Street Smart 2.0 ,To all my Western friends, PLEASE READ THIS!

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

Apparently all the guys i know here are from the US. Just recently i noted a post and Zphiz or Z Vaunswa was mentioning with Ryan about involving in a robbery in another country. I know that most people in Asia think men in US or Western are direct, "strong" because of eye contact. Most of you guys are considered "orthodox"/straightforward, and if you guys see a robbery, the chances of you probably jump straight into the clash is more compared to Asians.

But anyway whether that is accurate or not, Tell me, but here's the thing, "Other Countries are unorthodox."

They are not as "straight forward" as it is. Given an example i know of, There are some parts of China where people are being involved in accidents and no one help them. Why? Because there's a lot of hit and run cases there and victims have put the person who help them as "responsible" for the accident.

Surprise? Yeap, In India, if you a girl, they rape and beat the shit out of you, and recently it was in a bus where a girl died because some guy stick a pole up her vagina hitting her stomach. Why? Because sexual repression there is so high, and women there in a way are not so responsive to the men there either. I know it walks a shady line, where you want to help a fellow human, but there are just places where you can't really help. There are places where you go and if you donate money to them, everyone flocks onto you, and they are aggressive.

Yeap, We not the West. I am not from the West, although i am in a place where i am not as "bad" as some parts near my country. We not orthodox. and for some of my neighboring countries, they do some crazy things once in a blue moon, like jacking people cars in broad day light with family members inside.

You want to be aware at least. and yea, Chase has noted himself, to know the culture there, Have a friend that knows the place/country/island. IT will help.

Zac

 

[Ryan]

Thanks Zac,

So, you're saying that they don't help others as a precaution? In other words, they're too suspicious that the ones they help could be a bad person?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Ryan,

So, you're saying that they don't help others as a precaution? In other words, they're too suspicious that the ones they help could be a bad person?

In China, i have had videos shown by friends where victims of an accident were not help by passerby because in some parts of China, the victims will put the blame on the helper as to gain insurance money and wrong doing. This is what i learn. The victim have no idea who run them over, and instead pick the helper, which can be you as insurance for the accident.

My message is "Don't be so eager to apply your rules, etiquette in another man's country". You will do better understanding how the culture works, and adjust a slight bit.

Zac

 

[Prehistoric]

I am western european and had a asian girlfriend (born in Asia, not Europe or America).

I don't know if she's representative of asian girls in general, but I can tell you that all sex-related things (from eye-contact to making out to preliminaries to intercourse) were a much bigger deal for her than they are for an average western girl. I had to work twice longer and twice as hard to get the same results I get with a average european girl.

Anyway this may also be due to my inexperience with this culture. Maybe there are ways to get things faster and easier with asian girls, if you know them, feel free to share!

Of course things change radically when girls are of asian background but born/raised in Europe.

 

[metomeya]

I think in America, people will help if the person is in a situation where they really need it. But we have so much faith in the system we don't bother.

When I see an accident, there are already cops at the scene. The system is always improving for efficiency and effectiveness. So many activists here calling for it. Also things are done by the book.

I know someone will point out injustices showed by the media. But that is the thing, when things aren't done by the book, or done badly, it is quickly in the public eye. Plus, everyone is so sue happy here, it has to be done by the book.

The only time things aren't the way they should be is when it involves money for the state. For example, I tapped this guys' bumper (left no damage to my car, but barely nicked him) he called the copes. The copes fined me nearly 400 dollars! WTF? I went to the judge and he reduced it but I still had to pay over $150. I would appeal but that would cost even more money. Is it really to punish me, or is it to raise money for the state? I think the latter. Also, if you call the cops on a domestic assault someone will be going to jail that night. Why? Cause if anything happens between the people involved later that night, they could sue for big money the state for not preventing it.

But if someone is straight up lying just to get money (like the lady who put a human finger in her chili at Wendys) usually get caught in time. Again, I think people have faith in the system and want justice. You think OJ's heavy sentence had nothing to do with him getting away with murder?

So, if someone in America got sued for helping someone after an auto accident, ya it might happen, but I doubt the person will win. You see a lot of countersues here to try to bluff people out of suing even though the countersuer are in the wrong. It doesn't work.

Now if some little kid is being taken advantage of by someone. Ya, we would probably get involved. Just watch "What Would You Do?" There is also a funny scene in "Bad Grandpa"

Sure you sure your video isn't being blown out of proportion like we do here in the US?

 

[trashKENNUT]

PrehistoricMan,

Anyway this may also be due to my inexperience with this culture. Maybe there are ways to get things faster and easier with asian girls, if you know them, feel free to share!

