It had been a rough week. My child had been difficult while she was with me the previous 2 days, work was stressful with short staff and a boss who was micromanaging because he was shortsighted in his actions earlier. When Friday came I needed to blow off some steam. Despite the scattered rain, I laced up my running shoes, and pulled up the running playlist on my phone. 3 miles later I had a good sweat going, and I felt invigorated due to the exercise endorphins, and the post exercise shower. I decided to head down to the local roadhouse for a steak dinner and a quiet nightcap.
It's a party
I arrived to cars jamming the parking lot, and parked down the road on both sides. My sociability skyrocketed as I heard the band on the second floor playing and the hum of the crowd. I walked past the line of people waiting to be admitted to the second floor, and took a seat at the bar. On my left were a couple of Mexican 20 somethings and on my right, one of my customers. I ordered a drink, and soon after ordered a steak dinner. The next 30 minutes to an hour consisted of eating my dinner, chatting with customers, and neighbors and making eye contact with the cute bartender. One of my employees showed up, and a few more customers rolled through when the band took a break upstairs. One of my colleagues sons came by and invited me upstairs and even offered to pay my cover charge. I grabbed my drink and followed him upstairs. The lady taking the cover charge met my eye and said "you look familiar...". I introduced myself and mentioned my company and she reciprocated with her name and mentioned she was a client. My buddy then said "Dude, I already paid your cover, you don't have to flirt with the ticket lady!"
Maybe I'll just watch the band a bit
As we entered the second floor I scanned the crowd. I noticed a woman who I had met at the last place I'd seen this band. She had given me her number but I'd never called her. Tonight she never met my glance the whole night. She did not look happy the whole time. I chatted briefly with one of her 6 ft tall female friends but she didn't hook. I went on socializing with males and females alike, just people watching. The age range was from 75-21 with majority 21-30. There was maybe 50 people in the small room
Meeting and Seducing Blondie
An older female acquaintance came up with a younger slender blonde who was giving me quite direct eye contact. I introduced myself, and got the "You look familiar" line again. She followed with "Are you on Match?" I answered in the negative. So we began talking about our family names and she explained who her ex husband was. Turns out he is both a former neighbor and former company client. I danced with my two female friends (yes 2 on 1) when the band started back up, then the older one deftly abandoned Blondie in my care. At this point she volunteered "I think you better take my number." Throughout the rest of the evening I had my hand on the small of Blondie's back, and after a slow dance she met my lips with a kiss. My hand found it's way under her shirt, and I could NOT find any sign of underwear as I gently massaged her lower back and waistline, discreetly hidden under her jacket. I asked her at that point what her plans were after, and she said "I have to drive my friends home tonight" I pressed her to meet up after and she countered with, "No, but let's hang out tomorrow."
At this point it was after 1:00 am. I'd had 4 cocktails over 4 hours when I'd planned on one and done...I bid her goodbye with a deep and passionate kiss, and hoped I could text her and elicit a "Come on over" text after she dropped off her charges, as previous experiences had panned out.
She declined the text invite and texted back "I don't go to bars looking for sex" , as well as a few other statements that were very ASD in nature. I went home and got a few hours sleep before work the next morning.
The Next Morning
About 10 am I get a flirty text and invite to "hang out". At this point, I'm starting to feel a little guilty. I know this woman is looking for a boyfriend, and given our community connection, the possibility of a discrete rendezvous is next to nil. In retrospect, I realized I was letting my ego run my brain as I was flattered that she was enamored by my charm. I stewed on what my text response would be, and what the social implications would be. She reiterated her ASD stance and once more proposed we "hang out" that weekend. I knew I had to not let this go any further....With trembling hands, I texted back "I appreciate your invitation, but I'm afraid it is not in the cards" . She texted back 3 more times, reiterating her ASD stance. I did not respond.
Five Days Later....
I get a text..... "Hi" with a smiley. I did not respond.
