Hi Beginner here
the story on how I missed out on two girls in one night
The first girl I met a week earlier at the bar. I was just standing by the wall waiting for my Uber to pick me up for the night. then she walk up to me and said something like "you look like you wanted to talk to me." I said something stupid like "I wasn't trying to talk but now that we are how are you doing" stupid I know. Then we had a brief conversation (like under 2 minutes). after words she said she had to meet her friend. when I got home I knew I struck out and thought i should be more sexual in a conversation because its seems like I'm framing myself more of a "nice guy" type. Anyway going into today I would at least try to move things faster.
When the night began I saw girl 1 and I ignore her because I figure since I struck out last week and it no use to try again. Then when I was sitting on the table she came sat across from me. she said something to me first then ask "are you enjoying your night" she said. I said "yes I am what about you" "no not really" she said "is there anything I could do to make your night more fun" I said. "no not really" she said. "my friend is over there I'm going to hang out with her" she said. "you don't have to leave so soon" I said "no I got to go". Then she walk away.
not even 5 minutes later another girl starting talking to me. She was with her best friend and said to me that she like my jacket. We started talking she ask a little about me before I started to deep dive. Found out that she in college and that she has family in the state I grew up at. Then I said something similar to what I said to girl 1. Something like "anything I could do to make you night more enjoyable" can't quite remember but it was something along those lines. then another guy just starting talking to me while I was taking to girl 2. it was only for a few seconds but afterword girl 2 started to walk away with her girlfriend. The guy said "I'm sorry didn't mean to make you lose the girl" I knew he wasn't sorry but I said " it's okay I think I was losing her anyway". So I went home tonight with nobody.
I need your guys help. I need you to break down everything I'm doing wrong and how can I improve and get better?
the story on how I missed out on two girls in one night
The first girl I met a week earlier at the bar. I was just standing by the wall waiting for my Uber to pick me up for the night. then she walk up to me and said something like "you look like you wanted to talk to me." I said something stupid like "I wasn't trying to talk but now that we are how are you doing" stupid I know. Then we had a brief conversation (like under 2 minutes). after words she said she had to meet her friend. when I got home I knew I struck out and thought i should be more sexual in a conversation because its seems like I'm framing myself more of a "nice guy" type. Anyway going into today I would at least try to move things faster.
When the night began I saw girl 1 and I ignore her because I figure since I struck out last week and it no use to try again. Then when I was sitting on the table she came sat across from me. she said something to me first then ask "are you enjoying your night" she said. I said "yes I am what about you" "no not really" she said "is there anything I could do to make your night more fun" I said. "no not really" she said. "my friend is over there I'm going to hang out with her" she said. "you don't have to leave so soon" I said "no I got to go". Then she walk away.
not even 5 minutes later another girl starting talking to me. She was with her best friend and said to me that she like my jacket. We started talking she ask a little about me before I started to deep dive. Found out that she in college and that she has family in the state I grew up at. Then I said something similar to what I said to girl 1. Something like "anything I could do to make you night more enjoyable" can't quite remember but it was something along those lines. then another guy just starting talking to me while I was taking to girl 2. it was only for a few seconds but afterword girl 2 started to walk away with her girlfriend. The guy said "I'm sorry didn't mean to make you lose the girl" I knew he wasn't sorry but I said " it's okay I think I was losing her anyway". So I went home tonight with nobody.
I need your guys help. I need you to break down everything I'm doing wrong and how can I improve and get better?
