Stuck on what to do now

[PilotPUA]

Hey guys! I've got a pretty basic question here, but could use some feedback...

So I was at a party today, and this girl out of the blue said she's into me. Right then, another guy walks in the room and I didn't have any opportunities later to chat with her. My question is, what do y'all do if someone says that to you? I know it's best not to explicitly say stuff like that, but I feel like an asshole ignoring her or not giving a real answer. Assuming I had more time in this situation and could have responded, is it best to confess or keep trying to send mixed signals, mysterious vibe, unclear intentions, etc?

Specifically to this situation, I won't see her again for a few days. My texting game sucks, and I much prefer doing all this in person, so I can't decide if I should text her, or ignore it all until I see her next and make a move then?

I know these are really beginner questions, but I appreciate the advice (especially since I've had similar situations a few times already). Thank you!

 

[mist]

If this happens get compliance and move fast.

Attraction has an expiration date, windows close, and women who are direct with you auto reject the hardest and are the easiest to scorn ( This is a generality of course, but it's what I've seen.)

" You seem alright yourself." with a smirk is fine.

Attempt to isolate and escalate by asking her to come with you right then and there or very soon in person.

She likes you so your biggest risk is over gaming her rather than focusing on isolating and escalating with her.

Text her for her availability and try to see her outside of social circle shit.

If you must wait or are not comfortable texting her at all simply setting up a date her attempt to get isolate her when you see her again or set this up in person.

Your only focus since she already likes you is getting her isolated, invested, and being a otherwise normal high value dude who likes to fuck.
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I know it's best not to explicitly say stuff like that, but I feel like an asshole ignoring her or not giving a real answer. Assuming I had more time in this situation and could have responded, is it best to confess or keep trying to send mixed signals, mysterious vibe, unclear intentions, etc?

This is my current understanding of game.

Your mentality is high risk for causing you to overgame and lose women.

Game is seasoning my friend. You must be a chef with its application because just as it can make a dish magical and amazing it can also ruin one.

1. Fundamentals. This is your base.
2. Social Life Of Abundance. This is where you showcase your base and opportunities present themself.
3. Game. This is where you capitalize on opportunities in your life and base.

Your fundamentals are fine enough for her to be attracted to you.

Your social life has put you in a position to meet women attracted to you.

Your game? We don't know. You say you are a beginner so it probably isn't masterful. Nor is mine. The only way to improve is to accept risk.

Don't ask us for permission right now.

Burn this set to the ground. You need to solidly get a grasp of where you need to improve. You're not advanced. You need to fall on your face to learn to walk.

Accept this might mean you don't get this particular girl, but I also hope you find peace in knowing there will be many other women. You don't need them all to have a fulfilling life with the opposite sex in whatever way you envision.

Get her availability, try to isolate her during the date (even if she denies the invite it's better to invite than not to), escalate during the date and especially if she isolates with you.

Keep this simple for as long as it can be.

Simple can and does get girls. Advanced can get more, but you gotta start somewhere.

Don't play it so cool or high value you aren't getting laid. (This isn't even advanced anyway)

Unless that's your goal. Is it?

 

[Derek da man]

If this happens get compliance and move fast.

Attraction has an expiration date, windows close, and women who are direct with you auto reject t

She likes you so your biggest risk is over gaming her rather than focusing on isolating and escalating with her.

Agree with this - I have missed so many opportunities by being too slow - I guess we all have lol

My advice is much the same as @Mist22 you should text her and set up a date/meeting
- think about logistics and moving her and being able to take her home or to hers for sex.
- keep texting short as per Chase's article on GC about texting - set up date but don't do chit chat, a little quick flirt to keep her interest but don't over do it

Get availability and arrange to meet, get compliance, move her and isolate, have or find an excuse to take her back to yours - job done. She's already set the start.

There's always a risk of failing but there is always a chance of success where as waiting will almost certainly result in failure which is the worst that could happen anyway. Take a risk and learn - even if it doesn't work this time you will learn so much by trying.

Good luck - let us know how it goes.

 

[POB]

Seems you already have her contact, which is great.
Best course of action (in that case) is to text directly for a meet:

- Hey X, it's Y, how is it going?
- Met my friend W today, he was at that party with me, remember?
- Anyway, I recall we met briefly there but never got the chance to talk a lot...so I was wondering if you wanna join me for a drink and some laughs this week after school/work.
- If so, hit me back with your schedule...but ONLY if you think this sounds like a dangerous idea (cause the world is not ready for us fire+devil+wink emoji)
- Have a great day!

If she complies, set up logistics.
If not, look for the latest @Skills posts on texting.
Good luck!

 

[PilotPUA]

Thanks guys! I definitely agree with Mist22's point about over-gaming... I can easily see myself doing that. I ended up texting her and we're going to meet up in a few days. We'll see what happens from there!

Tbh, I'm not sure how long I can get this one to last, since our relationship seems completely opposite to what I've learned on Girlschase. She's the Coxswain on my crew team, so she's been in control of most of our interactions until now. Additionally, we've already known each other for about a year through the team. I'm not super optimistic since it seems to go against my understanding of female phycology, but I'll give it my best shot