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Hi everybody,
I'm in my late 20s and about 10 years ago I lost about 60lbs. Last year I had an abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) to get rid of the excess skin around my abdomen and liposuction to get rid of the fat deposits that exercise couldn't get rid of. Unfortunately, I have stretch marks on my abdomen that cannot go away.
So, I'm left with stretch marks on my abdomen and a huge scar that goes from one side of my flanks to the other (above my pubic hair) and this scar is not noticeable if I have my boxers on. But when I take them off, it's noticeable UNLESS it's dark (like when I bring a girl to bed).
However, how do I deal with this when it comes to being a sexual man? I can't even take my shirt off in a hot tub/pool setting or at the beach. It's really messing with me because I'm in great shape (I'm pretty muscular and lean now) and I have what most people would call an attractive face. I don't feel comfortable bedding women in the day or when there's lots of light.
I'm in my late 20s and about 10 years ago I lost about 60lbs. Last year I had an abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) to get rid of the excess skin around my abdomen and liposuction to get rid of the fat deposits that exercise couldn't get rid of. Unfortunately, I have stretch marks on my abdomen that cannot go away.
So, I'm left with stretch marks on my abdomen and a huge scar that goes from one side of my flanks to the other (above my pubic hair) and this scar is not noticeable if I have my boxers on. But when I take them off, it's noticeable UNLESS it's dark (like when I bring a girl to bed).
However, how do I deal with this when it comes to being a sexual man? I can't even take my shirt off in a hot tub/pool setting or at the beach. It's really messing with me because I'm in great shape (I'm pretty muscular and lean now) and I have what most people would call an attractive face. I don't feel comfortable bedding women in the day or when there's lots of light.
