Strong, Silent Type: Being strong or being creepy?

[Tramp]

How do you become the strong, silent type instead of just a quiet guy?

I have tried to be the strong, silent type guy, and I had a handle on it at first, but then it just ended up changing my personality from the fun, easy going cocky guy, to a very quiet guy. I don't like this personality shift, and want to know what to tweak. What are some tips, or a list of things that make a guy the strong, silent type instead of a simple quiet guy?

 

[Anonymous]

What I find to be the biggest differentiating factor between someone who you'd call a 'strong, silent type' and just the average, creepy or unassuming quiet guy is his vibe, body language and facial expressiveness (absolutely crucial).

What often I've observed goes in hand in hand with quiet guys who are creepy is that they are awkward in their body language, movements, facial expressions, etc. They don't move fluidly, they don't make great eye contact, their body is stiff... the list is long. The difference with the strong silent type is that he may be a man of few words, but he is speaks with his body and his presence. He has a powerful walk, strong body language. He makes excellent eye contact with people. He has a sexy smile or smirk, knows how to express himself with minimalism. Doing more with less.

While verbal content might be scarce with the strong, silent type, his powerful nonverbals and facial expressions do so much more... Powerful while seeming effortless. He can play with sexual tension as if it were on a yo-yo. He is comfortable with silence, whereas the quiet guy is usually looking down, with a scared or frozen face, showing no emotion and generating positive or awkward vibes which naturally put women, not at ease, but rather discomfort to say the least. And when you have all that powerful nonverbal communication going on, every word this kind of man speaks, you can be sure a woman is captivated from the get go and will hang on to his every word like gospel...