Compared to other PUA stuff i come across, Girlschase is almost or i would say, universal. I can honestly say this from

1) Younger women
2) Text messages
3) Fundamentals
4) Older women
5) Auto rejection

Practically almost on a lot of things.

For asian girls, i would say you should dial up comfort and reassurance, although you must be aware some Asian girls will play up the "conservative society" role, where they make you think that they conservative. I mean as a girl, if the environment helps you gain orbiters, why not? Free transport, food and drinks, potential husband along the way. Not judging. There will always be adjustments here and there depending on culture and how well are you receive, this is what i believe.

Anyway, i actually had a comment with Chase a long time ago on Western women and Asia here. Read the excerpt below.

"Chase wrote:
2 partners in an entire year... that puts it in some crazy perspective. A lot of guys hear a girl's been with 30 guys, and say, "Whoa! That's a lot." Then they hear she's only slept with 2 guys this year, and they say, "Eh, that's nothing!"

It's REALLY hard to get accurate numbers, but my guess for the average college-educated girl who goes on to have her own career is probably somewhere between 15 and 35 partners lifetime in this day and age, unless she's a serial monogamist and has lots of long-term boyfriends. Most girls in the West go through stints where they're in committed relationships for 2 or 3 years, and then they break up and go out and sleep with 5 or 6 guys in a 6- to 8-month period.

Zac wrote:
In Asia here, I would like to mention, according to my observation, An average girl who is married for here, is a diploma student and graduate at the age of 20, some taking their university and finish at the age of 24 or 25, most of them gets married at about 25 or 26, and for university graduate for that matter, around 32.

the diploma student have an average sex life, about 5 partners, and her additional 'forgotten past' (which an article you wrote, and i found it to be well regarded because i see it happen during relationships in friends and facebook, people, given the chance to flirt, they will take the best 'pie' out there.) are about four to five, I would say more. The university graduate would be more likely to have lesser partners and more of her 'forgotten past', casual flings and sex due to studies and Asian Parents i would say.

In Asia, likely the numbers are about to 10 to 25. "

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

metomeya,

So, if someone in America got sued for helping someone after an auto accident, ya it might happen, but I doubt the person will win. You see a lot of countersues here to try to bluff people out of suing even though the countersuer are in the wrong. It doesn't work.

Now if some little kid is being taken advantage of by someone. Ya, we would probably get involved. Just watch "What Would You Do?" There is also a funny scene in "Bad Grandpa"

Sure you sure your video isn't being blown out of proportion like we do here in the US?

The possibility of things blown out of proportion is always there, definitely. I know you guys have those "Illuminati" videos blown out of proportion, too, not just in the US but everywhere. Anyway, I would not say this as a total fact, because i have not travelled there, and i haven't encounter such cases myself. That's the reality of the world. While we believe that we can win a lawsuit, and maybe we can, i believe it's really a waste of time, especially if you're a foreigner who just didn't know what's he doing in another man's country. IT's like getting into a fight because you never bow in a "respected" place.

and why would their government defend you? Not all countries are "nice", like granting asylums and escaping from military prison like N.Korea!

So in a way, it's a bit messy, We all are idiots sometimes, for not accepting different cultures and religions in this world.

Zac

 

[metomeya]

Ya, honestly traveling to other countries freak me out since I don't know the law and cultures.

Even traveling between states freaks me out sometimes. Why? Cause each state laws are different and you can't plead ignorance (they might factor it in with your sentencing but if there is a mandatory minimum you are shit out of luck). For example, the blood alcoholic content limit for DUI is mostly 0.08, but some states have a zero tolerance (not even one sip if you are driving) if you meet certain criteria.

That said, some cops know the laws and are trying to put good people in jail (I think they get off by scaring someone for life especially if they have a good one). Even if it is over some stupid technicality. I just worry that I could face the same situation in other countries.

Sure, if I got sentenced to 6 months or more over something stupid, my government might step in, but for a few days they could probably care less. But I wouldn't want that on my conscience.

 

[flowerpower]

I don't know if this is to the point but in my experience Asian girls are not that shy or unresponsive. When I was in China and Korea I've had a number of girls tell me flat out they thought I was handsome and stuff, which very, very seldom happened in the West (at least with me, and that's part of the reason I didn't believe those girls at the time and still have doubts). They look down, and giggle a lot, but they're actually much more straightforward. But then I also had a bunch of Korean guys make fun of me because I'd cheek-kiss girls when introducing myself. Maybe it's Asian men make it difficult for them...

