and learning to refresh my skills, not speaking to her, not paying her attention(not on purpose just not interested).
Every 4-5 minutes I can see her turning back to stare at me (she was sitting directly in front of me) but I didn't return her gaze just minding my business. This happened 10-15 times over the course of the day.
Later on, we had practical sessions (CPR, Defibrillator, etc) and while paired up she sat opposite where I was sitting on the floor and would stare at me and at times I'd look her in the eyes and not break eye contact and we'd just look into each other's eyes for what felt like an eternity but in reality was probably 10 seconds. This happened 6-7 times in the span of 30min.
But again I was minding my training and focusing on it. I could notice her getting restless and stretching herself on the floor being playful, leaning over a bit too much so I can see down her blouse, etc and as a whole staring at me while I wasn't paying attention to her.
Mind you I'm not dressed flashy just a jogger and hoodie. Looks wise I'd say I'm an 8.5 to 9 when I've washed my hair and groomed my beard, and this girl is a proper 10. Later she chatted with me and I found out she's a legit model appearing in fashion magazines and teaches yoga in some posh club (ergo the need to renew her first aid qualifications). I did not pay her attention, did not compliment her and would treat her exactly like the other women, men and tutors - like a normal person.
Anyways day one finished and I get on the tube and she was right there with the other two guys who were trying to chat her up. She made a space for me to sit next to her while the other guys were opposite her. I was minding my business and she was constantly chatting with me, asking me what I do, telling me about herself, etc. I wasn't too engaged as I was super tired. She only talked to me while ignoring the other two guys and whenever there would be silence I'd just chill, say nothing and she would start talking and asking me questions.
One thing I didn't like (and this is a personal pet peeve if I'm talking to someone and I can see their phone at all I get really annoyed) so I notice a couple of times she was holding her phone and just randomly scrolling her photos/videos.
I tell her she's being rude being on her phone while we're talking and she gets more nervous and starts apologising for insulting me, that she didn't mean it like that, etc. As she's talking my stop comes so I get up to leave, turn away and tell the other two guys "Goodbye". I can hear her saying "Goodbye, it was nice talking, I'll see you tomorrow". However, I don't respond and just leave.
Now in hindsight I see that she wasn't rude she was nervous and fidgeting with her phone. And she was scrolling through her photos as we were talking about the yoga class she was teaching and she was probably looking for a video to show me as I asked her what the class is like.
I'm sharing this story because in the past I've been dumb-struck by attractive women, get nervous, sweaty, etc. Yet today I felt 0% anxiety or intimidation.
Yes, she's the most attractive woman I've interacted with yet nothing. I was not interested in pursuing her, trying to impress her, chatting her up. I was there to get my qualifications up to date. Yet she could not stop staring at me and trying to get my attention and chatting me up while I wasn't interested. And on the tube ride home she was actually nervous talking to me and I could see her staring at my lips while I was talking and fidgeting with her hair.
Mind you I wasn't dressed up, even my hair was unwashed and my beard was not trimmed. Overall I looked like I just rolled out of bed. Because that's exactly what I did - woke up late put on a jogger, a wrinkled t-shirt and got on my way.
I bet it was the first time a guy didn't pay attention to her, was not impressed and didn't try to hit on her and was zero intimidated by her. Instead treated her like any other person in the room. Literally like I would treat an old fat guy.
And I genuinely did not want anything from her. Didn't want to date her, to have sex with her. I was just tired and sleepy there to get my certification and go home. But inadvertently stumbled upon the secret to attracting models:
1. Don't be impressed by her looks
2. Treat her like a normal human being. Like you'd treat anyone else
3. Don't pay attention to her and mind your business
4. Don't try to pick her up or impress her
5. Have no fear - she's a human being just like you
I will be seeing her tomorrow the whole day and I'm thinking of asking her out. I did enjoy talking to her and she was quite intelligent and playful and I did like that she apologised for insulting me by playing with her phone while talking.
My first aid qualification expired and my new employer requires every employee to be certified so they booked me for training. We're a class of 10 people and a girl(24 years old) comes in 2min late. She's hands down the most physically attractive girl I've seen in person. Mind you she wasn't dressed up as it's a first-aid-at-work course so she was wearing a baseball hat, jeans and blouse and converse shoes. I don't imagine how she looks when she's wearing fancy clothes, shoes and makeup.
