FU Straight Asking Girls Home

[Reave Krieger]

I went out during daytime with the aim to ask the first three (3) woman I meet straight to come home with me (only for warm-up).
Or at least something like:

Me: "Do you come with me?"
Her: "Where?"
Me: "To my place?"
Her: "Ehm. NO?!"
Me: "Why not?"

and so on...

I couldn't do it. It felt too heavy as the first thing to say to a strange woman :/

Later in a club I wanted to trade numbers with a girl who was with her female friend. She didn't want to. I persistet - no chance. Her first excuse: "I don't know my number". So I gave her my number and told her to call me so that I had hers, too. She said she would call me later. Haha. Rejection

 

[Skid]

Hey dude ,

I remember I saw a video on youtube of a guy doing just that : "guy asks 100 girls for sex". I believe there was one girl out of the 100 that blushes and got really flustered and replies "I'm not that easy". If you're on your own and you haven't down anything like direct approaching chances are you are going to going chicken out and that's normal. Most guys wouldn't even consider trying it.

This could help : viewtopic.php?f=4&t=13205

Its usually best if you go for baby steps try giving girls compliments or opening indirectly then try something ballsy like that once you have social momentum (you need the momentum if you haven't done it before). It seems as tho you know its only for warm up but just don't expect anything come from straight up asking girls for sex.

Skid

 

[Reave Krieger]

Hey Skid,

Thanks for your reply and advice.

I know this video the purpose for me to do this is not only for warm up but also so that I have some rejections under my belt so I get used to that. And doing sth that ballsy, any kind of approach you do afterwards will feel like a breeze. That's why I wanted to do it before having social momentum built up...

Fooling one's own mind is indeed a helpful strategy

 

[Lawliet]

Not sure if it's a good strategy, it leads to burn outs.

To warm up better, get good responses.
Approach with intent to win, and nothing to lose, instead of doing things that you KNOW will lose and do it for warm up anyway.
That said, do these quick pulls with intent of winning after knowing how it works only

Lawliet

 

[Reave Krieger]

Lawliet, thanks for your reply.

You might be right that it can lead to burn out. But I didn't figure this technique out myself. I read it in an article from GC...

It could actually work as a warm up just like dancing in the street or whining like a wolf. Just doing something very embarrassing so that everything is easy after that.

Unfortunately I don't know in which article that was. But I think it wasn't from Chase.

As I didn't manage to ask a single girl "do you come home with me?" right away I can't really tell if it does something good for me or something bad...