Here's the lesson
If you hold a lover frame, with an older woman, she will either accept it or fight it. You do have to be sure she is attracted or else you are going to be considered a pushy harasser. I only propositioned her once, and she strenuously resisted. I never brought it up again. You might wonder why I would turn down a hangout with a hot, slender blonde. I actually have a 5 day stretch with another longer term guaranteed fuckfest coming to visit from out of town during holiday. I would say I'm trying to LSNFTEthis woman.
It's a party
I arrived to cars jamming the parking lot, and parked down the road on both sides. My sociability skyrocketed as I heard the band on the second floor playing and the hum of the crowd. I walked past the line of people waiting to be admitted to the second floor, and took a seat at the bar. On my left were a couple of Mexican 20 somethings and on my right, one of my customers. I ordered a drink, and soon after ordered a steak dinner. The next 30 minutes to an hour consisted of eating my dinner, chatting with customers, and neighbors and making eye contact with the cute bartender. One of my employees showed up, and a few more customers rolled through when the band took a break upstairs. One of my colleagues sons came by and invited me upstairs and even offered to pay my cover charge. I grabbed my drink and followed him upstairs. The lady taking the cover charge met my eye and said "you look familiar...". I introduced myself and mentioned my company and she reciprocated with her name and mentioned she was a client. My buddy then said "Dude, I already paid your cover, you don't have to flirt with the ticket lady!"
Maybe I'll just watch the band a bit
As we entered the second floor I scanned the crowd. I noticed a woman who I had met at the last place I'd seen this band. She had given me her number but I'd never called her. Tonight she never met my glance the whole night. She did not look happy the whole time. I chatted briefly with one of her 6 ft tall female friends but she didn't hook. I went on socializing with males and females alike, just people watching. The age range was from 75-21 with majority 21-30. There was maybe 50 people in the small room
Meeting and Seducing Blondie
An older female acquaintance came up with a younger slender blonde who was giving me quite direct eye contact. I introduced myself, and got the "You look familiar" line again. She followed with "Are you on Match?" I answered in the negative. So we began talking about our family names and she explained who her ex husband was. Turns out he is both a former neighbor and former company client. I danced with my two female friends (yes 2 on 1) when the band started back up, then the older one deftly abandoned Blondie in my care. At this point she volunteered "I think you better take my number." Throughout the rest of the evening I had my hand on the small of Blondie's back, and after a slow dance she met my lips with a kiss. My hand found it's way under her shirt, and I could NOT find any sign of underwear as I gently massaged her lower back and waistline, discreetly hidden under her jacket. I asked her at that point what her plans were after, and she said "I have to drive my friends home tonight" I pressed her to meet up after and she countered with, "No, but let's hang out tomorrow."
At this point it was after 1:00 am. I'd had 4 cocktails over 4 hours when I'd planned on one and done...I bid her goodbye with a deep and passionate kiss, and hoped I could text her and elicit a "Come on over" text after she dropped off her charges, as previous experiences had panned out.
She declined the text invite and texted back "I don't go to bars looking for sex" , as well as a few other statements that were very ASD in nature. I went home and got a few hours sleep before work the next morning.
The Next Morning
About 10 am I get a flirty text and invite to "hang out". At this point, I'm starting to feel a little guilty. I know this woman is looking for a boyfriend, and given our community connection, the possibility of a discrete rendezvous is next to nil. In retrospect, I realized I was letting my ego run my brain as I was flattered that she was enamored by my charm. I stewed on what my text response would be, and what the social implications would be. She reiterated her ASD stance and once more proposed we "hang out" that weekend. I knew I had to not let this go any further....With trembling hands, I texted back "I appreciate your invitation, but I'm afraid it is not in the cards" . She texted back 3 more times, reiterating her ASD stance. I did not respond.
Five Days Later....
I get a text..... "Hi" with a smiley. I did not respond.
Here's the lesson
If you hold a lover frame, with an older woman, she will either accept it or fight it. You do have to be sure she is attracted or else you are going to be considered a pushy harasser. I only propositioned her once, and she strenuously resisted. I never brought it up again. You might wonder why I would turn down a hangout with a hot, slender blonde. I actually have a 5 day stretch with another longer term guaranteed fuckfest coming to visit from out of town during holiday. I would say I'm trying to LSNFTEthis woman.