However, I'm not interested as I'm focused on getting my training done. All the other guys are gawking, trying to chat her up and state how impressive they are. I, on the other hand, I'm paying attention and learning to refresh my skills, not speaking to her, not paying her attention(not on purpose just not interested).
Every 4-5 minutes I can see her turning back to stare at me (she was sitting directly in front of me) but I didn't return her gaze just minding my business. This happened 10-15 times over the course of the day.
Later on, we had practical sessions (CPR, Defibrillator, etc) and while paired up she sat opposite where I was sitting on the floor and would stare at me and at times I'd look her in the eyes and not break eye contact and we'd just look into each other's eyes for what felt like an eternity but in reality was probably 10 seconds. This happened 6-7 times in the span of 30min.
But again I was minding my training and focusing on it. I could notice her getting restless and stretching herself on the floor being playful, leaning over a bit too much so I can see down her blouse, etc and as a whole staring at me while I wasn't paying attention to her.
Mind you I'm not dressed flashy just a jogger and hoodie. Looks wise I'd say I'm an 8.5 to 9 when I've washed my hair and groomed my beard, and this girl is a proper 10. Later she chatted with me and I found out she's a legit model appearing in fashion magazines and teaches yoga in some posh club (ergo the need to renew her first aid qualifications). I did not pay her attention, did not compliment her and would treat her exactly like the other women, men and tutors - like a normal person.
Anyways day one finished and I get on the tube and she was right there with the other two guys who were trying to chat her up. She made a space for me to sit next to her while the other guys were opposite her. I was minding my business and she was constantly chatting with me, asking me what I do, telling me about herself, etc. I wasn't too engaged as I was super tired. She only talked to me while ignoring the other two guys and whenever there would be silence I'd just chill, say nothing and she would start talking and asking me questions.
One thing I didn't like (and this is a personal pet peeve if I'm talking to someone and I can see their phone at all I get really annoyed) so I notice a couple of times she was holding her phone and just randomly scrolling her photos/videos.
I tell her she's being rude being on her phone while we're talking and she gets more nervous and starts apologising for insulting me, that she didn't mean it like that, etc. As she's talking my stop comes so I get up to leave, turn away and tell the other two guys "Goodbye". I can hear her saying "Goodbye, it was nice talking, I'll see you tomorrow". However, I don't respond and just leave.
Now in hindsight I see that she wasn't rude she was nervous and fidgeting with her phone. And she was scrolling through her photos as we were talking about the yoga class she was teaching and she was probably looking for a video to show me as I asked her what the class is like.
I'm sharing this story because in the past I've been dumb-struck by attractive women, get nervous, sweaty, etc. Yet today I felt 0% anxiety or intimidation.
Yes, she's the most attractive woman I've interacted with yet nothing. I was not interested in pursuing her, trying to impress her, chatting her up. I was there to get my qualifications up to date. Yet she could not stop staring at me and trying to get my attention and chatting me up while I wasn't interested. And on the tube ride home she was actually nervous talking to me and I could see her staring at my lips while I was talking and fidgeting with her hair.
Mind you I wasn't dressed up, even my hair was unwashed and my beard was not trimmed. Overall I looked like I just rolled out of bed. Because that's exactly what I did - woke up late put on a jogger, a wrinkled t-shirt and got on my way.
I bet it was the first time a guy didn't pay attention to her, was not impressed and didn't try to hit on her and was zero intimidated by her. Instead treated her like any other person in the room. Literally like I would treat an old fat guy.
And I genuinely did not want anything from her. Didn't want to date her, to have sex with her. I was just tired and sleepy there to get my certification and go home. But inadvertently stumbled upon the secret to attracting models:
1. Don't be impressed by her looks
2. Treat her like a normal human being. Like you'd treat anyone else
3. Don't pay attention to her and mind your business
4. Don't try to pick her up or impress her
5. Have no fear - she's a human being just like you
I will be seeing her tomorrow the whole day and I'm thinking of asking her out. I did enjoy talking to her and she was quite intelligent and playful and I did like that she apologised for insulting me by playing with her phone while talking.
