Stuck in the just getting numbers phase, need advice.

[brandoan95]

What's up gents

So basically for the past month or so i've been stuck. My game has gotten to the point where I can get IOI alot since my fundamentals are on point. My confidence is all there for the most part. I'm not afraid to approach and try closing for the # (however sometimes with the extremely hot/sexy girl I hesitate and don't approach from time to time.) I get #'s fairly consistently from all girls (black,white, latina), however either they don't respond or If they do it leads nowhere. My sexual vibe is much better than before. I flirt and challenge much more and girls are more turned on but it hasn't gone anywhere.

I would really appreciate what I'm doing wrong with these girls and why I'm not getting more dates/hookups.

I'll say since 2017 started I've gotten maybe 25-30 #'s yet have been on 3 or 4 dates, mostly with girls who I don't find super attractive. Let me know what you guys did to get past this stage.

 

[ProblemSolving]

Hey Brandoan,

Flakes are just part of the game my friend. Getting a phone number does NOT mean the girl is available and interested. However, if getting flakey numbers annoys you more than the validation you get from getting a number, then just screen the girls before asking for the number.

Asking them if they are single will screen out a lot of the false positives. For me personally, I'd rather a girl tell me upfront that she's not available, instead of wasting time and energy by finding out over text.

 

[Guest0291]

No such thing as a "getting numbers" phase/stage and no such thing as game. Also, should probably stop getting numbers from girls you are not attracted to.

As for your question: How are you getting these numbers? To narrow it down, how did you get the last 10 girls phone numbers? Was it approaching on the street or girls in a class of yours or a different scenario? This might help narrow down the problem.