 

[trashKENNUT]

flowerpower,

I don't know if this is to the point but in my experience Asian girls are not that shy or unresponsive. When I was in China and Korea I've had a number of girls tell me flat out they thought I was handsome and stuff, which very, very seldom happened in the West (at least with me, and that's part of the reason I didn't believe those girls at the time and still have doubts). They look down, and giggle a lot, but they're actually much more straightforward. But then I also had a bunch of Korean guys make fun of me because I'd cheek-kiss girls when introducing myself. Maybe it's Asian men make it difficult for them...

Fundamentals makes shy and unresponsive girls works just harder to make you notice them. :X

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Travel Safety if you travel to North Korea.

Don't say sensitive things like national security, or don't travel there if you are an army veteran.

http://edition.cnn.com/2013/12/07/world ... an-newman/

Zac

 

[Desert Eagle]

Travel Safety if you travel to North Korea.

Bad idea to go to a place where you aren't welcome, period. If people don't like you for a certain reason, such as being a different race, then you probably shouldn't travel to such an area. Other countries are definitely vastly different from each other. The same street smarts you have in America may be null and void in China or India.

It really comes down to how the person feels about the situation. If they want to do what they believe to be the best thing to do in such a situation, then they'll do it. If a guy believes that men shouldn't hit women and will stop him, then that's his agenda. Unfortunately, they may be surprised to learn that sometimes this is not the desired result that the woman was even looking for, and it may leave her worse off than before. Nothing defines this better in popular culture than the superhero culture. Heroes often shoot first, ask questions later. Only to realize that they've made their job harder, and their actions, while seeming morally righteous at the time, have actually lead to the detriment of their goals.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Desert Eagle,

It really comes down to how the person feels about the situation. If they want to do what they believe to be the best thing to do in such a situation, then they'll do it. If a guy believes that men shouldn't hit women and will stop him, then that's his agenda. Unfortunately, they may be surprised to learn that sometimes this is not the desired result that the woman was even looking for, and it may leave her worse off than before. Nothing defines this better in popular culture than the superhero culture. Heroes often shoot first, ask questions later. Only to realize that they've made their job harder, and their actions, while seeming morally righteous at the time, have actually lead to the detriment of their goals.

Interesting thoughts. Actually when you noted that sentence where "they made their job harder", it makes me think of life where you make things difficult. I firmly believe today emotions are nothing more than streams of water.

Give you an example

IF a guy who is up and coming and feels he is the best when his actions and experience hasn't catch up with him yet, he looks retarded when he conditions himself by telling everyone he is the best. So what does one do when you are young and ambitious and tries to do everything or when you old and you think that everything is well for you even when your area of things you do is going inaccurate and lacking?

By learning to channel your energy (emotions) correctly, and thus you be learning faster, and you be better faster. By understanding what your emotions is and using knowledge to direct it since knowledge is just a point to point stature, thus creates manifestation and it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy until there's a mistake when the manifestation is inaccurate, and thus you adjust or put in new thoughts and it starts the generator(brain) again.

My thoughts,

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Travelling to Dubai, United Arab Emirates (UAE) or any middle eastern countries.

Recently i caught up some expats being arrested for having sex on the beach, drunk and sex on taxis. It's important to know that Dubai is the least most implemented of Islamic Laws.

In fact, i catch up on some expat forums.

They noted that it is not as extreme as Saudi Arabia BUt just "don't test the system". Means don't do over excessive public displays of affection. But they have laws there, abit too hard for some Western people to adapt. It's good to check out laws before you travel. Nevertheless, the nightlife there is crazy, as i watch some youtube videos. Even Russell Peters (comedian) noted this.

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

HI Guys,

http://www.lonelyplanet.com/travel-tips-and-articles/76192

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

You might want to tell your girl friends this.

http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/julia-rosi ... 58054.html

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

Don't try to arrest or be a hero in somebody elses country. Check your surroundings first. HAHA! Enjoy.

Rush Hour 2 Spa Scene

Enjoy this.

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

For Asians

Last five to ten years, during the early to mid 2000, There was a lot of "Asian hating" in Australia. Beating people up and worse was burning an Asian restaurant. So i am not sure how Australia is this days.

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

hello,

To those in China, right now. There's a second accident. People die of stupid things all the time, one says.

Take note.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eeOrMecRfL8 (Woman falls to her death in escalator accident in China)

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

Girlschase Community Travelling Nuggets

Hi Guys,

For those in Bangkok, Thailand.

Careful guys. Explosions

Zac